Shirley, The person has to have a Dr's order to keep you in a nursing home. Getting out of a nursing home first let your Counselor of Community Services know that you are ready to move out & include your social worker at the nursing home.To get out of a nursing home first you have to have a Dr's order, then have a place to go, such as an apartment. Then plan a discharge date. I rented an apartment, turned on utilities then moved into my apt. The social worker set up my necessary equipment which was a hospital bed & a hoyer lift. My daughter-in-law helped me move which was a TV & stand, plus clothes & hygenic needs. I had a computer & desk also. Little by little I started getting pieces of furniture, I call it Early Poverty! Lindaf
----- Original Message ----- From: shirley bell <[email protected]> To: [email protected] Sent: Mon, 18 Apr 2011 19:39:13 -0000 (UTC) Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] story hi linda, how does one get themselves out of a nursing home. did you have a social worker help you? I ask because i worry it may happen to me and people will try to keep me there. Best, Shirley Bell www.ShirleyBellDesigns.com ----- Original Message ----- From:[email protected] To:Ismael Cc:quad-list Sent: Monday, April 18, 2011 2:48 PM Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] story I lived in a nursing home for 51/2 years & hated it! Lindaf ----- Original Message ----- From: Ismael <[email protected]> To: [email protected] Sent: Mon, 18 Apr 2011 18:23:14 -0000 (UTC) Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] story How long you were in the nursing home -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Monday, April 18, 2011 11:45 AM To: Ismael Cc: quad-list Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] story Ismael, Way to go, you sound like a very strong & faithful person, good luck staying out of a nursing home. I got myself out of a nursing home too. Lindaf ----- Original Message ----- From: Ismael To: [email protected] Sent: Mon, 18 Apr 2011 03:59:33 -0000 (UTC) Subject: [QUAD-L] story I was 18 years old when my accidents happen in October I'll be 31 years as a quadriplegic when I was born since day one I've been legally blind every 10 years something happens on my life 18 my accident happened 28 my mother died 38 I got out a nursing home the scary part is what's going to happen when 48 I used to be in a nursing home for 19 years a lot of people thought that I was not going to last out from the nursing home some people thought that I would be only a week out from the nursing home and then I was going to go back other people thought I was going to last a month or a year out of nursing home then I was going to go back hopefully when I turn 48 it doesn't happen of me going back every 10 years something happens on my life

