Hi Daniel
I was faced the same problem two months ago and I was provided with
great help from the list. My big problems were problems in the config
files. Especially your tcp-server problems seem to occur for this
reason. So I sent you my startup script for tcpserver. I have the same
Configuration as you so you should have not a big problem to adapt it to
your setup.
Just call it in the appropriate rc.x level and everything should be
fine.
The documentation you asked for is Dave sills Life with qmail. I think
you yet found it. When I had problems I was also looking for further
documentation but finally I discouvered that you could really everything
to work with LWQ.
hth
/ch