I will probably try PostGreSQL for my needs as it seem powerful enough and easy to ship to my potential customers. For the data provider i will try npgsql as you and others suggested, as it seem enough reliable and stable to be used efficiently.
I will probably use newsgroups again later if and when i will have more specific issue, in the meanwhile i go back to links you have provided me to read faqs for pgsql and npgsql. Thanks everybody for your help and suggestions. ---------------------------(end of broadcast)--------------------------- TIP 9: In versions below 8.0, the planner will ignore your desire to choose an index scan if your joining column's datatypes do not match