On 27 Jun 06, at 23:21, claire hills wrote: > His Manner and Disposition > > > By the grace of Allah, you are gentle towards the people; if you > had been stern and ill-tempered, they would have dispersed from > round about you (translation of Quran 3:159). > > About himself the prophet (pbuh) said: Allah has sent me as an > apostle so that I may demonstrate perfection of character, > refinement of manners and loftiness of deportment.. (Malik, > Mawatta, Ahmed, Musnad; Mishkat) >
Asyik.... Dia bilang Muhammad "demonstrates perfection of character, refinement of manners and loftiness of deportment.. " Tokoh yang digambarkan oleh hadits dan sirah nabi yang dibaca dengan kejujuran intelektuil sebagai manusia sundel kayak babi dan tukang entototin bocah berumur 9 tahun, ganas, buas, kejam, keji lagi biadab yang telah memimpin ethnic cleansing terhadap orang Yahudi di Yathrib, kepala gerombolan perampok dan penyamun dikatakan "demonstrates perfection of character, refinement of manners and loftiness of deportment.. " ... Agar jelas: claire hills ini menyampaikan half truth... Tapi bukan itu yang paling asyik: karena hadits yang dikutip claire hills itu MUSTAHIL ada yang sahih maka Nabi Muhammad itu hanyalah tokoh fiktif.. Seperti Dracula yang juga adalah tokoh fiktif... > By nature he was gentle and kind hearted, always inclined to be > gracious and to overlook the faults of others. Politeness and > courtesy, compassion and tenderness, simplicity and humility, > sympathy and sincerity were some of the keynotes of his character. > In the cause of right and justice he could be resolute and severe > but more often than not, his severity was tempered with generosity. > > He had charming manners which won him the affection of his followers > and secured their devotion. Though virtually king of Arabia and an > apostle of Allah, he never assumed an air of superiority. Not that > he had to conceal any such vein by practice and artifice; with fear > of Allah, sincere humility was ingrained in his heart. He used to > say, I am a prophet of Allah but I do not know what will be my > end. (Bukhari, Sahih Bukhari, Chapter Al-Janaiz). > > In one of his sermons calculated to instill the fear of Allah and > the day of reckoning in the hearts of men, he said: O people of > Quraish be prepared for the hereafter, I cannot save you from the > punishment of Allah; O Bani Abd Manaf, I cannot save you from Allah; > O Abbas, son of Abdul Mutalib, I cannot protect you either; O > Fatima, dauther of Muhammad, even you I cannot save. (Sahahin) > > He used to pray: O Allah I am but a man. If I hurt anyone in any > manner, then forgive me and do not punish me. (Ahmed, Musnad, Vol. > 6 pg 103). > > He always received people with courtesy and showed respect to older > people and stated: To honor an old man is to show respect to > Allah. He would not deny courtesy even to wicked persons. It is > stated that a person came to his house and asked permission for > admission. The prophet (pbuh) remarked that he was not a good person > but might be admitted. When he came in and while he remained in the > house, he was shown full courtesy. When he left Aisyah (ra) said: > You did not think well of this man, but you treated him so well. > The prophet (pbuh) said: He is a bad person in the sight of Allah > who does not behave courteously and people shun his company because > of his bad manners. (Bukhari, Sahih Bukhari). > > He always the first to greet another and would not withdraw his hand > from a handshake till the other man withdrew his. If one wanted to > say something in his ears, he would not turn away till one had > finished (Abu Dawud, Tirmizi). He did not like people to get up for > him and used to say: Let him who likes people to stand up in his > honour he should seek a place in hell (Abu Dawud, Kitabul Adab, > Muhammadi Press, Delhi). > > He would himself, however, stand up when any dignitary came to him. > He had stood up to receive the wet nurse who had reared him in > infancy and had spread his own sheet for her. His foster brother was > given similar treatment. He avoided sitting at a prominent place in > a gathering, so much so that people coming in had difficulty in > spotting him and had to ask which was the Prophet (pbuh). Quite > frequently uncouth Bedouins accosted him in their own gruff and > impolite manner but he never took offence. (Abu Dawud, Kitabul > Atama). > > He used to visit the poorest of ailing persons and exhorted all > muslims to do likewise (Bukhari, Sahih Bukhari, Chapter Attendance > on ailing persons). He would sit with the humblest of persons > saying that righteousness alone was the criterion of ones > superiority over another. He invariably invited people be they > slaves, servants or the poorest believers to partake with him his > scanty meals (Tirmizi, Suna Tirmizi). > > Whenever he visited a person, he would first greet him and then take > his permission to enter the house. He advised the people to follow > this etiquette and not to get annoyed if anyone declined to give > permission, for it was quite likely the person concerned was busy > otherwise and did not mean any disrespect (Ibid). > > There was no type of household work to low or too undignified for > him. Aisya (ra) has stated: He always joined in household work and > would at times mend his clothes, repair his shoes and sweep the > floor. He would milk, tether, and feed his animals and do the > household shopping. (Qazi Iyaz: Shifa; Bukhari, Sahih Bukhari, > Chapter: Kitabul Adab). > > He would not hesitate to do the menial work of others, particularly > of orphans and widows (Nasi, Darmi). Once when there was no male > member in the house of the companion Kabab Bin Arat who had gone to > the battlefield, he used to go to his house daily and milk his > cattle for the inhabitants (Ibn Saad Vol. 6 pg 213). > > > __________________________________________________ > Do You Yahoo!? > Tired of spam? 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