I don’t know how each situation is. And maybe it is a little bit easier 4 me 2 get a woman. But until I get over my insecurities I’ll not be able 2 keep 1 :) Tony is DA MAN with women :) Maybe he can give us all pointers :) I have a gift of GAB so maybe my conversation and (fake) ever so happy, always in a great mood attitude gets me in there. :) Stacy where do you live again?
On 1/8/05 9:33 PM, "Stacy Harim" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Well Houston, I guess you are just different than some of us and women are drawn to you, however it's not that way with me and I am sure others here can tell you the same. I have said it so many times, but I'll say it again. I think I am fairly attractive. I am very outgoing (just as much as before). I do not let others see me sweat or worry about my disability. I initiate conversations. I smile at people and have a positive outlook. I have everything to offer someone as long as it doesn't include material things. I know this about myself, however it seems that men don't like girls in chairs because I used to get hit on all the time and I don't look any different aside from being in a chair. I’m glad that you can still get women, but that's you and you are a rare case it seems after talking to others on the list.
Stacy
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From: Houston809 <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; quadlist <mailto:quad-list@eskimo.com> ; Greg <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Saturday, January 08, 2005 7:18 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration/sensitive
Stacy,
I’m not thinking that it’s really that difficult 2 find a person that’ll be there in a meaningful relationship. I have some problems but some of them it’s more me than them. So don’t think that I’m going against anything I’ve said. But I know that a big part of not having someone is my doing... It could also be others now sometimez we have 2 step back (ROLL BACK) and look at ourselves in the mirror. Would I want 2 be with me if the circumstances were reversed?
Houston
On 1/8/05 1:13 PM, "Stacy Harim" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Your right in the aspect of everyday life. Of course I know that. The statement was related to relationships. Para's are still seen as paralyzed. In the aspect of getting looked at as a sexual being is just as hard for para's to face. To the opposite sex paralyzed is paralyzed.
Stacy
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From: Greg <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Saturday, January 08, 2005 12:20 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration/sensitive
That statement shouldn't hurt anyone. It's true... Paras have it easier than quads. Just like a C5 like me has it easier than a C4. The more moement you have, the more you can do for yourself. If it's not a fact, than show me someone who would volunteer to break their spine a few levels higher.
Greg
"Stacy I wasn't implying that para's have it easier I was just saying if I had a good "Grip" I could help myself!"
