Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person is blind in the bride's family? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 To: accessindia Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Dear All I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, my friend will get some help from here. First I will mention my mail friend's traits: He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South Delhi. now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks alcohol, if not then fair enough. Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their families. willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. -- Avinash Shahi MPhil Research Scholar Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru University New Delhi India Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from only d u? -Original message- From: Syed Imran Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person is blind in the bride's family? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 To: accessindia Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Dear All I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, my friend will get some help from here. First I will mention my mail friend's traits: He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South Delhi. now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks alcohol, if not then fair enough. Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their families. willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. -- Avinash Shahi MPhil Research Scholar Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru University New Delhi India Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group - Original Message - From: "N D Gadhvi" To: ; Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from only d u? -Original message- From: Syed Imran Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person is blind in the bride's family? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 To: accessindia Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Dear All I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, my friend will get some help from here. First I will mention my mail friend's traits: He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South Delhi. now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks alcohol, if not then fair enough. Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their families. willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. -- Avinash Shahi MPhil Research Scholar Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru University New Delhi India Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this is equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken this issue seriously. These people should be warned. - Original Message - From: "bhawani shankar verma" To: ; Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group - Original Message - From: "N D Gadhvi" To: ; Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from only d u? -Original message- From: Syed Imran Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person is blind in the bride's family? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 To: accessindia Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Dear All I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, my friend will get some help from here. First I will mention my mail friend's traits: He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South Delhi. now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks alcohol, if not then fair enough. Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their families. willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. -- Avinash Shahi MPhil Research Scholar Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru University New Delhi India Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
Guys I don't understand why this platform is not right to discuss social issues. We are here to discuss various issues and solve problems faced by visually challenged people. I don't see this notification is wrong since this platform has big number of people, I feel marriage search is completely valid. I think all list members should vote and make new guidelines for this platform rather than depend on the old draft of guidelines made by someone whom we don't know. When we are discussing about marriages and other social, cultural, sexual issues of disabled people, why is marriage research email wrong? Regards, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of B. R. Nautial Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:33 PM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this is equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken this issue seriously. These people should be warned. - Original Message - From: "bhawani shankar verma" To: ; Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group > - Original Message - > From: "N D Gadhvi" > To: ; > Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM > Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > > >> Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from >> only d u? >> -Original message- >> From: Syed Imran >> Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am >> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> >> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person >> is blind in the bride's family? >> >> >> -Original Message- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf Of avinash shahi >> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 >> To: accessindia >> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> Dear All >> >> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for >> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, >> my friend will get some help from here. >> First I will mention my mail friend's traits: >> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, >> fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with >> SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South >> Delhi. >> >> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be >> graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have >> exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be >> suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have >> command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in >> socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, >> 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks >> alcohol, if not then fair enough. >> Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their >> families. >> willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. >> -- >> Avinash Shahi >> MPhil Research Scholar >> Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru >> University New Delhi India >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_ac >> cessind >> ia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.or >> g.in >> >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_ac >> cessindia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> &
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
just asking of inquisitiveness, if her voice is not soft? On 4/19/13, srikanth bolla wrote: > Guys I don't understand why this platform is not right to discuss social > issues. We are here to discuss various issues and solve problems faced by > visually challenged people. I don't see this notification is wrong since > this platform has big number of people, I feel marriage search is > completely > valid. I think all list members should vote and make new guidelines for > this platform rather than depend on the old draft of guidelines made by > someone whom we don't know. When we are discussing about marriages and > other social, cultural, sexual issues of disabled people, why is marriage > research email wrong? Regards, > > -Original Message- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf > Of B. R. Nautial > Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:33 PM > To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in > Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > > of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this > is > equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken > this issue seriously. These people should be warned. > - Original Message - > From: "bhawani shankar verma" > To: ; > Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM > Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > > >> please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group >> - Original Message ----- >> From: "N D Gadhvi" >> To: ; >> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> >>> Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from >>> only d u? >>> -Original message- >>> From: Syed Imran >>> Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am >>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>> >>> >>> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person >>> is blind in the bride's family? >>> >>> >>> -Original Message- >>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >>> Behalf Of avinash shahi >>> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 >>> To: accessindia >>> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>> >>> Dear All >>> >>> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for >>> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, >>> my friend will get some help from here. >>> First I will mention my mail friend's traits: >>> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, >>> fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with >>> SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South >>> Delhi. >>> >>> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be >>> graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have >>> exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be >>> suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have >>> command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in >>> socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, >>> 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks >>> alcohol, if not then fair enough. >>> Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their >>> families. >>> willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. >>> -- >>> Avinash Shahi >>> MPhil Research Scholar >>> Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru >>> University New Delhi India >>> >>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_ac >>> cessind >>> ia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.or >>> g.in >>
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
Mohib, before asking this, why didn't you think liking and softness varies widely? Some people are fond of Rani Mukherjee, and some are of Kajole? And, DU, yes DU. that's my friend's personal choice. In fact, I also asked him, why not from JNU? he said, no JNUites are difficult to handle after marriage,smiles. Finally, I wonder, why people unnecessarily jump for regulating posts? perhaps due to right to speech and expression, here right to textual freedom at play. I am well-aware of AI's guidelines, and I had mentioned this well in front. So please, don't attempt to regulate which is not warranted. Since majority of members blind here, seeking for blind partner should be facilitated on the list,if possible. But it would be better if people ask their queries and help off the list. Don't trouble those, who have nothing to do with such posts, and their in-box get flooded with this thread. On 4/19/13, Mohib Anwar Rafel wrote: > just asking of inquisitiveness, if her voice is not soft? > > On 4/19/13, srikanth bolla wrote: >> Guys I don't understand why this platform is not right to discuss social >> issues. We are here to discuss various issues and solve problems faced by >> visually challenged people. I don't see this notification is wrong since >> this platform has big number of people, I feel marriage search is >> completely >> valid. I think all list members should vote and make new guidelines for >> this platform rather than depend on the old draft of guidelines made by >> someone whom we don't know. When we are discussing about marriages and >> other social, cultural, sexual issues of disabled people, why is marriage >> research email wrong? Regards, >> >> -Original Message- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf >> Of B. R. Nautial >> Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:33 PM >> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this >> is >> equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken >> this issue seriously. These people should be warned. >> - Original Message - >> From: "bhawani shankar verma" >> To: ; >> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> >>> please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group >>> - Original Message - >>> From: "N D Gadhvi" >>> To: ; >>> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM >>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>> >>> >>>> Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from >>>> only d u? >>>> -Original message- >>>> From: Syed Imran >>>> Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am >>>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >>>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>>> >>>> >>>> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person >>>> is blind in the bride's family? >>>> >>>> >>>> -Original Message- >>>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >>>> Behalf Of avinash shahi >>>> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 >>>> To: accessindia >>>> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>>> >>>> Dear All >>>> >>>> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for >>>> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, >>>> my friend will get some help from here. >>>> First I will mention my mail friend's traits: >>>> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, >>>> fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with >>>> SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South >>>> Delhi. >>>> >>>> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be >>>> graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have >>>> exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be >>>> suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have >>>> command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in >>>> socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, >>&
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
I have always observed that we waste far too much time in framing guidelines about what cannot be discussed instead of focusing on what can be discussed.. A platform like AccessIndia can be very effectively used to discuss all aspects of blindness.. Half of the posts here are made to urge the moderator to close a discussion. Wouldn't it be more prudent to simply have the discussion and get over with it? Of course, spam messages, etc should never be allowed, but I, for one, see no harm in discussing such pertinent issues or in congratulating someone on the list for their achievement.. We must remember that this list is meant to facilitate discussions, not to hinder them.. Needless to say, these are purely my own views. Sent from my iPhone On Apr 19, 2013, at 9:10 AM, "srikanth bolla" wrote: > Guys I don't understand why this platform is not right to discuss social > issues. We are here to discuss various issues and solve problems faced by > visually challenged people. I don't see this notification is wrong since > this platform has big number of people, I feel marriage search is completely > valid. I think all list members should vote and make new guidelines for > this platform rather than depend on the old draft of guidelines made by > someone whom we don't know. When we are discussing about marriages and > other social, cultural, sexual issues of disabled people, why is marriage > research email wrong? Regards, > > -Original Message- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf > Of B. R. Nautial > Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:33 PM > To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in > Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > > of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this is > equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken > this issue seriously. These people should be warned. > - Original Message - > From: "bhawani shankar verma" > To: ; > Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM > Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > > >> please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group >> - Original Message ----- >> From: "N D Gadhvi" >> To: ; >> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> >>> Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from >>> only d u? >>> -Original message- >>> From: Syed Imran >>> Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am >>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>> >>> >>> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person >>> is blind in the bride's family? >>> >>> >>> -Original Message- >>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >>> Behalf Of avinash shahi >>> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 >>> To: accessindia >>> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>> >>> Dear All >>> >>> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for >>> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, >>> my friend will get some help from here. >>> First I will mention my mail friend's traits: >>> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, >>> fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with >>> SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South >>> Delhi. >>> >>> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be >>> graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have >>> exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be >>> suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have >>> command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in >>> socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, >>> 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks >>> alcohol, if not then fair enough. >>> Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their >>> families. >>> willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. >>> -- >>> Avinash Shahi >>> MPhil Research Scholar >>> Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru >>> University New Delhi India >>> >>> Register at the dedicat
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
I agree with you Avinash. What's wrong in discussing a major important issue of search for potential life partner? When we are discussing about far less important things like exchanging the contact information and other stuffed, posting a search for spouse is completely acceptable since most of our members of blind and also this creates awareness but not whilates the list guidelines. By the way, people hardly know about AI guidelines. It would be helpful if the guidelines are circulated once in a month or two to update all new members. To be honest, I don't know the guidelines. Regards, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 1:58 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Mohib, before asking this, why didn't you think liking and softness varies widely? Some people are fond of Rani Mukherjee, and some are of Kajole? And, DU, yes DU. that's my friend's personal choice. In fact, I also asked him, why not from JNU? he said, no JNUites are difficult to handle after marriage,smiles. Finally, I wonder, why people unnecessarily jump for regulating posts? perhaps due to right to speech and expression, here right to textual freedom at play. I am well-aware of AI's guidelines, and I had mentioned this well in front. So please, don't attempt to regulate which is not warranted. Since majority of members blind here, seeking for blind partner should be facilitated on the list,if possible. But it would be better if people ask their queries and help off the list. Don't trouble those, who have nothing to do with such posts, and their in-box get flooded with this thread. On 4/19/13, Mohib Anwar Rafel wrote: > just asking of inquisitiveness, if her voice is not soft? > > On 4/19/13, srikanth bolla wrote: >> Guys I don't understand why this platform is not right to discuss >> social issues. We are here to discuss various issues and solve >> problems faced by visually challenged people. I don't see this >> notification is wrong since this platform has big number of people, I >> feel marriage search is completely valid. I think all list members >> should vote and make new guidelines for this platform rather than >> depend on the old draft of guidelines made by someone whom we don't >> know. When we are discussing about marriages and other social, >> cultural, sexual issues of disabled people, why is marriage research >> email wrong? Regards, >> >> -Original Message- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf Of B. R. Nautial >> Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:33 PM >> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and >> this is equally true, these people also know this so, moderator >> should have taken this issue seriously. These people should be >> warned. >> - Original Message - >> From: "bhawani shankar verma" >> To: ; >> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> >>> please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group >>> - Original Message - >>> From: "N D Gadhvi" >>> To: ; >>> >>> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM >>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>> >>> >>>> Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from >>>> only d u? >>>> -Original message- >>>> From: Syed Imran >>>> Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am >>>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >>>> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>>> >>>> >>>> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other >>>> person is blind in the bride's family? >>>> >>>> >>>> -Original Message- >>>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] >>>> On Behalf Of avinash shahi >>>> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 >>>> To: accessindia >>>> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >>>> >>>> Dear All >>>> >>>> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for >>>> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so >>>> though
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
If I remember correct, once there was a discussion here about how to pee exactly in the urinary basin. Correct me if I was wrong. If that is acceptable, why not life partner discussions? for a visually handicapped members? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of B. R. Nautial Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 9:03 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this is equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken this issue seriously. These people should be warned. - Original Message - From: "bhawani shankar verma" To: ; Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group > - Original Message - > From: "N D Gadhvi" > To: ; > Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM > Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > > >> Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from only d >> u? >> -Original message- >> From: Syed Imran >> Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am >> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> >> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person is >> blind in the bride's family? >> >> >> -Original Message- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf >> Of avinash shahi >> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 >> To: accessindia >> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> Dear All >> >> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for >> marriage >> but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, my friend >> will >> get some help from here. >> First I will mention my mail friend's traits: >> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, >> fluent >> in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with SBI as PO, >> earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South Delhi. >> >> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be graduate >> from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have exceeded 25 by the >> end >> of 2013, ,no other family member should be suffering from blindness, >> should >> be honest in her depositions, have command over both English and Hindi, >> should be compitent in socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, >> 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks alcohol, >> if >> not then fair enough. >> Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their >> families. >> willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. >> -- >> Avinash Shahi >> MPhil Research Scholar >> Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru University >> New >> Delhi India >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility >> of >> mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind >> ia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >> visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility >> of mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility >> of mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.acce
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend
You are sent% correct! There is no uniformity among group members. Guidelines are not properly executed and informed to all members. So regards, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Raaj Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 6:13 AM To: 'B. R. Nautial'; accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend If I remember correct, once there was a discussion here about how to pee exactly in the urinary basin. Correct me if I was wrong. If that is acceptable, why not life partner discussions? for a visually handicapped members? -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of B. R. Nautial Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 9:03 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this is equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken this issue seriously. These people should be warned. - Original Message - From: "bhawani shankar verma" To: ; Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group > - Original Message - > From: "N D Gadhvi" > To: ; > Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM > Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > > >> Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from >> only d u? >> -Original message- >> From: Syed Imran >> Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am >> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> >> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person >> is blind in the bride's family? >> >> >> -Original Message- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf Of avinash shahi >> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 >> To: accessindia >> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> Dear All >> >> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for >> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, >> my friend will get some help from here. >> First I will mention my mail friend's traits: >> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, >> fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with >> SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South >> Delhi. >> >> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be >> graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have >> exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be >> suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have >> command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in >> socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, >> 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks >> alcohol, if not then fair enough. >> Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their >> families. >> willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. >> -- >> Avinash Shahi >> MPhil Research Scholar >> Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru >> University New Delhi India >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind >> ia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.or >> g.in >> >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To cha
Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend keep it up. Thanks.you will succeed good luck.
-Original message- From: srikanth bolla Sent: 19/04/2013, 9.10 am To: 'B. R. Nautial'; accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend Guys I don't understand why this platform is not right to discuss social issues. We are here to discuss various issues and solve problems faced by visually challenged people. I don't see this notification is wrong since this platform has big number of people, I feel marriage search is completely valid. I think all list members should vote and make new guidelines for this platform rather than depend on the old draft of guidelines made by someone whom we don't know. When we are discussing about marriages and other social, cultural, sexual issues of disabled people, why is marriage research email wrong? Regards, -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of B. R. Nautial Sent: Thursday, April 18, 2013 11:33 PM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend of course! this is not the right platform for this kind of mails and this is equally true, these people also know this so, moderator should have taken this issue seriously. These people should be warned. - Original Message - From: "bhawani shankar verma" To: ; Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:48 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > please switch this mail over to sayeverything mailing group > - Original Message - > From: "N D Gadhvi" > To: ; > Sent: Friday, April 19, 2013 7:42 AM > Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend > > >> Hello. Asking for just curiosity. why she should be grajute from >> only d u? >> -Original message- >> From: Syed Imran >> Sent: 19/04/2013, 7:27 am >> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> Subject: Re: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> >> Just curious - what difference does it make even if the other person >> is blind in the bride's family? >> >> >> -Original Message- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf Of avinash shahi >> Sent: 17 April 2013 15:18 >> To: accessindia >> Subject: [AI] Search for suitable spouse on behalf of friend >> >> Dear All >> >> I don't know whether this is right platform for seeking partner for >> marriage but majority of members are visually challenged so thought, >> my friend will get some help from here. >> First I will mention my mail friend's traits: >> He is 27 years old, Graduate from DU, partially blind, 5.11 height, >> fluent in English and Hindi, loves alcohol fortnightly, employed with >> SBI as PO, earning including H.R.A. is 60 thousand, location South >> Delhi. >> >> now, his expectations from prospective candidate Girl should be >> graduate from DU, should be partially blind, age will not have >> exceeded 25 by the end of 2013, ,no other family member should be >> suffering from blindness, should be honest in her depositions, have >> command over both English and Hindi, should be compitent in >> socialising, should have soft-voice, fair-looking, >> 5.5 or above height, employed/unemployed, better if she drinks >> alcohol, if not then fair enough. >> Note: no dowry required.Rest is negotiable between the two or their >> families. >> willing candidates, may shoot me mail off the list. >> -- >> Avinash Shahi >> MPhil Research Scholar >> Centre for the Study of Law and Governance Jawaharlal Nehru >> University New Delhi India >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_ac >> cessind >> ia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.or >> g.in >> >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_ac >> cessindia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >&g
