Allison,

You said:
One saving grace for me around 1985 was giving up focussing on positivity. That allowed me to drop into the depression and feel it even more fully than I had allowed myself before. It was such a relief not to be trying to cheer up or even look for the positive.

Sounds like a wise choice! I can imagine that focusing on positivity could keep one stuck, never fully stepping into real feelings.

You reminded me of something I've learned through Appreciative Inquiry. (AI is sometimes misperceived to be about focusing on positivity.) The genius and the art of AI is to find questions that explore what is life-giving, whatever the situation.

This requires no obligation to be positive -- just an invitation to be curious and willing to explore what's there to appreciate in the moment.

still rainy in Seattle,
Peggy

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Hi Nancy,
Whatever works best overall for each person or relationship is the way to go, I reckon.
For about 20 years until the mid 1980s I felt fairly depressed.
One saving grace for me around 1985 was giving up focussing on positivity. That allowed me to drop into the depression and feel it even more fully than I had allowed myself before. It was such a relief not to be trying to cheer up or even look for the positive. But it might be that some people are more suited to positivity than me, so I'm not prescribing my approach for others.

Nowadays I realise that I have difficulty discerning the difference between "that beast" you write of feeding and what is positive. Many things and experiences I might regard as 'negative' one moment could be 'positive' the next, and vice versa.

In my bodywork practice, there is value in attending to all parts of a situation or process. I work gently with a client's body to ever so slightly exaggerate postural eccentricities and support positions of comfort.
Then the body usually returns to greater balance and freedom.
If we didn't focus on the 'negative', we'd miss that opportunity.

Open Space Technology appeals to me because all parts of a system are accepted and pretty well all voices have space to speak. In my experience, participants given the opportunity generally come to some resolution even (and maybe especially) where there is conflict around.

Until Tuesday I might be out of email contact , but will connect during that time if I can.
I'm enjoying this conversation and other topics on the list very much.
Thanks for your part in it,
Allison.



On 23/11/2005, at 9:36 PM, Nancy Weatherhead wrote:

Hello all,

This is a very interesting discussion and one I have to say I have explored rather thoroughly. I have experienced process work and... I do agree that comparisons are not generally worthwhile. However, I will quote (or more
likely mis-quote) another saying... 'spirit goes where attention  flows'.

Ignoring the 'negative' (if you actually are aware it is there) is actually a form of attention and will generally 'feed' that beast... and... staying
in that place can most definitely send one on a long journey into  pain.

On the other hand, focusing on what is 'positive' actually does have
benefits. It generates enthusiasm, health, wellbeing, enjoyment of life.

And both exist at all times in life and living. My personal experiences of
OST have always been deeply positive.

Thanks for inviting this discussion,
Nancy
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On Tue, 22 Nov 2005 19:11:54 +1100, Allison & Jim Baensch
<mb...@iinet.net.au> wrote:

My second paper at the conference will be about high and low dreams -
a paper related to Process Oriented Psychology (Arnold Mindell and
colleagues).
So I am aware of the benefits of not just focussing on the positives
of a situation.
Thanks for your tasty response,
Allison.

Hello Allison,

welcome to the list and thanks for your input. I am thrilled of the
combination of the two sessions you will host at the conference:
Open Space Technology and Process Oriented Psychology.

I have been working with OST for a while and just started a couple of
months ago to involve myself into POP, attending a training with Max
Schupbach. What one usually does is to compare (even if you don't want to
compare), and one starts to compare on different levels. I, for  example,
compare the process level of OST gatherings and POP (unfortunately I have
not yet been exposed to an open forum, but rather to 20-40 people
processes). More interesting for me, I also compare the meta level.

What I found out is that the underlying assumptions and the  foundationss
of OST and POP match somehow. We just had an interesting discussion in the
German OS list about the application of Quantum Physics (QP) to social
processes. POP refers to QP as its main founding theory. In the literature on OST, QP has not been mentioned (at least not that I know), although the
principles, particular the "What ever happens..." are deeply  quantum. I
like the analogies to QP, but as I have learned from physicists, they are just analogies / models, and that there is no computer in the world which can calculate whether quantum effects guide large systems. My main critic
of POP is that they (sometimes) take QP not as a model, but as a  guiding
principle for groups. Although that sounds nice, it is not  supported by
current physics, which can only prove the validity of QP to atomic and
molecular systems.

On the other side, OST (and Appreciative Inquiry/AI) have a lot of
references to Social Constructivism (SC) and Neurobiology, while  POP has
more implicit assumptions of SC.

OST, then, has its foundation in Complexity or Chaos Theory os Systems
Thinking (ST). I always feel that ST as a guiding principle is  closer to
the reality of larger social systems then QP. Maybe it will turn out that ST is a macro description of QP. POP does not speak in system terms but in
quantum terms.

However, the practices and the processes are very different. In  POP, you
have the facilitator as an explicit role (which can shift from  person to
person, because POP assumes non-local roles). In OST you basically  don't
have a facilitator (in German, we speak instead of a "Begleiter",  which
means somebody who goes along with somebody or something).

Another difference between the two processes is the degree to which
conflicts are verbalized and addressed. What I like about OST and  AI is
the ease with which tensions are dealt with. As a consequence, people
might see that there are alternatives to dealing with problems and
conflicts in a violent manner. In POP processes, I have seen a lot of
verbal violence, and grief. One can argue wether this is not part of life, and OST and AI neglect the deep divide which exists between people. As my
spiritual teacher Stephen Gilligan has said: "Life is beautiful, but
sometimes it hurts like hell."

You see, I have only questions, no answers at all. I am fascinated of both
approaches, and would like to hear from you how do you perceive the
difference (and the similarities). If you could send me your presentation
of POP, I would be quite pleased.

Go on! With best regards
Holger Nauheimer

Change Facilitation sro
Panenska 3
81103 Bratislava
Slovakia
http://www.change-management-toolbook.com

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