> in other words, all but the first row of a group. Interesting question. The below should work and be quick so long as there is a UNIQUE(col1, col2) constraint.
SELECT col1
, col2
FROM j
WHERE col2 != (SELECT col2
FROM j AS jsub
WHERE col1 = j.col1
ORDER BY col2 ASC
LIMIT 1);
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