Hi Dan, I never realized how identical female abusers are to male abusers. Amazing. Thx for sharing that - must have been a painful 7 years followed by an ecstatic 7 years. ;-)
Larry T (67 MGB, 74 911, 78 240D, 91 300D) www.youroil.net for Oil Analysis and Weber Parts Test Results http://members.rennlist.com/oil PORSCHE POSTERS! youroil.net Weber Carb Info http://members.rennlist.com/webercarbs . ----- Original Message ----- From: "Dan Weeks" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <mercedes@okiebenz.com> Sent: Wednesday, January 30, 2008 4:58 PM Subject: [MBZ] OT Bipolar GF? Was Admin > > On Jan 30, 2008, at 2:37 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > >>> In this current relationship, my GF has these mood swings and we >>> go from a >>> having a great experience with each other to "what the hell did I >>> say or >>> do to you?"... defending my words or position or even my person. >>> Having >>> my face scratched, body punched, slapped. I have had my clothes >>> ripped >>> off of my person. She has gotten so low that she has asked me to >>> kill >>> her. Then the next another day, she is on cloud #9. For example, >>> everything is fine- let's go see about this or that and life is >>> fun. I >>> think she gets off on these highs. She will leave my house to run >>> errands >>> as happy as a lark...then she'll show up back at my house all >>> depressed >>> and life is all wrong: everything is shit, men are shit, life >>> sucks and >>> I'm such a bastard. > > Michael: > > My condolences to you. Very painful experience, as I know personally. > I was married to such a woman for 20 abusive years. I thought it > would get better; I thought it was all my fault; etc. It got worse. > And worse. Eventually, after a bunch of therapy and other > interventions, I realized it wasn't me, it was her. She was begged by > various therapists to get help; she didn't. As near as I can tell, > she's borderline. I got divorced 7 years ago, and the past 7 years > have been the happiest of my life. She has continued to deteriorate. > > Given my experience, I'd run, not walk, away. > > Dan > > > _______________________________________ > http://www.okiebenz.com > For new parts see official list sponsor: http://www.buymbparts.com/ > For used parts email [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > To Unsubscribe or change delivery options go to: > http://okiebenz.com/mailman/listinfo/mercedes_okiebenz.com _______________________________________ http://www.okiebenz.com For new parts see official list sponsor: http://www.buymbparts.com/ For used parts email [EMAIL PROTECTED] To Unsubscribe or change delivery options go to: http://okiebenz.com/mailman/listinfo/mercedes_okiebenz.com
