I can relate! Parents seem to have this 'magic wand' belief... "With input from OT my child will be 'normal' and do everything their peers can do". Or they fail to follow through on advice/recommendations. Unfortunately, as OTs we sometimes share the 'magic wand' belief and it can get us down when we don't live up to this! I found that by setting mini-goals I am able to see 'progress' and have more realistic aims. I also engage the parents and children in the decision making process and they are then more willing and able to 'buy' into therapy. By the way Ron, I think a 'good' therapist is one who is willing to do their best for their clients, willing to implement what they know and use best practice to meet their client's needs in as ethical manner possible - asking "how can I improve the service I deliver?" is a good way of starting (or that's my take on things). Veronica
----- Original Message ---- From: "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: OTlist@OTnow.com Sent: Wednesday, 30 May, 2007 6:27:21 PM Subject: Re: [OTlist] Do You Ever Wonder? I've been feeling like this all year. Working in a school for kids with severe cognitive impairments, I'm tired of not being able to "fix" them. No one wants adaptations, environmental changes, they just want the disability to go away. Patty ___________________________________________________________ Yahoo! Mail is the world's favourite email. Don't settle for less, sign up for your free account today http://uk.rd.yahoo.com/evt=44106/*http://uk.docs.yahoo.com/mail/winter07.html -- Options? www.otnow.com/mailman/options/otlist_otnow.com Archive? www.mail-archive.com/otlist@otnow.com ************************************************************************************** Enroll in Boston University's post-professional Master of Science for OTs Online. Gain the skills and credentials to propel your career. www.otdegree.com/otn **************************************************************************************