After a few hours of sitting here reading I found a temporary
solution that can be done from a users end. The recipiant has no idea if
this is true or not and all I need to find is how to remove the message
based on the domain. Here is what I found (I hope this helps others out
there).
[Using Qmail 1.3]
File = .qmail
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# This can include wildcards such as &*@*.domain.com
# If the user chooses, they can give the reason for the bounce in ""
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&address@xxxxxxxxxxx
|bouncesaying "some text" grep -q -v XXXXX && exit 0
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