Wed for their wombs, polio wives show India fails its weakest
In rural India, where marriage is often a business transaction
involving dowries, young women with disabilities are married off into
the poorest families

While India has had no new cases of the polio virus for the last three
years due to massive vaccination programmes, it is struggling to
protect the victims of previous epidemics. Photo: Reuters
Hong Kong: From a distance, Kausalya Devi looks like most rural
housewives in India--she is squatting on the ground, bent intently over
dirty vessels.
As you come closer, you see the 20-year-old can't do much more than
crouch: her legs are short, limp appendages, crippled by childhood
polio.
The mother of a two-year-old son, Kausalya can't move on her own and
must be carried by family members. A month ago, she lost her second
child, a baby born two months early after local hospitals struggled to
give her the medical care she needed.
In rural India, where marriage is often a business transaction
involving dowries, young women with disabilities are married off into
the poorest families. Women who can't labour in the fields are
expected to bear children and end up in a government health system
that is ill-equipped to treat them. Others end up with husbands who
demand a steady stream of financial payments or even property from
their families.
"Poverty in this part of Uttar Pradesh is a big problem--when these men
marry a polio survivor it is because they are too poor to get a normal
wife," said I.S. Tomer, a physician and the mayor of one district in
the northern state. "Honestly, if somebody is marrying a girl who is
polio-affected, he's marrying for the sole purpose of having children
for his family."
Most vulnerable
While India has had no new cases of the polio virus for the last three
years due to massive vaccination programmes, it is struggling to
protect the victims of previous epidemics. The World Bank says the
country has as many as 90 million people living with disabilities,
including those caused by polio--most of whom endure discrimination,
barriers to employment, poverty and violence.
A 2005 study of disabled women in Orissa found that a quarter of women
with mental disabilities and 13% with visual, hearing and physical
disabilities--such as those caused by polio--reported having been raped.
There are no reliable statistics on how many people in India live
today with polio. The number could be large because the country once
accounted for more than half the world's infections and had 150,000
cases as recently as 1985.
Global emergency
The polio virus, an infectious disease that is spread through contact
with feces or droplets from a sneeze, attacks the nervous system and
can cause paralysis within hours. It kills as many as 10% of its
victims.
Once almost driven to the brink of eradication, the disease is rearing
its head again in the conflict zones of Pakistan, Cameroon and Syria,
and the World Health Organization earlier this year declared it a
global health emergency.
Nearly half the respondents in a 2005 AC Nielsen and World Bank study
that surveyed more than 1,400 households in Uttar Pradesh and Tamil
Nadu believed the disease was "a curse of God." Almost half believed
an adjustment in dowry was necessary if a disabled person married a
non-disabled spouse. Women are among the worst hit.
"Polio-affected women mostly are married to people on their second
marriages, or very poor families," said Surabhi Shukla, a district
coordinator for a United Nations Children's Fund programme that
vaccinates children in Uttar Pradesh.
Every girl's dream
In India, where the rich spend millions on lavish weddings and
Bollywood films are centered on matrimony, having a spouse can
translate into greater social acceptance and security.
"Every Indian girl dreams of getting married," said Sandhya Jha,
director of Shikhar Prashikshan Sansthan, a non-profit that works in
Kausalya's district. "You have to look at the other side of this. For
a girl who has had polio, the fact that somebody would accept her,
that makes her very happy."
India's many online marriage sites allow users to search for
physically handicapped partners, giving the disabled a shot at
marriage. A non-profit in Udaipur conducts free "mass weddings" for
young women and men with disabilities--mainly from polio. The aim of
these weddings is to find partners for low-income people with
disabilities, who ordinarily would be marginalized in Indian society.
"Marriage means a lot for a girl--even a girl who is not disabled,"
said Ravish Kavdia, a spokesman for the group, Narayan Seva Sansthan.
"In rural villages, after a certain age, it's hard for the family as
well as the concerned person to live in the society freely if they are
not married."
Polio outbreak
For Manisha Wagh, getting married at 19 to an unemployed cable
repairman was anything but a silver bullet.
She was one of seven children who contracted polio in the densely
packed tenement in Mumbai where she grew up. One night in 1984,
3-year-old Wagh came down with a high fever and by the next day,
paralysis had set in.
Although she was one of the lucky ones who didn't lose her mobility,
the virus left her permanently disabled--she keeps her underdeveloped
left leg pressed with her hand as she walks to keep it from buckling
under her.
"He was introduced to us by a relative," she said of her former
husband. He wasn't disabled, and her mother agreed to the match.
New rickshaw
It became clear soon that the proposal came with strings attached. For
marrying a disabled girl, he expected to be compensated, Wagh said. He
quit his job three months after their wedding, and asked Wagh's mother
to buy him an `1.8 lakh rickshaw. She refused.
Financial desperation, worsened by the addition of a baby, made Wagh
look for work. She found a job in data entry at a chemical company
that paid `12,000 a month and eventually divorced her husband.
Her mother let her come home. "She feels bad because she married my
sisters to good people, but made a wrong decision in my case," Wagh
said. Now she is remarried to a man she grew up with, with whom she
had a second baby girl a month ago.
She knows she's luckier than many women in India--for having a
supportive mother, for being educated up to the 12th grade, for having
job prospects, and, finally, for a second shot at marriage.
She was also lucky that her new husband, a rickshaw driver in Mumbai,
could afford the `45,000 it cost to deliver her second daughter by
cesarean section at a reputable private hospital. She smiles as she
talks about her new husband, Lalit. "He sees me as a normal person,
not as somebody to get something out of."
Child birth
In Uttar Pradesh, the combination of poverty, disability and
ill-equipped clinics had heart-breaking consequences for Kausalya.
While female survivors of polio can have normal pregnancies and bear
healthy children, they require more care during pregnancy and child
birth.
A 2007 study by researchers in Norway found they had more
complications such as preeclampsia--a potentially fatal pregnancy
condition characterized by high blood pressure, kidney damage and
renal disease. They were three times as likely to have deliveries
complicated by obstruction, and had higher rates of C-sections and
stillbirths.
Decades after an infection, victims can develop post-polio syndrome,
where muscles start further weakening. Polio survivors with paralyzed
lower limbs in rural India or in urban slums often crawl or use their
arms to drag themselves along the ground, without walking aids. Many
young boys end up begging for money.
Blood storage
The community health center Kausalya went to when she began feeling
shooting pain in her womb, two months before her due date, didn't have
blood storage, Bloomberg News found on a visit there. It also didn't
have the ability to perform C-sections. R.P. Gupta, chief medical
officer of Mirzapur district, didn't immediately comment.
Kausalya was next referred to a government-run district hospital.
There she waited for a day and was never seen by a doctor. Her pain
continued, and her designated village healthcare worker recommended
she be taken to a private hospital about 40km away. There, Kausalya
gave birth to a second baby boy by C-section. He lived for about 10
minutes.
India's Persons with Disabilities Act--its main law for people with
disabilities including those caused by polio-- focuses mainly on
prevention work such as vaccination, the World Bank says, and doesn't
make commitments for treatment and rehabilitation.
Boy child
On a sultry afternoon in Kausalya's village of Indiranagar, her
father-in-law placed her on a cot so she could talk at eye level.
Kausalya is a member of the Kol tribal community of northern India,
which once relied on the forest for income--selling leaves and timber.
In this district, members are now mostly landless agricultural
laborers, and the family lives in a one-room mud home thatched with
shingles and twigs.
Kausalya said she was feeling better, but her eyes were full of tears
and face furrowed with worry. Her husband sat wordlessly, never
addressing his wife.
Her mother-in-law, Jashodhara Devi, was crying and angry that the
family had lost a male child. "The baby boy is dead," she said, again
and again. "They killed our boy." Bloomberg
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