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ISLAMO-PHOBIC? THINK AGAIN
PART 1

 

By Debra Rae
August 27, 2011
NewsWithViews.com

Cultural Lessons from Girls of Riyadh and Kuwait

Recently I read a fascinating book unlike any other. Translated into English
from Arabic, the Girls of Riyadh compiles a series of emails written by a
young Saudi Arabian woman who, at the time of the book’s release, was in
Chicago pursuing an endodontic degree.[1]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm#_ftn1> 

At the same time the author’s portrayals of her peers are culturally
predictable, they are likewise disarmingly surprising. Author Rajaa Alsanea
cleverly applies her keen sense of humor and incredibly insightful
observations to delightful tales of girlish antics. Within the context of
Riyadh’s societal and cultural mores, each girl’s story captures the
imagination of readers from the East—and the curiosity of those from the
West. 

A Worldview “Better Felt Than Telt”

As a woman, I am intrigued by accounts of these girls’ romances, coupled
with their remarkable achievements in academia, not to mention their notable
career aspirations. I am further moved that sincerely held religious
convictions guide every aspect of their lives. Moreover, in reading these
published emails, I’m reminded of my own youth. 

You see, from 1971-1973, I taught at the American School of Kuwait and, in
the summer of 1974, I tutored the Kuwaiti Head of Parliament’s daughter in
preparation for her freshman year of college. This young lady was on her way
to the United States, and my job was to school her in colloquialisms and to
increase her English vocabulary. To that end, I was invited into her life at
home, at work, and at play. 

Coupled with Alanea’s portrayals of girls of Riyadh, my experiences with
girls of Kuwait demonstrate how a defined worldview shapes popular culture,
education, economies, and geo-political policies enforced by leaders. For
this reason, those already invested in a worldview do well to reflect upon
that view’s reach and impact, particularly how it relates to competing or
clashing ones. Unfortunately, too many among us choose instead to remain
ignorant. 

Failing to grasp worldviews vying for supremacy in our changing times, the
un- or mis- informed fall prey to winds of change that are certain to set
their vessels adrift. Effective dialogue between East and West depends on
knowledge. It’s for this reason that I share simple, but crucial lessons
I’ve learned from rare glimpses into the ordinary lives of affluent young
women of Islam. To these, I add accounts of extraordinary experiences of
ordinary Americans when Islamic philosophy and methodology are imposed on
them against their will. 

Not the Western Way

Set apart by her uncommon background, Alsanea invites readers (both “ladies
and gentlemen”) to join her as if she were a tour guide to a new world, one
“closer than what you’d imagine.” Her expressed task is to provide the
inside scoop of conservative Islamic society as experienced by privileged
young Saudi women. Escapades of the clique of girl friends she introduces
demonstrate how some Muslim women are beginning to carve out their own way—a
reformed way, yes, but not the Western way. Alsanea makes this point very
clear.

Keep in mind that “reform” in the Muslim world means something entirely
different to Muslims from what it means to infidels—i.e., non-Muslims. To
Asanea and her peers, liberated womanhood rests somewhere in between
contemporary Western society and sharia.[2]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm#_ftn2> 

I repeat: It’s not the Western way. Even girl friend Michelle, whose
maternal family is as American as apple pie, returns “home” to Saudi Arabia
from her “visits” stateside. The faith of her father beckons Michelle back
to her Islamic society largely veiled from Western view.

The Girls of Kuwait

Also among the affluent upper class, my Kuwaiti student was confident,
outspoken, and curious. Myself only twenty-five years of age, we weren’t
much distanced in age. Though I was her teacher, she came across, in many
ways, as “older” (certainly more aggressive) than I. 

Budding Women of Islam

Reading Girls of Riyadh refreshed my recollections of this young lady’s
group of Kuwaiti girl friends, whose everyday lives were akin to those of
the Riyadh girls. Though decades distanced the Saudi clique from their
Kuwaiti counterparts, their experiences as Muslim women were more similar
than not. 

First hand observation of contemporary desert life, framed by
seventh-century Arabian culture, intrigued me in the 1970s, and all the more
today. Whether in Riyadh or Kuwait City, a Muslim woman’s lot in life is
defined by nonnegotiable religious restrictions. While upper class Gulf
women study hard and subsequently receive advanced education degrees, they
remain under the thumb of a decidedly patriarchal system. 

Marrying well (and successfully) tops the list of “to dos” for a dutiful
Muslim woman. Muhammad referred to women as man “toys”; and hell, he warned,
is replete with ungrateful women who had failed to please their husbands. If
that’s not enough, a man’s testimony in courts of law carries the weight of
two women’s testimonies, and women in strict Islamic states may not drive or
vote.[3] <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm#_ftn3> 

Separation of the Sexes

Toward the close of my summer employment in 1974, I was invited to a
traditional graduation party for my Kuwaiti student and, in a very unique
way, gained access to a privileged world unknown to most. 

A Westerner unencumbered by limitations, as these, I eyed with great
curiosity the scores of young Kuwaiti women who attended that graduation
celebration to which I was invited decades earlier. Once out of the public
eye, these lovely girls shed their abiyas to reveal an astonishing array of
the latest European designer fashions.[4]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm#_ftn4> 

Musicians were the only men allowed, but judging from the flashy,
form-enhancing attire of these voluptuous young women, one would think their
sole charge was to attract and hook a man! Suffice it to say, once a girl is
earmarked for marriage, she is further immersed in training to perfect “the
art of seduction,” which, I learned, is already very well developed by her
teens. 

Each Kuwaiti girl in attendance was lavished in jewels (no dime store
imitations!). Sculpted hair and exotic make-up mirrored—but preceded and
exceeded in sophistication—the Designing Women style of America’s 1980s.
What author Rajaa Alsanea characterized as her “signature, shameless,
crimson-red lipstick” painted the lips and fashionably formed fingernails of
my student and her peers. 

Competition and Jealousy

As the evening progressed, each guest was compelled, one after another, to
take the dance floor (what appeared to be a long hallway down the center of
the room) and “strut her stuff,” as if reenacting an old fashioned “cake
walk.” Among onlookers were moms, known humorously as “capital funds and
mothers of sons,” who checked out each beauty for suitability as a potential
bride for their sons. 

Assuming the posture of Paris runway models, guests took their turns while
huddled onlookers chattered among themselves. To the best of her ability,
each girl averted “the evil eye” which, if directed her way, bestowed bad
luck (or so she thought). Even so, each dancer’s bloodline, family wealth,
and status were as freely denigrated as her physical appearance. What the
girls refer to as “Satan’s evil whisperings” could be downright brutal—e.g.,
She’s too fat, has a big nose and/or an ugly dress. So-and-so’s prettier,
etc. 

As with the Saudi girls, so it was with girls of Kuwait. Though highly
competitive and openly critical of one another, they clearly enjoyed
lifelong friendships marked by genuine affection. Shill trills (similar to
wild West warrior whoops) were interjected periodically as if to say, “Way
to go, girl friend!” These were interspersed with “pep” chants—i.e., “a
thousand blessings and peace be upon you, beloved of Allah, Muhammad!” 

When it came my turn to take center stage at this graduation shindig, I
stood to my feet, headed down the runway, and immediately felt the sting of
buzzing gossip. Once my gig was up, the girls praised my “beauty and grace.”
Of course, I recognized that these young women had surely noticed my dress
wasn’t a designer original, nor were my “jewels” museum quality. Admittedly,
my dance moves were iffy; nevertheless, to my credit, I competed well in the
“big hair” department. It was, after all, the seventies!

Superstition and Fate

No big surprises here: Girlish competition and jealousies are typical of all
teens, especially among the affluent. However, it puzzles me that, no matter
how sophisticated and educated they are, girls of Riyadh and Kuwait succumb
to superstition. Ouija boards answer their questions, and personal fortunes
are sought out through “readings” of coffee grounds and tealeaves. Even when
referenced nonchalantly, as if only in fun, signs of the Zodiac weigh
heavily in predicting success of soon-to-be-arranged marriages.

“Fate” likewise drives the Eastern mind. While a resident of Kuwait, I
observed that some Muslims seem to think as follows: “If I live, I live; if
I die, I die. Whether or not I conduct my affairs rationally, my plight in
life rests solely in the hands of Fate. So be it.”

Predictably, the girls of Riyadh echoed this line of reasoning. One’s plight
in love rests solely in the hands of Fate. So be it. At her wedding party in
Riyadh, for example, the bride’s friends moaned, “The Prophet Muhammad used
to send up prayers for the unlovely ones; and now the ugly ones seem to be
in demand these days, and not us.” That’s just the way it is. Bummers!

East is East, and West is West

Perhaps more entertaining than anthropomorphically relevant, our girls of
Riyadh nonetheless have much to teach us about Islamic culture and faith. I
accept that today’s ever expanding “social media” shows Eastern kids to have
much in common with their Western counterparts in growing up, schooling,
relating, loving, and finding their way in our increasingly complex world. 

 

Rightly so, modern Saudi women perceive themselves as catalysts for reform;
but they do not look to the West for definition. Once again, I emphasize
that the “new way” they’re pioneering is not the Western way. For us to
imagine otherwise is unfounded.

Privileged Saudi women appear far more interested in becoming excellent
doctors, dentists, and journalists than they are in “wiping Israel off the
face of the Earth.”[5] <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm#_ftn5>
I’m guessing that, once they come of age, these ladies would rather “make
love, not war.” But make no mistake. Hollywood may tickle the fancies of
‘tweens, teens, and twenty-somethings but, in the end, Islamic culture will
not be overturned. Nor will the mission of Islam be thwarted. Not by these
lassies anyway. 

The good news is that a large majority of Muslims, despite gender, distance
themselves from radicalism.[6]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm#_ftn6>  Problem is, if only a
tiny percentage of a huge population endorses Wahhabi extremism, the threat
posed is monumental and mustn’t be airbrushed in the name of “Let’s all just
get along.”[7] <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm#_ftn7> 

More to follow in Part 2.

Click here for part -----> 1 <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm>
, 2 <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm> ,

Footnotes:

1. Rajaa Alsanea. Girls of Riyadh. (London: Penguin Books, 2005).
2. Sharia is the restrictive code of laws and rules that govern the life and
behavior of Muslims. Based on the Qur’an and Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad,
sharia references “a path or way to a water hole in the desert.”
3. David Wallechinsky. “The10 Worst Living Dictators.” Parade Magazine
(February 16, 2003): 4.
4. Abiyas are black “tents” (modesty coverings) worn by Gulf State Muslim
women while in public. Abiyas do not replace, but rather overlay “street
clothes” (deemed appropriate only in privacy).
5. Islam and antisemitism
<http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islam_and_antisemitism> 
6. Quran (2:191-193).
7. Without doubt Islam is the largest non-Christian religion in the world,
and some fifteen percent of all of the world’s 1.3 billion Muslims
sympathize with extremism. Spokesperson for the military wing of Hamas in
Gaza admits: “Our people love death.” Furthermore, he adds, “Our goal is to
die for the sake of God; and if we live, we want to humiliate Jews and
trample on their necks."

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ISLAMO-PHOBIC? THINK AGAIN
PART 2

 

By Debra Rae
September 4, 2011
NewsWithViews.com

Theological Lessons Learned from Girls of Riyadh and Kuwait

Not long ago, I read a fascinating book unlike any other. Translated into
English from Arabic, the Girls of Riyadh compiles a series of emails written
by a young Saudi Arabian woman who, at the time of the book’s release, was
pursuing an endodontic degree in the States. Probably more entertaining than
anthropomorphically relevant, our girls of Riyadh have much to teach us
about Islamic culture and faith.[1]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn1> 

Commonalities in matters of the heart provide a helpful springboard for
cross-cultural dialogue, grounded in mutual empathy and respect.
Accordingly, as Alsanea’s stories unfold, the reader is caught up in
romantic fantasies of young Saudi women. Using today’s ever expanding
“social network,” Alsanea shows Eastern kids to have much in common with
their Western counterparts. And that’s a good thing.

Notwithstanding it’s a mistake for Westerners to interpret what they hear,
and actions they observe, solely through the lens of Western culture. Doing
so equates the Judeo-Christian worldview with Islam, but wrongly so. 

State Religion v. Free Exercise Thereof 

On many occasions, we’ve heard public claim that both Christianity and Islam
are religions of peace. I agree. However, the “peace that passes
understanding,” as intended in the Bible, is not the peace touted by
Islamists. To the contrary, Islam speaks to the “peace” that comes by
submitting to Allah—whether by conviction or, if need be, by force. The
devout Muslim’s mission is to establish a global Islamic Caliphate.[2]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn2> 

To a Muslim, there’s no clear distinction between government, society,
culture, the judiciary, and religion. All huddle in singular submission to
Allah and his prophet. In fact, many countries, as Saudi Arabia, endorse
Islam as a State religion to be imposed on citizens. People of the
Book—i.e., Christians and Jews—are allowed to live, but only as second-class
citizens (under what’s called dhimmitude).[3]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn3> 

In contrast, the First Amendment to the United States Constitution prevents
government from imposing any religion, or even interfering with religious
expression. Never intended to silence religionists in the public arena, as
some suppose, the “separation” principle disallows State-sanctioned
religion—e.g., an ummah (community of all who affirm Islam). Instead,
American citizens enjoy the privilege of freedom to worship (or not) as they
please.

It’s true. Not all Westerners embrace or even understand Christian theology.
But whether they know it or not, like it or not, all Americans are
influenced by it. Religious freedom, rule of law, free trade, and right to
private property took form among early predominantly Christian settlements
of the East Coast of North America—namely, at St. Augustine (1565), Plymouth
(1620), Jamestown (1607), and Savannah (1733).

Furthermore, our nation’s Christian legacy finds expression in the first
colonial grant made to Sir Walter Raleigh (1584); the first charter of
Virginia, granted by King James I (1606); subsequent Virginia charters (1609
and 1611); and various ones granted to the other colonies.[4]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn4> 

While author Christian J. Pinto’s exposé of
<http://www.newswithviewsstore.com/mm5/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=N
WVS&Product_Code=DV24&Category_Code=DVD> Secret Mysteries of America’s
Beginnings paints Thomas Paine, John Adams, Thomas Jefferson, and Benjamin
Franklin in less than favorable light, God nonetheless used them to
establish a nation with indisputably Christian underpinnings. Indeed,
five-time Governor of Virginia Patrick Henry (1736-1799) insisted, "It
cannot be emphasized too strongly, nor too often, that this great nation was
founded, not by religionists, but by Christians; not on religions, but on
the Gospel of Jesus Christ."[5]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn5> 

Even so, America allows full, free exercise of all faiths and/or
convictions—or none. While the population of the United States exceeds 300
million, only three percent are Muslim; all the same, in addition to Islamic
day- and weekend- schools, there are some two thousand mosques scattered
across our nation.[6] <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn6> 

In his 1791 autobiography, Benjamin Franklin "did not disapprove" of a
Pennsylvania meeting place designed to accommodate preachers of all
religions. "Even if the Mufti of Constantinople were to send a missionary to
preach Mohammedanism to us,” Franklin mused, “he would find a pulpit at his
service."[7] <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn7> 

A Westerner viewing the Arab Spring from a Judeo-Christian perspective may
presume the fight is for American-style freedom and democracy, but it isn’t.
Be clear. No Arabic word for “democracy” even exists, nor does the Arab
Middle East tolerate any functioning democracy. 

Significantly, no Arab country boasts even a single visible church of Muslim
converts to Christianity. It’s simply not allowed.

Nature of Allah v. YHWH-Jesus

East-West perspectives regarding God himself are like oil and water. Whereas
Allah (“the moon god”) judges arbitrarily, the God of the Bible is fully
consistent in His judgments. In fact, He is the same yesterday, today, and
forever. While Christianity sprang from the ultimate act of love (Christ’s
substitutionary sacrifice), Allah never once is characterized as a god of
love in Qur’anic verse. Of his ninety-nine attributes, love is not one of
them.

In the Bible, Jesus is “the Truth,” and his words are true.[8]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn8>  The tongue, we learn,
is our “most unruly member.”[9]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn9>  To follow in the
Master’s footsteps, the tongue must be kept under guard and fully submitted
to the Holy Spirit. While one of the Ten Commandments is not to bear false
witness, a Muslim may lie with impunity, if need be. Gender distinctions are
likewise telling. In Christ, there’s no “male nor female”; but in Islam,
women are lesser creations.[10]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn10> 

To read Western perspective into Eastern tradition skews reality—and
dangerously so.

Sharia Law v Human Rights [11]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn11> 

Author Rajaa Alsanea portrays girls of Riyadh as devoted to the faith in
which they were raised. “Praise be to Allah” and “may the Prophet rest in
peace” season their everyday speech; and many truly regret their misdeeds
and plead for Allah’s mercy. While I don’t doubt the girls’ sincerity, I
strongly oppose humanitarian abuses of fellow Islamists—to name two: honor
killings and female mutilation.

Rajaa’s exposé of “uni-cultural, uni-ethnic, uni-religious” toxicity under
patriarchal oppression underscores how the Islamic worldview differs from
our own. For example, after hearing about Valentine’s Day through satellite
television channels, Saudis took interest in celebrating it. Girls favored
red accessories, and attentive boys took to the streets, handing out red
roses to lovely passersby—until, that is, the religious police intervened.
To the youngsters’ dismay, this “holiday of love” was outlawed. The
Februarys that followed, even before schoolgirls entered campus gates, their
clothes were subject to inspection for telltale splashes of renegade red! 

Having lived as a young woman in Muslim society, I can relate. While touring
Iran apart from the company of immediate male family members, I once was
hauled in and subsequently intimidated by the “morality police”; and as a
teacher at the American School of Kuwait, I too was subjected to rules and
restrictions that were strictly applied to “all students and female
teachers.” In such cases, male colleagues were exempt.

Were Western women forced by sharia law to wear head-to-toe coverings in
public, or be dragged in and interrogated by the religious police, fewer
Americans would herald politically-correct inclusionism for fear of somehow
appearing—well, you know—intolerant.[12]
<http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm#_ftn12> 

My challenge to the PC crowd is to wake up and smell the garlic and leeks
before equating knowledge with hate and fear.

Islamo-phobic? Think again.

Click here for part -----> 1 <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra198.htm>
, 2 <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra199.htm> ,

Footnotes:

1. Rajaa Alsanea. Girls of Riyadh (London: Penguin Books, 2005).
2. 
3. Dr. William Wagner, How Islam Plans to Change the World (Grand Rapids,
MI: Kregel Publications, 2004): 80.
4. Our Nation <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra158.htm> ’s Heritage:
Noble or Compromised?, Part 1 
5. Secret Mysteries of America's Beginnings
<http://www.newswithviewsstore.com/mm5/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=N
WVS&Product_Code=DV38&Category_Code=DVD>  - Eye of the Phoenix: Secrets of
the Dollar Bill.
6. Omar Khalidi. "Mosque." Contemporary American Religion (New York:
Macmillan, 2000).
7. The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin
<http://www.earlyamerica.com/lives/franklin/chapt10/> 
8. John 14:6; John 17:17
9. James 3:1-12
10. Galatians 3:28
11. Welcome to ShariaMerica <http://www.newswithviews.com/Rae/debra194.htm> 
12. Today's tactical pursuit of religious commonality
<http://conservativecrusader.com/articles/today-s-tactical-pursuit-of-religi
ous-commonality-part-1-exclusionism-pluralism-inclusionism> .

 



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