that's an amazing, even interstellar increase in fb 'friends' you
have, recently, as far as I know... Can one buy friends, on a way to
'global fame'?
Anyway: why should I connect/follow up so closely on someone who's
blocked me mailwise? I'm not cynical or lacking enough self-respect
for that, I think. I'm open for wise, healthy contacts that feel
safe and warm enough, and are mutually learnful and stimulating,
personally. Yet, I do browse sometimes. One may find interesting
stuff some time. The visit on Twitter was learnful on how you look
upon the 313 list and many of its members. I don't feel included in
all that.
M.
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VAN: Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com>
VERZONDEN: woensdag 1 juli 2020 3:20
AAN: Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com>; 313@hyperreal.org
<313@hyperreal.org>
ONDERWERP: Re: What this list is and isn't about
Here's my IG: https://www.instagram.com/schoolcraftwax
And here's my FB: https://www.facebook.com/dalphond
I'm maxed out on FB friends, but everything is public. You don't
miss out on anything if we can't be friends.
I try to be a public educator on the internet.
DENISE DALPHOND, PH.D.
ETHNOMUSICOLOGIST
SCHOOLCRAFTWAX.WORK
On Tue, Jun 30, 2020 at 9:11 PM Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com>
wrote:
don't try to tell me having problems here, then - it's you yourself
having blocked me, with no reasoning. Especially not after my second
mail. I didn't invite you on talking about rape culture. I only
indicated it was an unjust suggestive point you tried to make.
By the way, I nuanced what you didn't yourself. You tweeted, for
instance:
the 313 listserv is a place where racists & sexists thrive.
the 313 Detroit techno listserv is a place where whitesplaining is
the name of the game. & if you don't whitesplain & don't support the
whitesplainers full tilt, you're villainous.
techno and toxic whiteness are BFF. boyfriends 4ever.
the 313 listserv is a place where mostly elderly white men will tell
you who to listen to and who to like and what to think about it.
on the 313 Detroit techno listserv, i'm accused, by kent williams,
the elderly white man moderator, of making the list a shadow of what
it used 2B. it's been dead [Skull] 4 years. boring AF. it's a shadow
of its own death.
I mean... The 313 list might better be (passively or actively)
supported by its members, instead of openly accused of such
behaviour, right?
What do the other members think of this?
I'm quite sure that anyone who's able to communicate constructively
or at least neutrally in an interpersonal sense (which is simply due
as long as anyone doesn't cross lines with someone else), is welcome
here. Of whatever nationality, age, being a he/she/they, and with
any possible skin colour or religion. As long as the love for
Detroit and its culture is a structural link.
And whoever crosses lines in whatever sense to anyone, should be
able (or brave enough) to be confronted with that, get into a
righteous exchange, and take any eventual apt message, to get
straight with facts and people. They
should not be blocked or unsubbed necessarily, but anyone in such
interaction should be or feel invited to get into fair overthinking
and conclusion, based on healthy exchange - with anyone being free
of personal conclusion, but not free of interpersonal respect.
Unless anything bad will take over and gets installed. A forum only
exists by grace of anyone's constructive behaviour.
This, at least, is my way of looking upon this.
Mario
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VAN: Denise Dalphond <denisedalph...@gmail.com>
VERZONDEN: woensdag 1 juli 2020 2:37
AAN: Mario De Block <madb...@hotmail.com>
CC: Kevin Kennedy <the...@gmail.com>; list 313 <313@hyperreal.org>
ONDERWERP: Re: FW: What this list is and isn't about
All my internet is public cause I’m tryin to get globally famous.
Tell your friends. I don’t need to talk to you about rape culture,
bro. I need to be able to talk about music in a safe environment,
which this ain’t. I’m thankful for social networks.
Read on.
