Went through a similar situation in my early stages.  I'm sorry to hear it happened to you, but make sure you keep your head up.  It sounds like you are able to handle things better than most people, but I will still keep you in my thoughts.
Quadius

gina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
I'm so sorry Jim to hear about your wife leaving, like wheelchair said there is a positive note your son is still there and your daughter is pretty close so she can come visit and see you often. I'm also sorry to hear about your agency and caregiver. I hope it works out. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Even if she doesn't want counseling maybe just you and your kids can go.
I am sorry Jim,
Gina

[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
She left.  What a shame, Jim.  I can't begin to feel your pain and loss, but on a positive note... water always seeks its own level.  Granted, it may take some time, but your life and water will both seek their own levels.  If you are part of an independent living center in your area, make them aware of your situation.  Know that 911 exists for your survival if necessary.
I don't know if you have any church members in your area that you can rely on if necessary or in emergency.  But its nice to know your options.  If counseling is still available for you, consider it.  Remember, you still have a 23 year old son at home.
Best Wishes
W
 
 
 
In a message dated 10/10/2006 9:18:58 A.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Well, it finally happened.  My wife informed me about a month and a half ago that she was leaving and taking my 15 soon-to-be 16-year-old daughter with her.  On October 1st she took off and only time will tell what's going to happen.  I'm still in my house with my 23-year-old son and my wife and daughter are renting a house about 16 miles away.  She does not know what she is going to do in terms of divorcing or not but she's told her best friend that she needs some time away.  She has refused to take the family to any counseling since my injury in 2000 and she refuses to go to any type of marriage counseling together or alone.  She made this decision all on her own without talking to me, her best friend, sister or mother.  It was not a real big surprise to me because I knew something was up but still it is not something that I was looking forward to.
 
I was in the process of changing caregiving agencies because the one I am with is having trouble staffing me. Interim Health Care told my told the social worker that they could take my case and at the very last moment they changed their mind so I'm still with my old agency and my evening caregiver has already got a different job so now after Wednesday evening I do not know what's going to happen.  More news at 10 I guess.
 
 





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