Enjoying this today immensely. What I am hearing is a call for a practice of "radical phenomenology" and a deep paying heed. John Heron has some nice instructions on this in his Cooperative Inquiry and another book, Spiritual Inquiry: Research into the Subtle. They are not in depth instructions because he depends on the group to create their own, but I like the terms paying heed and radical phenomenology.
Currently my dissertation question is "what happens when we meet and engage?" and my intention is to notice the co creative emergence....you folks give me hope. Thanks as usual, Nancy Peden