Itulah hasil ajaran Islam yg benar, hehehe...
>________________________________ >From: sunny <am...@tele2.se> >To: undisclosed-recipi...@yahoo.com >Sent: Friday, June 24, 2011 1:17 AM >Subject: [proletar] Families guard 'honor' while rape victims suffer > > > >Refl : Tanah suci tidak mensucikan penghuninya, bagaimana dengan jutaan yang >datang memlakukan "ibadah suci" tiap tahun. > >http://arabnews.com/saudiarabia/article459788.ece > >Families guard 'honor' while rape victims suffer >By FATIMA AL-SAADI | ARAB NEWS > >Published: Jun 23, 2011 00:25 Updated: Jun 23, 2011 00:25 > >JEDDAH: Many families are still not reporting sexual assaults of their family >members for fear of being stigmatized. > >An ongoing story about the serial Jeddah rapist has sparked a debate about the >importance of reporting such attacks instead of covering them up. > >Police believe the rapist was encouraged to continue his horrific attacks >because some incidents were not reported. > >It is clear his young victims will be left with mental scars that will not be >healed anytime soon. They will need to undergo psychological treatment. > >The victims' families will also need to be counseled, especially in a >conservative society where the chasteness of potential brides is considered >extremely important before they get married. > >The mother of a rape victim told Arab News on the condition of anonymity of >the pain she went through when her daughter was raped. > >"I was with my kids shopping in a major store in Jeddah. I left my children in >the children's playground at the center. I discovered later that my >eight-year-old daughter had gone missing," she said. > >"I knew my daughter had been kidnapped because there was no sign of her inside >the shopping center," the mother said in tears. > >"I eventually found my daughter outside the mall in a very bad condition. She >was brutally raped and had lost a lot of blood. She was in a terrible mental >condition and in total shock." > >She said the father refused to report the incident to police because he did >not want people to talk about his daughter and was ashamed of what had >happened. Eventually, the family moved to another neighborhood. > >The mother said her daughter suffered a lot and became withdrawn, adding that >she was not sleeping properly, refused to play with children and was crying >all the time. Her father started to hate her and treat her badly, sometimes >wishing that she was dead, she added. > >Hanadi, nine, is another victim of rape and her family refused to report the >case to police. > >An overstayer lured her daughter to an abandoned house when she was on her way >home from school. With the help of another man, he brutally raped the girl. > >"My daughter managed to crawl for 400 meters before she reached home. She was >bleeding and in shock," said her mother. > >"Her father refused to report the case to police to avoid shame and scandal. >In his opinion, reporting the attack would damage the family reputation. We >moved to another town and her father always sees Hanadi as a girl with no >future." > >Sarah, one of the Jeddah rapist's victims, was found six months ago in an >abandoned area after she was attacked. She suffered from psychological >problems because of what happened to her. Her family refused to report the >case but later relented when many others came forward to report similar >attacks. > >"We are from a known family and reporting such an incident might have damaged >our reputation. My husband is working in a prominent position. We had the best >opportunity to come forward when we found many other victims also reporting >they had been attacked," said Sarah's mother. > >Dr. Marwa Abdulal, a psychiatrist at a Jeddah hospital, said such attacks on >children are considered extremely heinous crimes that destroy the lives of >victims and their families. > >The children will live in fear and they will suffer from psychological >problems for a long time, she said, adding that victims may become criminals >themselves in the future. > >[Non-text portions of this message have been removed] > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] ------------------------------------ Post message: prole...@egroups.com Subscribe : proletar-subscr...@egroups.com Unsubscribe : proletar-unsubscr...@egroups.com List owner : proletar-ow...@egroups.com Homepage : http://proletar.8m.com/Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: proletar-dig...@yahoogroups.com proletar-fullfeatu...@yahoogroups.com <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: proletar-unsubscr...@yahoogroups.com <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
