Re: [QUAD-L] Thumb sex male quads

[Stacy Harim]

Title: Thumb sex male quads

Personally I have not even been hit on since my disability.  I am sure that I would try to compensate for what I can't do.  For those of you that say it's how we portray ourselves.  I am told often by the people I talk to that I am so strong for overcoming such adversity and having such a good attitude about life and how its awesome that I am working towards my goals.  If I could only get someone my age that isn't weird to approach me to find out how great of a person I am and find out that I would do my best to compensate for my inabilities when intimacy is involved.    Wow, can't believe I am talking about this, Stacy ----- Original Message ----- From: Houston809 To: paul ; quadlist Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 12:27 PM Subject: [QUAD-L] Thumb sex male quads U go Paul. “) last yr we talked about sex a lot. And I think I  was voted TOP Quad THUMB SEXPERT of THE YEAR >:) I’m sure you’ve done the thumb sex thing by now. I can swear that I’ve cum & DAMN near BLEW the TOP of MY THUMB OFF!!!! as you’ve sex is a mental thing. We as men didn’t know that prior 2 these injuries. So if quadriplegia taught us nothing else it taught us the real meaning of foreplay and how 2 make love. On 12/21/04 4:28 PM, "paul" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hi All,I  have dealt with sexual frustration since my injury.Before my injury I had a happy and healthy sex life.After my injury I did have a relationship that lasted six years.I learned and enjoyed a new sex life,I am a C5/6 quad.It was wonderful.I talked with a urologist concerning erections and had some success.I learned sex is just not about penetration.There are many ways to enjoy sex after paralysis.The relationship has since turned to friendship.I miss so much just to hold her.I have not giving up hope that we might recapture our intamacy or another relationship may lay ahead with another woman.It feels good getting this out.I know one thing,I am going to keep on rolling no matter what.                                      Happy Holidays,Paul