All this talk about schools and charities shouldn't be limited to BSA. The
following is a copy of a letter my wife sent out to the schools this week
concerning a problem from last year. As much as I want to say here it is
without comment; I can't. Read the third paragraph carefully. In the BSA case
I think the Supreme Court ruling was for the same reasons.  
Ken Nelson 
Longfellow Neighborhood



To All It May Concern:

A few days in front of Halloween, my daughter, Eva Nelson,
brought home a box for collection of coins. It was for U.N.I.C.E.F.,
a charity of long standing. "Trick-or-Treat for U.N.I.C.E.F." was
a common way of raising funds for the organization even in the
days of my youth. However, upon questioning my daughter about
what she was doing and why, she was only able to give me a brief
explanation that "there were starving children in the south". That, in
my opinion, was incomplete information.

As a parent I was appalled by the obviously misleading and foolish
assumption that somehow the south had the only starving children in
America. Statistic bear out differing data than that supplied to my
daughter as a justification of collection of monies. We may look no
further than the neighborhood schools to actually find children who
are nutritionally "at risk". I find it curious that such mythological data
is spoon fed to children who may well be needing the very charity
for which they are asked to contribute.

Equally appalling is the presumption of the staff in general, and Karen
Utter as former U.N.I.C.E.F. fund raising chair in particular, that they
have the right to choose which charity is appropriate for students to
financially support. I am of the opinion that we, as a society on the whole,
are lacking in the arena of social responsibility. However, this does
not permit the schools, or any agent thereof, to dictate how or to whom
my charitable contribution, or that of any child, should be garnered. No one
should have the right to usurp my parental values, or impose their own
questionable values on children in their keeping.

However well intended it may be, I can only view such attempts to
sway young school children to collect money as morally wrong. Especially
in the light that no parents were informed that such presentations were to
take place. No information was supplied to parents in regard to the
character of the charity, either before or after the fact. No permission
was granted or even asked for before or after such presentations. In
essence, solicitation of fundraising in such a manner only serves to prey
on the vulnerability and innocence of children with no balance of parental
participation.

As a parent with the well being of children in mind, I champion the cause
of parental rights over situations such as these. It is my intent that
common sense and respect will win out: not the knee-jerk middle class 
guilt that governed such a poorly thought out fundraising fiasco.

Sincerely,

Jean Brown
Seward Parent




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