Fatwa di bawah bilang kalo bapak ngembat anak ceweknya sendiri, maka ga boleh ngungkapin kebejadan si bapak tsb kalo si bapak udah bertobat, cukup ngejaga spy si anak ga berduaan dgn bapaknya lagi, dan si anak hrs pake jilbab di depan bapaknya.
Sementara si ibu sendiri msh halal buat si bapak dan perkawinannya msh tetap valid. Jadi kalo misal si habe ngembat anak ceweknya 1x, maka aman ga akan ada masalah asal ngaku lagi khilaf. Pokoknya udah cicip2, sementara bininya msh terus halal. Islam itu emang agama yg benar, hehehe... http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=showfatwa&Option=FatwaId&Id=184937 Fatwa No : 184937 Conceal his sin, but don't let him be in seclusion with her Fatwa Date : Ramadan 20, 1433 / 8-8-2012 *Question* my husband has sexually assaulted our daughter of 14 years old. She says he came in her bedroom, lied down behind her, undress her undergarment and put his private part from behind to front. she is not sure if it was entered or not. he left it there a while and then went away. I have thrown him out the day if found out. He denies it but i dont believe him. He says it is unintentional if it happend. Could i give him another chance. He says he realises his faults now and that he was away from deen and zikr and it is very important to be focused with islaim If i look at whats happend i hate this man. but when i look at the 17 years w've spent together i feel emotionally shattered. Two people who have been told the situation say that in islamic shariah we could no longer live as husband and wife after his action. I don;t event know if I can live with him anymore but would still like to rectify the situation. Please could you tell me is our nikah now haraam Answer All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad , is His slave and Messenger. What this man did is a great, abominable and obnoxious sin. In addition to its being a great sin, it is contrary to the Fitrah and the natural predisposition of human beings as we have clarified in Fataawa 88782<http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=showfatwa&Option=FatwaId&lang=E&Id=88782>and 86063<http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/index.php?page=showfatwa&Option=FatwaId&lang=E&Id=86063>. Dear Sister, what your husband did does not make you forbidden for him and it does not invalidate the marriage. However, you should conceal his sin and not disclose it to people, especially since he claims that he has repented and has become righteous, and that he even denies doing it. Nevertheless, you should be careful of him and not leave any occasion for him to be in seclusion with your daughter lest he should do the same thing again as he cannot be trusted. Also, your daughter should observe Hijaab in front of him as long as it is feared that he would commit what is forbidden with her. Allaah Knows best. [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] ------------------------------------ Post message: prole...@egroups.com Subscribe : proletar-subscr...@egroups.com Unsubscribe : proletar-unsubscr...@egroups.com List owner : proletar-ow...@egroups.com Homepage : http://proletar.8m.com/Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: proletar-dig...@yahoogroups.com proletar-fullfeatu...@yahoogroups.com <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: proletar-unsubscr...@yahoogroups.com <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
