Congrats, Glenn! Łukasz
=================================== www.fotopolis.pl [EMAIL PROTECTED] =================================== internetowy magazyn o fotografii ----- Original Message ----- From: "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Sunday, January 26, 2003 7:07 AM Subject: My Exciting Evening > When I and the friends mentioned in my previous message went into > a coffee shop, I noticed local-artist art on the walls with prices > next to each piece. So I asked our waitress whom I'd ask about > getting my photos on their walls, and she said that their art > director wasn't in, but she'd give him my contact info. > > When she brought our order, she told me the art director had come > in and was upstairs, so one of my friend and I went to fetch my > portfolio out of my car a few blocks away (which I'd tossed into > the car on a random whim), and I asked him to look at it. > > Now I've had "show my portfolio to a gallery or a restaurant" > on my to-do list for about two years, but I'm _shy_[1]. I'm also > insecure. > > You see, I know that I've made some photos I can feel proud of, > and I'm used to hearing my friends tell me in impressed-sounding > voices that I've got great photos, and I've started getting > accustomed to strangers and vague acquaintances saying, "Hey, > these are pretty good!" when I show off my work (but never buying > anything). But an art director, or a gallery-owner, or someone > like that? Whole different level of ego-issues; whole different > bundle of stress and insecurities; and complete lack of confidence > regarding how to _approach_ someone like that (which is where the > shyness comes in). > > > The art director at Xando (31st & Charles, for folks who know > Baltimore) looked at my photos. He made the expected noises > that I interpreted as, "Yeah, that's okay," and "That's nice > enough," but didn't seem _impressed_ at first. Then he got > to a photo that he reacted to by changing his body language. > (It's one that I consider _pretty_ but kind of cliche -- the > Baltimore Aquarium on a sunny day.) Then a few more that > seemed merely ok, and another that he looked at a little longer > and said, "That's nice," a few where he asked where they were > shot, and another that seemed to get a reaction from him ... > and so on to the end of the binder. > > Then he said, "My first available slot is September." > > I was expecting, "I'll keep you in mind." No, he was telling > me my photos would go up in September and asking whether I > wanted the whole restuarant or only part of it (I opted for > just downstairs). He also said that if I wanted to hold a > reception, that'd be cool. > > #blink# > > *pause* > > >>BOUNCE<< > > Looks like I've got my first public showing lined up several > months from now! Big step for me. The art director said that > the photographer who has nine photos grouped together downstairs > now is making a lot of sales; I hope I manage to sell a few this > Fall. Now I get to: drive myself and my friends crazy trying to > decide which photos to show at what sizes and changing my mind > every time I start to second-guess my own judgement; come up with > money to frame enough prints and get a few printed at larger > sizes than what I've got; and try to figure out how I should > price my work. > > WHEEEEEE!!!!! > > > Advice and pointers from those of you who already know how to > play the fine-art game Extremely Welcome. This is water I've > been trying to work up the nerve to dip my toe into for a long > time, but it's all unfamiliar territory. (Now to go dig through > my archived mail for what folks said when I first said I was > interested in going in this direction...) > > September. Looks like a long time from now, but it's probably > a good thing I have that long to prepare. > > -- Glenn > > > [1] Yeah, yeah, I know, I hear it a lot: "How can somebody with > the guts to wear a skirt and heels with a beard in public be shy?" > I am; I just managed to conceptualize that as a Different Matter > than my shyness -- it doesn't involve _approaching_ people, or > calling them on the telephone. In fact, since folks sometimes > approach me to talk to me because of how I dress, it even helps > to _compensate_ for my shyness a little. I talk easily to > strangers if they start the conversation or if there's a BIG > conversation-starter to comment on, and I do fine in the spotlight > (including public-speaking), so most folks think that's the whole > story and don't see where I have trouble; but I'm not making this > up -- I really am shy about approaching people. Less so than a > dozen years ago, thank God, but it's still a problem. > > ***************r-e-k-l-a-m-a************** Chcesz oszczędzić na kosztach obsługi bankowej ? mBIZNES - konto dla firm http://epieniadze.onet.pl/mbiznes