When I said tried everything, I mean tried EVERYTHING. Im sure I've tried things that have never been tried before.....and Im still trying them. Co-bathing was a step for her, but she doesnt connect breast with suckle. I've even tried this, which has got a suck or two. When feeding her bottles, I say softly and quietly "Mmmmmm, yummy milk Mmmmmm". She begins to associate sucking with milk and what Im saying. When I offer her my breast, I say it, and if shes quiet enough, she will suck a little, but then spits it out saying "Nuh! Nuh!!!"...LOL. The fact remains that I dont care if she goes on or not...she has accepted my breasts...as toys... and I am happy with that. It really is quite an achievment, considering 6 months ago, she would move to hysterics the moment I started lifting my jumper. She is getting better as she gets older, and I think maybe one day she will go on, but then again, maybe she wont. I think the key to relactation is time. People rush into it thinking they havent got a moment to lose, and thats when it doesnt work, because they get tired of the hard work for small reward. Perseverance and time have worked wanders!!!
-----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On Behalf Of Johnston Sent: Monday, 3 June 2002 5:21 PM To: ozmidwifery Subject: RE: relactation Macha, I'd be interested to know if you have every tried co-bathing with Emeleen. This means hopping in the bath tub together and giving her the chance to suckle if she wants to. I think being skin to skin in a quiet watery environment re-triggers primal instincts about feeding in babies. Not sure if it still works at 14 months. I have seen a bottle fed baby (no breast feeding after first week) take the breast at 6 months - mother had not tried to relactate, and was totally blown away by the experience. Joy Johnston -----Original Message----- From: Macha McDonald [SMTP:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] Sent: Sunday, June 02, 2002 11:48 PM To: ozmidwifery Subject: relactation Macha's relactation story..... Baby Emeleen was born 22nd March, 2001. First day was great. Second night was a nightmare. She wouldnt stop crying and my nipples were beginning to hurt. Midwife taught me to use controlled crying...on my 2 DAY old baby (If I knew then what I know now!). She howled through the night, I after exhausting and highly interventional labour was exhausted. Nobody would take my baby to the nursery, I was beginning to become irrational. Next morning, baby still crying, midwife says "I'm not supposed to say this, but you need some sleep. Would you like to give Emeleen some formula?". Gladly agreed, and entered downward spiral at this point. Expressed madly through the day so I wouldnt have to give her formula again. When I got home, after 3 days in hospital, (sore nipples gone, technique on the ball) we were doing alright, feeling a bit stressed and tired, but coping. Day 5, enter bottlefeeding fascist mother. "Shes hungry, you dont have enough milk, your boobs look smaller etc etc". Give baby another bottle. Attend hospital b/f centre, told to feed 3 hourly and express. I still felt incredibly stressed. Baby began putting on weight and was doing fine, but I was convinced, under influence of my mother, that it was not enough. She put on a whole lot, then in 5 days put on 15g, and I panicked. Started giving more bottles. Contacted ABA and got a supply line. Got a script of maxalon, and continued to b/f and supplement with supply line until Emeleen was 5 months old (and a bit). Totally on formula, she was incredibly constipated, so I decided to relactate, also because I missed breastfeeding, and felt totally inadequate, and like a failure. I used Goldfarb/Newman protocol (Diane35 and domperidone) to buil up breast tissue and after a month started expressing anywhere from 8-12 times a day. Tried every method under the sun to get Emeleen back to the breast, and the best I could do was get her to bite them..and then crack up laughing at mummies reaction. I persevered and am able to express about 140mls per day...not much, but I feel great!!!! Emeleen, now 14 months is incredibly interested in my boobs. Always looking down my shirt and squealing with delight when she squeazes milk from my nipples. It is surprisingly a good feeling...although not a complete breastfeeding relationship, we have our own way of doing it. The best thing about it is that I feel satisfied. I feel like I have achieved something, although it may seem like nothing to others. The very fact that she has learnt to accept my breasts and play with them is enough....and of course, she gets the important breastmilk!!! -- This mailing list is sponsored by ACE Graphics. Visit <http://www.acegraphics.com.au> to subscribe or unsubscribe. -- This mailing list is sponsored by ACE Graphics. Visit <http://www.acegraphics.com.au> to subscribe or unsubscribe. -- This mailing list is sponsored by ACE Graphics. Visit <http://www.acegraphics.com.au> to subscribe or unsubscribe.
