+1 to Harris's comment

To add something a bit minor and pedantic, however, wheelchair ramps are
*also* something where dances commonly compromise.  I would love it if
every dance were accessible to everyone, but in choosing venues for dances
we need to weigh a lot of factors (floor, size, cost, location, ...) and in
parts of the country with a lot of pre-ADA buildings this often means
ending up somewhere without a ramp or elevator.

(Though I do wish dances would at least list on their websites whether
they're accessible via wheelchair)

Jeff

On Sat, Jan 7, 2023 at 4:12 PM Harris Lapiroff via Organizers <
[email protected]> wrote:

> Julian:
>
> > Like, how is this "both sides have a preference" narrative any different
> from able-bodied people being like "Oh, well, I just don't like handicapped
> ramps, I prefer steps"?
>
> I think we're on similar pages. You seem to be agreeing it's OK if some
> dances are mask-optional as long as not all of them are—which I think I
> agree with. I definitely wouldn't advocate that every dance should drop
> their masking right now. Right now in the Boston area, where I dance, I
> believe there are *no* mask-optional dances unless you count Worcester,
> which is over an hour drive. So we have the opposite situation here: if you
> would like to contra dance without a mask, you can't. I agree this is less
> bad than people who need mask-required dances not being able to access
> them, but I think it's still some amount of bad, since I have talked to
> people (who, again, are not crazy or callous, but dear friends who I have
> danced with for many years and who took covid precautions very seriously
> for most of the pandemic) who have told me that they will stop contra
> dancing if they can't find unmasked dances soon.
>
> I think masks are not very analogous to ramps. An entryway ramp doesn't
> have much effect on anyone's experience of dancing except to make the dance
> more inclusive. Besides maybe construction costs, I can't think of much
> downside to having an entry ramp and there's plenty of upside.
>
> On the other hand, I think many people find that masks impair their
> enjoyment of dancing. This isn't true for all of us, but it's definitely
> true for some of us. A better analogy might be another covid precaution:
> open windows. In the dead of winter a hall with all of its windows open
> might be pretty chilly. In summer it might be sweaty and humid. But it
> makes respiratory virus transmission much less likely if you make the air
> inside mix as much as possible with the air outside. In the right hall, I
> suspect having all the windows open would be *more* effective than a mask
> requirement. But most dances I've encountered post pandemic still sometimes
> close their windows if the temperature or humidity would otherwise be
> unpleasant and I haven't seen a lot of hubbub about it.
>
> Anyone who agrees that those dances can reasonably close their windows
> understands that minimizing transmission does not necessarily mean taking
> every possible precaution. (I'm sure you can think of other precautions we
> also don't take at most dances, even if they'd make it safer.) So there's
> acceptable debate on what precautions strike the right balance of safety
> and enjoyment for your community. For some people masks strike that
> balance, for others they don't. I think both views there are pretty
> reasonable. (Personally I am not sure I would go to a dance without a mask
> in the near future, but I do want people to have the option to and I'm
> trying to explain why I see it as basically reasonable.)
>
> I think an additional element here is that it's hard to see that the covid
> situation is going to get much better in the future. When we were waiting
> for the first vaccines, there was an obvious target time for when things
> might improve. We don't have anything like that now. I think things will
> continue to get less risky covid-wise over time, but I expect that it will
> be slow and progress won't always be obvious except in retrospect. I think
> people are reasonable for asking "If we can't dance without masks now, when
> can we dance without masks?" It's possible your answer to that is "No time
> in the foreseeable future," but I think a lot of people won't like that
> answer very much. Again, I *don't *think every dance should immediately
> unmask, but I do understand why our community is split on this and I don't
> think the dancers who want mask-optional dances are crazy or callous.
>
> Perry:
>
> > I have to question if now, this current moment, is the time to be asking
> this.
>
> Cases are spiking now, but, if history holds—and who knows, it may or may
> not—they'll be declining soon and I think it's good to have conversations
> in anticipation of that. Right now is around the time when BIDA decided to
> restart last year and, when our dance restarted in February, Boston
> wastewater levels were at a 6-month low.
>
> Harris
>
> On Fri, Jan 6, 2023 at 11:19 PM Julian Blechner via Organizers <
> [email protected]> wrote:
>
>> Question for anyone with the "you will alienate someone" or "everyone has
>> a different level of risk" mindset:
>> In other areas of life, do you consider someone's personal preference
>> (like not wearing a mask) the same as someone's health needs (like having a
>> health condition, or a family member who does)?
>>
>>
>> I'm not asking to be mean or rude. I genuinely would love an explanation.
>>
>> I think there actually _is_ a way to please most people, and not just
>> disregard people with medical conditions (or family with them).
>> That is - making sure no area's dances are all mask-optional.
>> There's a big difference between an area having _some_ mask-optional
>> dances, sure, but if they're _all_ mask-optional.
>>
>> Thanks,
>> Julian Blechner
>>
>> On Fri, Jan 6, 2023 at 5:56 PM John and/or Jan Bloom via Organizers <
>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>
>>> As Alan said,  whatever you do you will alienate someone.
>>>
>>> What I did with the Brunswick ECD was to ask all of the dancers
>>>   - would you dance if masks were required
>>>   - would you dance if masks were optional
>>> and so on.
>>>
>>> Then I picked the rules that maximized the number of dancers.
>>>
>>> I realize that this is harder for Contra, where you have a lot of
>>> dancers that you can't ask, including potential future dancers.    But in
>>> my case it seemed like the right way to do it.
>>>
>>> John Bloom
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