The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship. These are just
three little BUT VERY POWERFUL words !!! Try them
I’ll Be There
If
you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take
a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles
from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase “I’ll be
there.” Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can
give. When we’re truly present for other people, important things
happen to them & us. We are renewed in love and friendship.We are
restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core
of civility.
I Miss You
Perhaps
more marriages could be saved & strengthened if couples simply
& sincerely say to each other “I miss you.” This powerful
affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired &
loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an
unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday,
just to say “I miss you.”
I Respect You / I Trust You
Respect
and trust is another way of showing love. Its conveys the feeling that
another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they
were adults you will strengthen the bonds & become close friends.
This applies to all interpersonal relationships
Maybe You’re Right
This
phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring
frayed emotions. The flip side to “maybe you’re right” is the humility
of admitting maybe “I’m wrong”. Let’s face it. When you have a heated
argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person’s point of
view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk
of seriously damaging the relationship between you.Saying “maybe you’re
right” can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you
may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more
rational manner.
Please Forgive Me
Many
broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit
their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to
faults and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he
has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is
wiser today than he was yesterday.
I Thank You
Gratitude
is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of
good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for
granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many
expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of
friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of
gratitude.
Count On Me
A
friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an
essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that
bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be
steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there
indicating “you can count on me.”
Let Me Help
The
best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt
they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in
and help.
I Understand You
People
become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person
accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many
little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools
for healing relationship. This applies to any relationship.
Go For It
We
are all unique individuals. Don’t try to get your friends to conform to
your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how
weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to
that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their
dreams. Tell them to “go for it.”
I Love You
Perhaps
the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that
you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs. The
need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted.Your spouse, your
children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little
words “I love you.”
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Never regret a day in your life.
Good days give you happiness;
Bad days give you experiences;
Both are essential to life
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