10-4 g/f. My ab wife prefers a good massage from my fairly functional hand as the 'normal' positions force all the 'work' onto her and don't really allow her to relax and enjoy the moment. We've been together for 33 years now and 'performance' has never been an issue. We have 3 healthy kids and 4 grand kids now. I fed, diapered, and took my kids everywhere, and now i'm driving the grands around to schools and soccer games. Don't ever accept that you can't do something before you try it a dozen or two times. Sure it's hard, easy is for sissies and incompetents. We're above that. Dave _Dave & Patty's Grandkids_ (http://ocgrands.com/) In a message dated 4/8/2007 7:14:37 A.M. US Mountain Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Ok...I always have to jump in on this subject. I am an Ab girlfriend of a quad...(Hi honey!). Sex is not an issues as far as I am concerned. I think he worries more about it than I do. First of all there is more than one way to please a woman. I very much enjoy the intimacy that we have. I have never been so close to anyone. It takes a special bond to get over the embarrasing issuses of sex and quad-dom. You have to be very open and have an open mind to new ideas. The only issues that I have is lack of privacy and time. For me...satisfaction is not a problem. I am sure that HE would be more happier with more orgasms for his part...wouldn't we all...LOL. I am not sure how to say what I am trying to get accross. If you truly love someone then sex will work itself out. If you are with the right partner then any issues can be worked around with a little creativity. I am sure some AB's that know we are in a relationship have their heads spinning trying to figure us out! Just be open and talk honsestly with your partner....if they are not comfortable with the situation...then get a new partner. Guys...quit worring so much and relax! I promise that sex for women is mostly in our heads...compliment us..makes us feel special and wanted. That is what we all need most. If young guys would learn this from the beginning they would have it made. Some things do get better with age. HAVE FUN! [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Women can, but men can't. How unfair is that. Be cautious. Bacteria is always present in the bladder of the person with the injury. But it can be done. It has been done and it continues to be done. Best Wishes W In a message dated 4/7/2007 8:38:35 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: does anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter? this sounds risky to me... am i the only one? it could be pulled out or cause infection... yikes! =jessica ____________________________________ See what's free at _AOL.com_ (http://www.aol.com/?ncid=AOLAOF00020000000503) . ____________________________________ Now that's room service! _Choose from over 150,000 hotels in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel_ (http://travel.yahoo.com/hotelsearchpage;_ylc=X3oDMTFtaTIzNXVjBF9TAzk3NDA3NTg5BF9zAzI3MTk0ODEEcG9zAzIEc2VjA21haWx0Y WdsaW5lBHNsawNxMS0wNw--) to find your fit. Dave _Visit My Home Page_ (http://www.users.qwest.net/~daveoc/index.html) ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com.
