At 00:34 02/01/2002, Manuel Lemos wrote:
>What you are saying is that when I make a suggestion people become
>emotional and work very hard to raise as much objections as they can
>instead of staying rational and try to see the benefits of the
>suggestion.

It's about how you make the suggestions, Manuel.  "vital to prevent PHP to 
leak even
more users to other languages" is a pretty annoying sentence to read.  In 
case you're not sure what it means - it means that:
(a) PHP is 'leaking' lots of users today
(b) If we do it, it'll go on leaking as it does today
(c) If we don't - it'll leak even more

If people indeed become emotional about suggestions you make (I certainly 
don't) then you probably have earned it yourself.

At any rate - I did not contradict you.  On the contrary, I said I think 
it's important, even very important.  I'm saying that the position you 
usually take, which is kind-of like the biblical prophets telling everybody 
they're wrong and what they must do to prevent hell from breaking loose, 
isn't one that's going to earn you much interest in your ideas.  You may 
try the positive approach instead, especially if you're just pitching an 
idea for somebody else to implement, with no intention of doing anything 
about it yourself.

You think that my behavior is so predictable, you didn't even appear to 
read what I said.  If it wasn't too transparent I'd be saying that it was 
your response which was quite predictable - you always do that when people 
don't cry in joy in the sound of your ideas...

Zeev


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