No, you already won, you've got the spouse, I haven't. I am not trying to be competitive with you, as far as I am concerned, you're a friend of mine. It is just that the notion of Western rationality gets pressed into the service of the foreign policy of many a Western country, and therefore, we ought to take it seriously, because the so-called "rationality" which people try to impose on foreigners might only just be a self-serving logic. Winning arguments is only an aim if it's against the political opposition. But let's not get confused about whose side we are on.
Jurriaan