Learninng the art of silence seems to be much more rewarding for both for there's no Godot with fish in hands.
thank you! spark 2012. 2. 26. 오전 3:16에 "Artur Silva" <arturfsi...@yahoo.com>님이 작성: > Yes, Bernardo, you are right. Sometimes one must give the fish, teach to > fish and also help learning how to learn. > > You are also right that this "to help to learnr" is indeed "to > facilitate". I avoided the term because quite often - as HO mentioned - > many people think (and do) "facilitate too much", disempowering the other > and making more difficult for him to learn by himself. > > And your story in Mozambique (Beira) is marvelous. > > Abraço > > Artur > > ------------------------------ > *From:* Bernhard Weber <web...@gmx.at> > *To:* Artur Silva <arturfsi...@yahoo.com>; World wide Open Space > Technology email list <oslist@lists.openspacetech.org> > *Sent:* Saturday, February 25, 2012 4:43 AM > *Subject:* Re: [OSList] Teach Them to Fish / A Note to My Friends > > Yes Artur, > > based on my own life and working experience, meanwhile most of it in > Ex-colonized countries, our job is, to HELP (I would meanwhile formulate it > in a more systemic-adequate way: FACILITATE) to learn, to learn how to > learn (as a way of being) and - though inicially accepting the > Teacher-Student "Übertragung" (S. Freud, that means also: including the > Gegen-Übertragung)- learn how to disappear. > > Only one thing. Let us not be put into a perception and thinking limiting > TRANCE by strictly following logic thinking. That means there are times, > when the logical either/or is simply not the best solution or even not > human. So there may be cases where we give the fish AND teach to fish. Or > give the fish under conditions that fishing is learned. > > I still remember the blind beggars in Beira, who got only money from me if > they accepted to go to the training center for blind people and look if > they would not be interested to be trained for a job there. > > > Bernardo > > > On Feb 24, 2012, at 6:49 PM, Artur Silva wrote: > > Amen for almost everything! And thank you, Harrison, for reminding us of > all this. > > (...) > > > > _______________________________________________ > OSList mailing list > To post send emails to OSList@lists.openspacetech.org > To unsubscribe send an email to oslist-le...@lists.openspacetech.org > To subscribe or manage your subscription click below: > http://lists.openspacetech.org/listinfo.cgi/oslist-openspacetech.org > >
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