Barry, your something to think about does that. My thoughts took me to one of my favorite quotes "Nature does not demand that we be perfect; it only requires that we grow." Josh Liebman
And one of my favorite excerpts, from the Velveteen Rabbit "What is REAL?" asked the Rabbit one day, when he and the skin horse were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. " Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?" "Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real." "Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit. "Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful."When you are Real you don't mind being hurt." "Does it happen all at once, like being wound up," he asked, "or bit by bit?" "It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have been carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are REAL, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints, and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand. So, it you've never read the book, it is a great one to have. Written by Margery Williams, often found in the children's section, although I don't know why. Birgitt