he..he..mari-mari punya pasangan hidup sesama perempuan aja?
--- In ppiindia@yahoogroups.com, "Carla Annamarie" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; > [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Monday, February 28, 2005 3:59 PM > Subject: HAVE A NICE DAY! > > > > > > > > A young wife sat on a > sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and > visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about > marriage, > about > the responsibilities of life and the obligations of > adulthood, the > mother > clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a > clear, > sober > glance upon her daughter. > > "Don't forget your girlfriends," she advised, swirling the > tea leaves > to > the bottom of her glass. "They'll be more important as you > get older. > No > matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you > love > the > children you'll have, you are still going to need > girlfriends. > Remember to > go places with them now and then; do things with them. And > remember > that > "girlfriends" are not only your friends, but your sisters, > your > daughters, > and other relatives too. You'll need other women. Women > always do." > > 'What a funny piece of advice,' the young woman thought. > 'Haven't I > just > gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple- world? I'm > now a > married > woman, for goodness sake! -- a grownup, Surely my husband and > the > family > we'll start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!' > But she > listened to her Mother; she kept contact with her girlfriends > and > made more > each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she > gradually > came > to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking > about. As > time > and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a > woman, > girlfriends > are the mainstays of her life. After almost 50 years of > living in > this > world, here is what I've learned: > Times passes. > Life happens. > Distance separates. > Men don't call when they say they will. > Children grow up-and leave you. > Love waxes and wanes. > Hearts break. > Self-absorption refuses to see the truth. > Careers end. > Jobs come and go. > Children forget to call. > Parents die. > Girlfriends understand. > Colleagues forget favors. > > BUT, no matter how much time and how many miles are between > you, > girlfriends are there. > > A girlfriend is never farther away than needing her can > reach. > > When you have to walk that lonesome valley, and you have to > walk it > for > yourself, your girlfriends will be on the valley's rim, > cheering you > on, > praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, > and > waiting > with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes, they will even > break > the > rules and walk beside you. Or come in and carry you out. My > mother, > sister, sister-in-law, "sisters," extended family, and > friends bless > my > life! The world wouldn't be the same without them, and > neither would > I. > > When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea > of the > incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know > how much > we > would need each other. Every day, we need each other still. > > Pass this on to the women who help make your life work. > > I just did. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Give underprivileged students the materials they need to learn. Bring education to life by funding a specific classroom project. http://us.click.yahoo.com/4F6XtA/_WnJAA/E2hLAA/BRUplB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> *************************************************************************** Berdikusi dg Santun & Elegan, dg Semangat Persahabatan. Menuju Indonesia yg Lebih Baik, in Commonality & Shared Destiny. www.ppi-india.uni.cc *************************************************************************** __________________________________________________________________________ Mohon Perhatian: 1. Harap tdk. memposting/reply yg menyinggung SARA (kecuali sbg otokritik) 2. Pesan yg akan direply harap dihapus, kecuali yg akan dikomentari. 3. Lihat arsip sebelumnya, www.ppi-india.da.ru; 4. Satu email perhari: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 5. No-email/web only: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 6. kembali menerima email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ppiindia/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
