DCG posted: " DailyMail: Women should embrace numerous sexual partners
instead of channeling their energy into finding 'the one', a new book
advises. Sex coach and midwife Lauren Brim, 31, grew up in a Christian
family in Orange County, California, which taught sex" Respond to this
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<http://fellowshipoftheminds.com/author/dcgere/> Enlightenment: Sleep
around, date less and drop your expectations
<http://fellowshipoftheminds.com/2014/12/01/enlightenment-sleep-around-date-less-and-drop-your-expectations/>
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DCG <http://fellowshipoftheminds.com/author/dcgere/>
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DailyMail
<http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2854113/Sleep-date-drop-expectations-Midwife-turned-sex-coach-raised-Christian-family-reveals-released-sex-100-lovers-8-right-now.html>:
*Women should embrace numerous sexual partners instead of channeling their
energy into finding 'the one', a new book advises.* Sex coach and midwife
Lauren Brim, 31, grew up in a Christian family in Orange County,
California, which taught sex is sacred in marriage. *It is global a social
construct, she says, built to wound women sexually.*
Now, *with eight partners on the go and about 100 under her belt, LA-based
Brim insists she has been enlightened*. 'Sex is really energising. *What’s
tiring is dating*,' she told *The Telegraph*
<http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/11260113/Sex-is-energising.-Dating-is-tiring.-I-have-8-lovers-on-the-go.html>
.*'Women are so insistent on partnership and marriage because culture gives
them no other format for sustained and socially approved sexuality and
love.'*
[image: brim2]
<https://fellowshipofminds.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/brim2.jpg>In her
recently-released book, The New Rules Of Sex, Brim describes her colorful
catalogue of sexual experiences - sex with exes, with women,* with numerous
people at once*, in all manner of unusual locations.
And she reveals midwifery led her to a sexual awakening. 'I was watching
women giving birth,' she explains in a *YouTube*
<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEVbeDs_ne8> promotion, 'and I was seeing
that women who were in touch with their sexuality had much easier birth
experiences - sometimes orgasmic birth experiences; empowering experiences.
Women who weren't in touch with their sexuality really struggled. They had
a lot of interventions a lot of problems.'
The realization provoked her to analyze the rules of sex in western
society, she says. 'I was raised in a Christian family and was getting this
message from my family, from society, from the church, that sexuality was
really not ok; that it was something you could have with your husband when
you got married.
'Later in my adult life I got more messages from society that it was ok to
have sex but only with someone that you saw a potential relationship with;
with someone that could potentially become your husband. *That didnt feel
great either.* So I was suffering a lot with how to be sexual. I had this
sexuality inside me and never felt like I could express it without getting
in trouble for it.'
*When she turned 27, finding a relationship became near-impossible.* 'I
looked around and saw there were many single people around me, all of them
attractive, talented and intelligent people,' she told The Telegraph. 'Some
of them hadn’t been in a relationship for years. I don’t believe in putting
your energy into waiting for the perfect partner to come along. I believe
in looking at what’s there.'
Brim, a trained dancer who has performed with New York City's Radio City
Rockettes, insists the book is not a How To guide - rather a
reconfiguration of sexual rules.
*She says readers will be empowered to stop expecting love from sex, which
should be celebrated in its own right.* 'These expectations I had of my
sexual partners - "why didnt they love me? Sex and relationships and love
were knotted up and I needed to unravel them. Where do sexual ideas come
from? Why are we telling women they can only have relationships? *We need
to set women free because women are really sexual and they're powerful.*’
Her message to the female population? 'Relate to people differently, have
less expectations.'
This "newly-released" book debuted
<http://www.amazon.com/New-Rules-Sex-Lauren-Brim/dp/0692269231/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1417301031&sr=1-1&keywords=the+new+rules+of+sex>
four months ago. Guess she needed some press since it's #123,532
on Amazon's best seller rank. I'm sure it will be a big hit with the
feminazis.
DCG
*DCG <http://fellowshipoftheminds.com/author/dcgere/>* | December 1, 2014
at 3:35 am | Categories: Culture War
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