Sunday, 30, April, 2006 (02, Rabi` al-Thani, 1427)

Are They Afraid of Women?
Layla Al-Ahdab • Al-Watan

“Opening the door for women to work in women-only clothes shops, especially 
in the underwear section, with men in the same store but in other 
departments, is dangerous for the women that accept such jobs. This will 
expose women to harassment from these men. Did we forget that the shops 
would be closed for prayer? If the shops were closed, where would they go? 
It could be possible that a man would hide inside the store and wait for the 
store to close down and empty from customers and then assault a female 
worker. What about other problems that come with men and women working 
together?”

The above statement belongs to a person with a wild imagination. This man 
asks why women do not go to prayer. He points out that women could be 
exposed to harassment and even rape if a man hides inside the store during 
prayer time.

My first reaction is to ask: When is a mall empty of people during the 
daytime prayers? It’s hard to conceive an instance where a woman would be 
alone in a room with a deranged attacker in a shopping center. Most likely, 
she will be in a closed store praying or drinking tea with colleagues.

The Labor Ministry’s recent drive to incorporate women sales clerks in 
stores that cater to women does not include any suggestion that women would 
be inside a closed shop with men. The man that made this comment seems 
unable to differentiate between men and women interacting in a salacious 
manner and men and women simply working together in a public place with 
respect and dignity.

This man seems to think that women shouldn’t leave the home to conduct any 
kind of business. This is of course contrary to Islam, which only 
establishes a need for an understanding between the wife and husband. During 
the time of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) women were out in the 
market doing business. It is very important that we separate religion from 
tradition in order to ensure success in opening the field for women to work 
in jobs that are not haram (forbidden).

Apparently conservatives like this man don’t even consider the embarrassment 
that some women might endure discussing panty and bra sizes with a male 
sales clerk. And how many husbands are eager to do this shopping on their 
wives’ behalves? How many brothers are going to shop for their single 
sisters’ underwear?

A few years ago I did an interview with a foreign newspaper journalist, a 
woman. She asked me if the reason behind the conservatives’ opposition to 
women working had anything to do with fear of women. I denied it at the 
time. But after listening to some of the views of conservatives in this 
country, I changed my mind and agreed with the reporters’ sentiment.

http://www.arabnews.com/?page=13&section=0&article=81456&d=20&m=5&y=2006




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