Start by setting a SPF v1 record in your DNS. Then look at inbound mail filters and possibly joining the spam-l list.
This is really the wrong list to discuss spam control and reactions. On Wed, 5 Apr 2006, James Medley wrote: > Hello All, > > Lately my mail queue has been getting a much higher number of queued > messages, mainly from spam. Apparently someone is sending spam and > using my server as a return address. This has in turn stopped some of > our legitimate mail from going through and some showing a reason as > temporarily greylisted. I am running sendmail 8.12.9/ qpopper 4.0.5 > on a Mac G4, OS 10.2.8. If someone can please point me in the right > direction I would appreciate it. > > Jim > > > -- If a person, or organisation, starts to play on your fears it may be that person or organisation that you should fear.