I mark them as spam.

Or, respond and say "No."


On Feb 20, 2011, at 2:16 PM, Adrian Crenshaw wrote:

> Hi all,
>    Many on this list run a blog/podcast/etc and I imagine like me you get a 
> lot of "Teach me how to hack" or "do this for me" emails. How do you handle 
> them?
> 
> The categories I get can generally be broken down into:
> 
> 1. Teach me how to hack (which is too broad to ever do).
> 2. I think my boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on me, how can I spy on them 
> (why would I want to get involved?).
> 3. Help me break into my neighbors/schools WiFi/Computer (Why would I help 
> you do something illegal, and leave a subpoenable record in email?).
> 4. Do a bunch of free work for me as a favor and under dubious expectations. 
> I had a guy recently say he wanted be to teach him how to track down spammers 
> so he could sue them since he put a declaimer on his Craig's List posts that 
> said people owed him money ($50,000, and without going to court) if they sent 
> him spam, and various other outrageous demands. That one first got the 
> response that I though he had unreasonable expectations, and when he email 
> again I told him I was not interested and if I got another email from him he 
> owed me $100,000,000. Needless to say he was not happy. I mailed the 
> conversation to the list, but it got rejected, perhaps for being off topic or 
> having too much personal info in it. 
> 5. Questions about things I know nothing about, or that if I do know 
> something about I've already put all I know in an article/video. These 
> questions I normally just point to the best resource I know.
> 
> My responses are usually:
> 
> 1. You question is to vague and sorry, I can't teach individuals over email.
> 2. Ignore them, especially it they used text speak in the email (ur = your, 
> etc). 
> 3. Point them at some other materials and say I don't know much on the 
> subject.
> 4. Sometimes, if it is especially whacked, I may have a snarky response. 
> 
> I like to help people learn, but some people just want too much time, or for 
> you to do all the work for them. What are your normal responses? How do you 
> deal with these things? I don't want to seem like an ass for not helping 
> people, but I'd rather speed my personal time doing other things.
> 
> Thanks,
> Adrian
> 
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