Assalamu Alaikum Wr.Wb,
Misalnya ceritanya:saya mempunya istri tercinta (Jodoh), bila persetujuan istri, untuk membantu berpoligamy janda. Bisa dilakukan berpoligamy dgn membantu meringankan penderitaan keluarga janda. (malah lebih baik perkawinan poligamy Janda dan Bujangan) Tetapi tidak diperbolehkan berpoligamy memilih cewek cewek cantik, karena itu sangat haram hukum soalnya mereka bukan tergolong orang orang helpless. Sebab hal itu dapat terbentuk dalam bentuk Selingkuh sama orang. Saya tetap bangga sama satu Jodoh berdasarkan hati, sayang dan cinta. Tidak perlu berdasarkan paras muka dan tubuh Putih/indah. Sesungguhnya hanya matter sebenarnya adalah kecocokan dan hati. Saya sudah sangat senang dan menghormati jodoh pemberianNya.. Ini hanya masukan saja. amin... Wassalam Alaikum Wr.Wb, --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], "Faruq" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Dear friends all over the world, > > The article makes an interesting reading. A committed muslim with a > conscience will never make polygamy as a tool to justify it's hyper- > libidos. Polygamy is a last resort from an islamic point of view. > Besides, a consent from first wives as well as from the would-be- > second wife are required to make this polygamy happen. However, we > should keep our eyes wide open in regard to the abuses perpetrated by > some muslims away from this regulations. > > Likewise, a good christian, particularly chatolic, will never marry > again nor divorce his beloved and only wife. Because they believe > she's gifted from heaven. but they should not keep their eyes shut in > terms of many abuses perpetrated by the community even by their own > priests which we can read in so many western media. Adultery > forbidden in any religion, particularly in Islam and maybe in > Christianity too. But the reality is americans and europeans are more > and more far away from their religions. Lesbianism and homosexualism > getting more trendy and in-vogue nowadays. Free-sexualism become a > life-style. All these 'epidemic events' will lead, i believe, to the > disastrous consequences the mandkind going to face in the future. > > From this point of view, the opinion of Prof Turley to legalise > polygamy should be regarded as "a gutsy step" in the right direction. > His idea wont be popular, mind you, because many westerners or all > lust-starving-guys will not agree to this 'crazy' idea. Buat if you > have a conscience, im sure you will agree with him. Polygamy as a > step to minimalise the free-sex epidemic would be welcomed by muslim > communities and once again will prove the correctness of Islamic > teaching point of views on this regard which never change since the > inception of Islam 15 centuries ago. A religion which not and willnot > flip-flop in terms of its principles prescribed in the holy quran. > > cheers and peace, > Faruq, > Manchester > > --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], "janurwulung" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Assalamu'alaikum wr. wb. > > > > Jonathan Turley, seorang profesor bidang hukum di Sekolah > > Tinggi Hukun George Washington, U.S.A melalui sebuah artikel > > di harian "USA Today" mengusulkan legalisasi dari praktek > > poligami. > > > > Dasar argumentasi yang digunakan oleh Turley adalah karena > > hukum resmi yang berlaku di USA (kecuali di negara bagian > > Utah di mana komunitas sekte Mormon - yang juga membolehkan > > poligami - umumnya tinggal) sudah tidak "realistis" lagi > > dan terasa "hiprokrit" dengan kenyataan praktek kehidupan > > sosial yang ada di masyarakat. Sementara kebebasan seksual > > tidak dibatasi: Artinya orang boleh mempunyai partner seks > > sebanyak mereka suka, tanpa di beri sanksi hukum. Sementara > > itu jika partner seks ini kemudian membuat komitment dalam > > bentuk ikatan pernikahan poligami, justeru diancam oleh > > hukuman penjara. > > > > ================================================* Wulung *==== > > > > > > > > <http://www.rense.com > > > > > Floodgates Open - USA > > Today Promotes Polygamy ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> $9.95 domain names from Yahoo!. Register anything. http://us.click.yahoo.com/J8kdrA/y20IAA/yQLSAA/BRUplB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> *************************************************************************** Berdikusi dg Santun & Elegan, dg Semangat Persahabatan. Menuju Indonesia yg Lebih Baik, in Commonality & Shared Destiny. www.ppiindia.shyper.com *************************************************************************** __________________________________________________________________________ Mohon Perhatian: 1. 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