Hehehe.... orang Islam itu dilarang berteman dgn kafir, kecuali kalo lagi 
berdaqwah.

Berarti, jangan percaya sama sekali dgn orang Islam kalo mereka mau berteman.


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Can a Muslim be a sincere friend to a kaafir?
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Share |      I have questions about Islam; can you 
explain them to me? Is it permissible for a Muslim to be a sincere 
friend to a person who is not Muslim?.

 
Praise be to Allaah.    
It is not 
permissible for a Muslim to make friends with a mushrik or to take him 
as a close friend, because Islam calls on us to forsake the kaafirs and 
to  disavow them, because they worship someone other than Allaah. Allaah says  
(interpretation of the meaning): 
“O you  who believe! Take not as friends the people who incurred the Wrath of 
Allaah  (i.e. the Jews). Surely, they have despaired of (receiving any good in) 
the  Hereafter, just as the disbelievers have despaired of those (buried) in  
graves (that they will not be resurrected on the Day of Resurrection)”
[al-Mumtahanah 60:13] 
This was also the  teaching of the Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be 
upon him). 
1 – It was  narrated from Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (may Allaah be pleased with him) 
that he  heard the Messenger of Allaah  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon  
him) say, “Do not keep company with anyone but a believer and do not let  
anyone eat your food but one who is pious.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2395;  
Abu Dawood, 4832. Abu ‘Eesa al-Tirmidhi said: this hadeeth is hasan. It was  
also classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 2519). 
Abu ‘Eesa  al-Khattaabi said: Rather he warned against keeping company with 
anyone who  is not pious and against mixing with them or eating with them, 
because  eating with a person instills friendship and love in the heart. 
He said: do  not make friends with anyone who is not pious; do not take him as 
a  companion with whom you eat and chat. 
(Ma’aalim  al-Sunan, Haamish Mukhtasar Sunan Abi Dawood, 7/185, 186). 
2 – It was  narrated from Samurah that the Prophet  (peace and blessings of 
Allaah  be upon him) said: “Do not live among the mushrikeen and do not mix 
with  them, for whoever lives among them or mixes with them is not one of us.”  
(Narrated by al-Bayhaqi, 9/142; al-Haakim, 2/154. He said, it is saheeh  
according to the conditions of al-Bukhaari. The hadeeth was also classed as  
saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilat al-Saheehah, 2/229 with its  corroborating 
reports). 
But it is  permissible to deal with them in a kind manner in the hope that they 
might  become Muslim. 
It was  narrated that Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: There was a 
Jewish  boy who used to serve the Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be  
upon him), and he fell sick. The Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah  be 
upon him) came to visit him. He sat by his head and said, “Become  Muslim.” 
(The boy) looked at his father who was with him, and he (the  father) said, 
“Obey Abu’l-Qaasim  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon  him).” So he became 
Muslim, and the Prophet  (peace and blessings of  Allaah be upon him) went out, 
saying, “Praise be to Allaah Who has saved him from the Fire” (Narrated by 
al-Bukhaari, 1290).
 And Allaah knows best.

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