Sorry, I consider the phone number way too invasive for this type of
transaction. If it were me and I had zero feedback I would:
a) Pass on your auction, figuring you were being way too
uptight about the whole deal -- by the way, you don't really explain "why" you
want zero-feedback bidders to check in with you this way. I would at least
explain that you have had a lot of problems with zero-feedback bidders not
paying in the past. You have, right? Had a lot of problems, I mean?
b) If I really wanted to bid on the item bad, I would send you my name and
address -- because as you say I would have to do that anyway if I won -- but I
would send you a false phone number. You would not know -- I'm sure you
don't call just to see if I've given you a false phone number.
...and, incidentally, if I were just a prankster looking to mess with your
auctions, I'd send you a false name, address and phone number and just go ahead
and screw with you anyway. In fact... consider this: If I were one of these
asshole juvenile pranksters that Freeman talks about -- I might read
your notice and take it as a challenge and decide to screw with you just because
you're making such a big deal about it! Some sociopath types think this way, you
know.
So, I don't see how your requirement is really "protecting" you in any
meaningful way -- and, like I say, if it was me with zero feedback looking at
your auction... unless I really wanted it bad, I'd just take a pass and move on
to the next auction.
I do not want a bunch of strangers knowing my phone number, particularly
when there's really no reason for them to know it. I do not provide my phone
number to those who buy from me, unless some unusual circumstance requires it. I
do not expect people I buy from to ask for my phone number -- again, not unless
there is a darn good reason.
-- JR
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