Confidently pretending/bluffing/just-being beats browbeating/evangelizing/
asking-permission every time.  Works more often and kicks up less dust.

q: We need someone to go to the Biloxi office and fix the routers.
a1: You don't think they'll mind me going because they're all rednecks 
    and I'm a woman?

q: We need someone to go to the Biloxi office and fix the routers.
a2: Okay, I'll do it.

Nevermind about gender relations:

q: Can you teach a DBI::Oracle class for me?
a1: Well, I've never done it before, but if it's okay with you,
    I'll be glad to wing it.

q: Can you teach a DBI::Oracle class for me?
a2: Sure.

I'm most impressed by people who don't wear their attributes -- 
gender, race, education, whatever -- on their sleeves.  At least in
the American melting pot, it's rarely necessary.

  -joseph

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