Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

2006-05-04 Thread umesh sharma
Himendra-da,You rightly said that those who do nothing but criticize are degenerate people. How much doing is good enough. Someone might say that he spent $1000 per year to fund a non profit for women - and it gives him or her a right to criticize everyone else (never mind he or she earns millions of dollars a year). Or someone who gave a beggar on an Indian street two rupees - and declare that he or she has done his bit for the cause.How much is good enough? Is Deep Mehta right in protraying Hindu women as in "Fire" -- as lesbianism being the only solution - to their oppression.In a hypothetical case - Would you recommend to your daughter or daughter-in-law that she become a lesbian (as per Deep Nehta movie) to escape for her societal problems of male oppression and house-wifery drudgery?Umesh  PS: I haven't seen "water"
 but I have seen "Fire" and "earth" by Deepa Mehta at Harvard library.  Himendra Thakur [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Dear Ram,I congratulate you for your open views. There are 33 million widows in India. Majority of them live below animal level. My cousin Mamoni (Dr.Mamoni Goswami) told me about the observations she made in Brindaban. What about the property rights of a widow in her marital home /or in her natal home?Peoplewho criticise Deepa Mehta's movie, but do not come forward to help stop the suffering, cannot call themselves Hindus. These are degenerated people.In violation of the ancient Indian scriptures, the evil of the gender oppression, hereditary caste system, dowry system, and many other evil practices appear to have well-trenched in India due to degenerations. After independence, the Constitution has been amended and laws have been strengthened to control these social evils. However, law alone cannot eradicate a deep-rooted malaise. The tragedy is enhanced by the fact that even educated people in India fail to join the movement to stop these evils. When I started the movement to stop dowry 
 bride-burning in India, some Indian intellectuals strangely connected it to “neo-colonialism” of western powers. Any effort to help widows or to stop dowry/bride-burning/female-feticide are ignored as an outcry of feminists. Confusion prevails. An amendment of the “Hindu Succession Act” by the Parliament in December 2004 to guaranty equal inheritance of a daughter [which would have helped the hapless widows] remains ineffective due to the lack of enforcement. In spite of strict laws against it, selective female feticide (for the fear of future dowry) by using ultrasonic embryo test is proliferating leaps and bounds in the dowry infested areas of India. There is not a single political party in India with a clear agenda to eradicate suffering of the widows, or to stop dowry, bride-burning, female feticide or hereditary caste system. Nonetheless, there are exceptions. We see the rays of light through these exceptions. In an October 9, 2003 Judgment against a case of female feticide, Justice M.B. Shah and Justice Ashok Bhan of the Supreme Court of India observed that “It is also known that number of persons condemn discrimination against women in all its forms, and agree to pursue, by appropriate means, a policy of eliminating discrimination against women, still however, we are not in a
 position to change mental set-up …” It is wonderful that these points are being discussed in the assam-net.The next step is to come forward to help the work. With love to everybody,  Himendra- Original Message -   From: Ram Sarangapani   To: Rajen Barua   Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; assam@assamnet.org   Sent: Wednesday, May 03, 2006 8:16 PM  Subject: Re: [Assam] Deepa Mehta's love for Hinduism--or otherwiseI just read the write-up on "Water" and Deepa Mehta in the NYT. 
   I think Umesh you are being way too sensitive. Film produces/directors and authors usually have the leeway in portraying as they see the world. They often make us see things that a community or a country does not or just ignores. In that aspect, I think Mehta has actually done a great service to the cause of Hinduism. This aspect of widows being shunned by society and even by family members is very real and is shameful to say the least. The NYT article mentions villages etc where these practices still exist. I for one am not willing to blame the villagers, as they may be too steeped in traditions and customs - but do find fault with the supposedly educated class of Indian society which seems to ignore such faultlines. Progressive Hindus ought to be able to take their messages across India and educate people on the evils of casteism, ill-treatment of widows, or other evils that haven't
 necessarily been mandated by Hinduism. So, IMHO, Hindu fundamentalists ought to be thankful to a Deepa Mehta for opening their eyes to such problems instead of creating havoc.One last thing I would like to state is that generally, you will find mainstream Hindus peg 

Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

2006-05-04 Thread Ram Sarangapani
Thank you Himen da for your kind words. But I do think most (if not all) Assamnetters are as open minded as you can get anywhere else.
That is the reason such issues are discussed frequently on the net.

--Ram da

On 5/3/06, Himendra Thakur [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:





Dear Ram,

I congratulate you for your open views. There are 33 million widows in India. Majority of them live below animal level. My cousin Mamoni (Dr.Mamoni
 Goswami) told me about the observations she made in Brindaban. What about the property rights of a widow in her marital home /or in her natal home?

Peoplewho criticise Deepa Mehta's movie, but do not come forward to help stop the suffering, cannot call themselves Hindus. These are degenerated people.


In violation of the ancient Indian scriptures, the evil of the gender oppression, hereditary caste system, dowry system, and many other evil practices appear to have well-trenched in India due to degenerations. After independence, the Constitution has been amended and laws have been strengthened to control these social evils. However, law alone cannot eradicate a deep-rooted malaise. The tragedy is enhanced by the fact that even educated people in India fail to join the movement to stop these evils. 


When I started the movement to stop dowry  bride-burning in India, some Indian intellectuals strangely connected it to "neo-colonialism" of western powers. Any effort to help widows or to stop dowry/bride-burning/female-feticide are ignored as an outcry of feminists. Confusion prevails. An amendment of the "Hindu Succession Act" by the Parliament in December 2004 to guaranty equal inheritance of a daughter 
[which would have helped the hapless widows] remains ineffective due to the lack of enforcement. In spite of strict laws against it, selective female feticide (for the fear of future dowry) by using ultrasonic embryo test is proliferating leaps and bounds in the dowry infested areas of India. There is not a single political party in India with a clear agenda to eradicate suffering of the widows, or to stop dowry, bride-burning, female feticide or hereditary caste system. 


Nonetheless, there are exceptions. We see the rays of light through these exceptions. In an October 9, 2003 Judgment against a case of female feticide, Justice 
M.B. Shah and Justice Ashok Bhan of the Supreme Court of India observed that "It is also known that number of persons condemn discrimination against women in all its forms, and agree to pursue, by appropriate means, a policy of eliminating discrimination against women, still however, we are not in a position to 
change mental set-up …" 

It is wonderful that these points are being discussed in the assam-net.The next step is to come forward to help the work. 

With love to everybody,
Himendra

- Original Message - 
From: Ram Sarangapani 

To: Rajen Barua 
Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 ; assam@assamnet.org 
Sent: Wednesday, May 03, 2006 8:16 PM
Subject: Re: [Assam] Deepa Mehta's love for Hinduism--or otherwise

I just read the write-up on Water and Deepa Mehta in the NYT.

I think Umesh you are being way too sensitive. Film produces/directors and authors usually have the leeway in portraying as they see the world. They often make us see things that a community or a country does not or just ignores. In that aspect, I think Mehta has actually done a great service to the cause of Hinduism. 


This aspect of widows being shunned by society and even by family members is very real and is shameful to say the least. The NYT article mentions villages etc where these practices still exist. I for one am not willing to blame the villagers, as they may be too steeped in traditions and customs - but do find fault with the supposedly educated class of Indian society which seems to ignore such faultlines. 


Progressive Hindus ought to be able to take their messages across India and educate people on the evils of casteism, ill-treatment of widows, or other evils that haven't necessarily been mandated by Hinduism. 


So, IMHO, Hindu fundamentalists ought to be thankful to a Deepa Mehta for opening their eyes to such problems instead of creating havoc.

One last thing I would like to state is that generally, you will find mainstream Hindus peg themselves to varying viewpoints on this and other issues regarding criticisms of their own religion, and thats a great thing. At least one won't see a Salman Rushdie like dikat on Deepa Mehta from a majority of Hindus. 


-- Ram


On 5/3/06, Rajen Barua [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 wrote: 




I haven't seen any effforts by Deepa Mehta to highlight any good points about Hindusim at all.


Why you have to depend on Deepa Mehta to high light the goods of Hinduism. Are there no other Hindus who can do that?
Or Deepa mehta have some special; power?
RB


- Original Message - 
From: umesh sharma
 
To: assam@assamnet.org 
Sent: Wednesday, May 03, 2006 3:14 PM
Subject: [Assam] Deepa Mehta's love for Hinduism--or otherwise

Just like I haven't 

Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

2006-05-04 Thread Rajen Barua



Is Deep Mehta right in portraying Hindu women as in "Fire" -- as 
lesbianism being the only solution - to their oppression.

An artist normally donot portray 
something as a solution, she may portray what may be the realty in her eyes. 
Everybody has a right to portray life the way they see it. Showing a solution is 
not necessarily an artist's duty. It is the duty of a social 
worker.

I don't understand why this anger 
against the artist Deepa Mehta. Is it because that realty she projected 
shocked you? Or is it because you donot agree with that realty? 

Mamony Roysom Goswami also had been 
portraying such realty through her various novels, either the plights of Hindu 
widows in Brindaban or Assamese Vaishnava Upper class widow in Assam. We should 
be grateful to these artists for bringing to focus these realty in our 
societies.

Similarly we need more artist to 
portray the realty of Suttee that is still going on in Bihar and other 
places.
Let us hope Deepa Mehta will pick 
up a such a story for her next movie and call it AIR.

RB

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  umesh 
  sharma 
  To: Himendra Thakur ; Ram Sarangapani 
  
  Cc: assam@assamnet.org 
  Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 12:56 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [Assam] Suffering of the 
  Widows
  
  Himendra-da,
  
  You rightly said that those who do nothing but criticize are degenerate 
  people. How much doing is good enough. Someone might say that he spent $1000 
  per year to fund a non profit for women - and it gives him or her a right to 
  criticize everyone else (never mind he or she earns millions of dollars a 
  year). Or someone who gave a beggar on an Indian street two rupees - and 
  declare that he or she has done his bit for the cause.
  
  How much is good enough? Is Deep Mehta right in protraying Hindu women as 
  in "Fire" -- as lesbianism being the only solution - to their 
oppression.
  
  In a hypothetical case - Would you recommend to your daughter or 
  daughter-in-law that she become a lesbian (as per Deep Nehta movie) to escape 
  for her societal problems of male oppression and house-wifery drudgery?
  
  Umesh
  PS: I haven't seen "water" but I have seen "Fire" and "earth" by Deepa 
  Mehta at Harvard library.
  Himendra Thakur [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:
  






Dear 
Ram,

I congratulate you for your open 
views. There are 33 million widows in India. 
Majority of them live below animal level. My cousin Mamoni (Dr.Mamoni 
Goswami) told me about the observations she made in Brindaban. What about 
the property rights of a widow in her marital home /or in her natal 
home?

Peoplewho criticise Deepa 
Mehta's movie, but do not come forward to help stop the suffering, cannot 
call themselves Hindus. These are degenerated people.

In violation of the ancient 
Indian scriptures, the evil of the gender oppression, hereditary caste 
system, dowry system, and many other evil practices appear to have 
well-trenched in India due to degenerations. After independence, the 
Constitution has been amended and laws have been strengthened to control 
these social evils. However, law alone cannot eradicate a deep-rooted 
malaise. The tragedy is enhanced by the fact that even educated people in 
India fail to join the movement 
to stop these evils. 

When I started the movement to 
stop dowry  bride-burning in India, some Indian intellectuals 
strangely connected it to “neo-colonialism” of western powers. Any effort to 
help widows or to stop dowry/bride-burning/female-feticide are ignored as an 
outcry of feminists. Confusion prevails. An amendment of the “Hindu 
Succession Act” by the Parliament in December 2004 to guaranty equal 
inheritance of a daughter [which 
would have helped the hapless widows] remains ineffective due to the 
lack of enforcement. In spite of strict laws against it, selective female 
feticide (for the fear of future dowry) by using ultrasonic embryo test is 
proliferating leaps and bounds in the dowry infested areas of 
India. There is not a single 
political party in India with a clear agenda to 
eradicate suffering of the widows, or to stop dowry, bride-burning, female 
feticide or hereditary caste system. 

Nonetheless, there are 
exceptions. We see the rays of light through these exceptions. In an October 
9, 2003 Judgment against a case of female feticide, Justice M.B. Shah and 
Justice Ashok Bhan of the Supreme Court of India observed that “It is also known that number of persons 
condemn discrimination against women in all its forms, and agree to pursue, 
by appropriate means, a policy of eliminating discrimination against women, 
still however, we are not in a position to change 
mental set-up …” 

It is wonderful that these 
points 

Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

2006-05-04 Thread umesh sharma
AIR would be a good title for her next movie - but it should not suggest solutions like those from a wind bag:)UmeshPS: My suggestion would be a movie on Meera Bai - who was a widow kicked out by her princely in-laws and devoted to Sri Krishna's worship - world famous thru her songsRajen Barua [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  Is Deep Mehta right in portraying Hindu women as in "Fire" -- as lesbianism being the only solution - to their oppression.An artist normally donot portray something as a solution, she may portray what may be the realty in her eyes. Everybody has a right to portray life the way they see it. Showing a solution is
 not necessarily an artist's duty. It is the duty of a social worker.I don't understand why this anger against the artist Deepa Mehta. Is it because that realty she projected shocked you? Or is it because you donot agree with that realty? Mamony Roysom Goswami also had been portraying such realty through her various novels, either the plights of Hindu widows in Brindaban or Assamese Vaishnava Upper class widow in Assam. We should be grateful to these artists for bringing to focus these realty in our societies.Similarly we need more artist to portray the realty of Suttee that is still going on in
 Bihar and other places.  Let us hope Deepa Mehta will pick up a such a story for her next movie and call it AIR.RB- Original Message -   From: umesh sharma   To: Himendra Thakur ; Ram Sarangapani   Cc: assam@assamnet.org   Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 12:56 PM  Subject: Re: [Assam] Suffering of the WidowsHimendra-da,You rightly said that those who do nothing but criticize are degenerate people. How much doing is good enough. Someone might say that he spent $1000 per year to fund a non profit for women - and it gives him or her a right to criticize everyone else (never mind he or she earns millions of dollars a year). Or someone who gave a beggar on an Indian street two rupees - and declare that he or she has done his bit for the cause.How much is good enough? Is Deep Mehta right in protraying Hindu women as in "Fire" -- as lesbianism being the only solution - to their oppression.In a hypothetical case - Would you
 recommend to your daughter or daughter-in-law that she become a lesbian (as per Deep Nehta movie) to escape for her societal problems of male oppression and house-wifery drudgery?Umesh  PS: I haven't seen "water" but I have seen "Fire" and "earth" by Deepa Mehta at Harvard library.  Himendra Thakur [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Dear Ram,I congratulate you for your open views. There are 33 million widows in India. Majority of them live below animal level. My cousin Mamoni (Dr.Mamoni Goswami) told me about the observations she made in Brindaban. What about the property rights of a widow in her marital home /or in her natal home?Peoplewho criticise Deepa Mehta's movie, but do not come forward to help stop the suffering, cannot call themselves Hindus. These are degenerated people.In violation of the ancient Indian scriptures, the evil of the gender oppression, hereditary caste system, dowry system, and many other evil practices appear to have well-trenched in India due to degenerations. After independence, the Constitution has been amended and laws have been strengthened to control these social evils. However, law alone cannot eradicate a deep-rooted malaise. The tragedy is enhanced by the fact that even educated people in India fail to join the movement to stop these evils. When I started the movement to stop dowry  bride-burning in India, some Indian intellectuals strangely connected it to “neo-colonialism” of western powers. Any effort to help widows or to stop dowry/bride-burning/female-feticide are ignored as an outcry of feminists. Confusion prevails. An amendment of the “Hindu Succession Act” by the Parliament in December 2004 to guaranty equal inheritance of a daughter [which would have helped the hapless widows] remains ineffective due to the lack of enforcement. In spite of strict laws against it, selective female feticide (for the fear of future dowry) by using ultrasonic embryo test is
 proliferating leaps and bounds in the dowry infested areas of India. There is not a single political party in India with a clear agenda to eradicate suffering of the widows, or to stop dowry, bride-burning, female feticide or hereditary caste system. Nonetheless, there are exceptions. We see the rays of light through these exceptions. In an October 9, 2003 Judgment against a case of female feticide, Justice M.B. Shah and Justice Ashok Bhan of the Supreme Court of India observed that “It is also known that number of persons condemn discrimination against women in all its forms, and agree to pursue, by appropriate means, a policy of eliminating discrimination against women, still however, we are not in a position to change mental set-up …” It 

Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

2006-05-04 Thread Alpana B. Sarangapani
I agree withUmesh-Jion the storyline(?) in Fire. As far as I remember, it was a boring andmeaningless picture - caring and affection between two human beings do not have to be anything like that, it canvery wellbe platonic and the audience can still get the message - I mean, the husbands taking overwomen's lives. Two issues were put together without good enough reasons - physical attraction is a different issue altogether, rejection by the husband does not necessarily change a person toturn intoa gay person. Anyway!
In order to portray a particular problem, like male dominance etc., in a particular society, it does not need to be connected needlessly with a "current  controversial topic" (or it should totally be on that 'hot' topic itself - not with a silly connection between the two). And if that useless connection is made, then it is viewed by many, as a futile attempt to draw attention -from the movie-maker's side. 


From: umesh sharma [EMAIL PROTECTED]Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]To: Rajen Barua [EMAIL PROTECTED], Himendra Thakur [EMAIL PROTECTED], Ram Sarangapani [EMAIL PROTECTED]CC: assam@assamnet.orgSubject: Re: [Assam] Suffering of the WidowsDate: Thu, 4 May 2006 20:38:58 +0100 (BST)
AIR would be a good title for her next movie - but it should not suggest solutions like those from a wind bag:)

Umesh

PS: My suggestion would be a movie on Meera Bai - who was a widow kicked out by her princely in-laws and devoted to Sri Krishna's worship - world famous thru her songsRajen Barua [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Is Deep Mehta right in portraying Hindu women as in "Fire" -- as lesbianism being the only solution - to their oppression.

An artist normally donot portray something as a solution, she may portray what may be the realty in her eyes. Everybody has a right to portray life the way they see it. Showing a solution is not necessarily an artist's duty. It is the duty of a social worker.

I don't understand why this anger against the artist Deepa Mehta. Is it because that realty she projected shocked you? Or is it because you donot agree with that realty? 

Mamony Roysom Goswami also had been portraying such realty through her various novels, either the plights of Hindu widows in Brindaban or Assamese Vaishnava Upper class widow in Assam. We should be grateful to these artists for bringing to focus these realty in our societies.

Similarly we need more artist to portray the realty of Suttee that is still going on in Bihar and other places.
Let us hope Deepa Mehta will pick up a such a story for her next movie and call it AIR.

RB

- Original Message - 
From: umesh sharma 
To: Himendra Thakur ; Ram Sarangapani 
Cc: assam@assamnet.org 
Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 12:56 PM
Subject: Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

Himendra-da,

You rightly said that those who do nothing but criticize are degenerate people. How much doing is good enough. Someone might say that he spent $1000 per year to fund a non profit for women - and it gives him or her a right to criticize everyone else (never mind he or she earns millions of dollars a year). Or someone who gave a beggar on an Indian street two rupees - and declare that he or she has done his bit for the cause.

How much is good enough? Is Deep Mehta right in protraying Hindu women as in "Fire" -- as lesbianism being the only solution - to their oppression.

In a hypothetical case - Would you recommend to your daughter or daughter-in-law that she become a lesbian (as per Deep Nehta movie) to escape for her societal problems of male oppression and house-wifery drudgery?

Umesh
PS: I haven't seen "water" but I have seen "Fire" and "earth" by Deepa Mehta at Harvard library.
Himendra Thakur [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:






Dear Ram,

I congratulate you for your open views. There are 33 million widows in India. Majority of them live below animal level. My cousin Mamoni (Dr.Mamoni Goswami) told me about the observations she made in Brindaban. What about the property rights of a widow in her marital home /or in her natal home?

Peoplewho criticise Deepa Mehta's movie, but do not come forward to help stop the suffering, cannot call themselves Hindus. These are degenerated people.

In violation of the ancient Indian scriptures, the evil of the gender oppression, hereditary caste system, dowry system, and many other evil practices appear to have well-trenched in India due to degenerations. After independence, the Constitution has been amended and laws have been strengthened to control these social evils. However, law alone cannot eradicate a deep-rooted malaise. The tragedy is enhanced by the fact that even educated people in India fail to join the movement to stop these evils. 

When I started the movement to stop dowry  bride-burning in India, some Indian intellectuals strangely connected it to “neo-colonialism” of western powers. Any effort to help widows or to stop dowry/bride-burning/female-fetici

Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

2006-05-04 Thread Rajen Barua



Well that will be too much with 
religeous theme, and the way Deepa Mehta may project Meera Bai, the Hindus may 
not like it.
I think Deepa Mehtamay rather 
will like to do one Adults movie with the Gopis of Brindaban and 
Krishna.
Both ways, it may do more damage to 
Hinduism image.
I think let these artists do 
whatver they like.
RB

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  umesh 
  sharma 
  To: Rajen Barua ; Himendra 
  Thakur ; Ram 
  Sarangapani 
  Cc: assam@assamnet.org 
  Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 2:38 
PM
  Subject: Re: [Assam] Suffering of the 
  Widows
  
  AIR would be a good title for her next movie - but it should not suggest 
  solutions like those from a wind bag:)
  
  Umesh
  
  PS: My suggestion would be a movie on Meera Bai - who was a widow kicked 
  out by her princely in-laws and devoted to Sri Krishna's worship - world 
  famous thru her songsRajen Barua [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
  

Is Deep Mehta right in portraying Hindu women as in "Fire" -- as 
lesbianism being the only solution - to their oppression.

An artist normally donot 
portray something as a solution, she may portray what may be the realty in 
her eyes. Everybody has a right to portray life the way they see it. Showing 
a solution is not necessarily an artist's duty. It is the duty of a social 
worker.

I don't understand why this 
anger against the artist Deepa Mehta. Is it because that realty she 
projected shocked you? Or is it because you donot agree with that realty? 


Mamony Roysom Goswami also had 
been portraying such realty through her various novels, either the plights 
of Hindu widows in Brindaban or Assamese Vaishnava Upper class widow in 
Assam. We should be grateful to these artists for bringing to focus these 
realty in our societies.

Similarly we need more artist 
to portray the realty of Suttee that is still going on in Bihar and other 
places.
Let us hope Deepa Mehta will 
pick up a such a story for her next movie and call it AIR.

RB

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  umesh 
  sharma 
  To: Himendra Thakur ; Ram 
  Sarangapani 
  Cc: assam@assamnet.org 
  Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 12:56 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [Assam] Suffering of the 
  Widows
  
  Himendra-da,
  
  You rightly said that those who do nothing but criticize are 
  degenerate people. How much doing is good enough. Someone might say that 
  he spent $1000 per year to fund a non profit for women - and it gives him 
  or her a right to criticize everyone else (never mind he or she earns 
  millions of dollars a year). Or someone who gave a beggar on an Indian 
  street two rupees - and declare that he or she has done his bit for the 
  cause.
  
  How much is good enough? Is Deep Mehta right in protraying Hindu 
  women as in "Fire" -- as lesbianism being the only solution - to their 
  oppression.
  
  In a hypothetical case - Would you recommend to your daughter 
  or daughter-in-law that she become a lesbian (as per Deep Nehta movie) to 
  escape for her societal problems of male oppression and house-wifery 
  drudgery?
  
  Umesh
  PS: I haven't seen "water" but I have seen "Fire" and "earth" by 
  Deepa Mehta at Harvard library.
  Himendra Thakur [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
  






Dear 
Ram,

I congratulate you for your 
open views. There are 33 million widows in India. 
Majority of them live below animal level. My cousin Mamoni (Dr.Mamoni 
Goswami) told me about the observations she made in Brindaban. What 
about the property rights of a widow in her marital home /or in her 
natal home?

Peoplewho criticise 
Deepa Mehta's movie, but do not come forward to help stop the suffering, 
cannot call themselves Hindus. These are degenerated 
people.

In violation of the ancient 
Indian scriptures, the evil of the gender oppression, hereditary caste 
system, dowry system, and many other evil practices appear to have 
well-trenched in India due to degenerations. After independence, the 
Constitution has been amended and laws have been strengthened to control 
these social evils. However, law alone cannot eradicate a deep-rooted 
malaise. The tragedy is enhanced by the fact that even educated people 
in India fail to join the 
movement to stop these evils. 

When I started the movement 
to stop dowry  bride-burning in India, 
some Indian intellectuals strangely connected it to “neo-colonialism” of 
western powers. Any effort to help widows or to

Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

2006-05-04 Thread Himendra Thakur




Dear Alpana,

I have not seen Deepa Mehta's movies 
excepting the "Earth" which I had to watch because I was invited to 
afunction at Harvard University years ago where Mrs. Bapsi 
Sidhwa,the writer of the movie "Earth" was presented.

I did not like the movie 
"Earth".With too many Dutch-Angle shots, without enoughestablishing 
shots, only lighting being flood-lighting all over, without any balance between 
close-up, medium and reverse-angle --- story line developing intermittently 
without any balance between conflict-contrast-surprise-resolve ---the 
movie wasdull and mediocre artistically. The Director was unableto 
balance her presentation, which is essential when one makes a movie on a social 
issue. However, she has herfreedom of rights to makea movie anyway 
she wants, and we have the freedom of rights not to waste out time watching her 
low quality productions. 

What I tried to say wasabout 
the “issue” of the movie “River” --- not about the movie, and not about how 
Deepa Mehta is portraying it. 

The issue is the suffering of 30 
million widows in India. 

If the so called “Hindu Fanatics” 
(which is an oxymoron because a Hindu ceases to remain a Hindu when he becomes a 
fanatic) want to create a hue and cry against Deepa Mehta, they may also do 
something to stop the suffering of the 30 million widows. They maytry to 
stop the practice of dowry which "kills  maims" 25,000 brides every year in 
India. They mayhelp"change of mind-set" to stop female-feticide 
which has caused a shortage of 70 million females in India. 





Umesh is asking the question: 
How much doing is good enough.

I request 
everybody to discuss that question with a positive attitude. Whatever one can do 
is good enough --- but that should be done with love and care. 

With love 
to everybody,Himendra 

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Alpana B. Sarangapani 
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  Cc: assam@assamnet.org 
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  Subject: Re: [Assam] Suffering of the 
  Widows
  
  
  I agree withUmesh-Jion the storyline(?) in Fire. As far as I 
  remember, it was a boring andmeaningless picture - caring and affection 
  between two human beings do not have to be anything like that, it 
  canvery wellbe platonic and the audience can still get the message 
  - I mean, the husbands taking overwomen's lives. Two issues were put 
  together without good enough reasons - physical attraction is a different 
  issue altogether, rejection by the husband does not necessarily change a 
  person toturn intoa gay person. Anyway!
  In order to portray a particular problem, like male dominance etc., in a 
  particular society, it does not need to be connected needlessly with a 
  "current  controversial topic" (or it should totally be on that 
  'hot' topic itself - not with a silly connection between the two). And if that 
  useless connection is made, then it is viewed by many, as a futile attempt to 
  draw attention -from the movie-maker's side. 

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Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows

2006-05-04 Thread umesh sharma
http://www.hindustantimes.com/news/181_1690978,0008.htmHimen-da,What would you advise for the above article ? Indian govt wishes to prosecute artist M F Hussain for making nude pictures of Hindu religous iccons and of Mother India (Bharat-Mata ; Bharat=India, Mata=mother : as you well know) .Regards.UmeshHimendra Thakur [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Dear Alpana,I have not seen Deepa Mehta's movies excepting the "Earth" which I had to watch because I was invited to afunction at Harvard University years ago where Mrs. Bapsi Sidhwa,the writer of the movie "Earth" was presented.I did not like the movie "Earth".With too many Dutch-Angle shots, without enoughestablishing shots, only lighting being flood-lighting all over, without any balance between close-up, medium and reverse-angle --- story line developing
 intermittently without any balance between conflict-contrast-surprise-resolve ---the movie wasdull and mediocre artistically. The Director was unableto balance her presentation, which is essential when one makes a movie on a social issue. However, she has herfreedom of rights to makea movie anyway she wants, and we have the freedom of rights not to waste out time watching her low quality productions. What I tried to say wasabout the “issue” of the movie “River” --- not about the movie, and not about how Deepa Mehta is portraying it. The issue is the suffering of 30 million widows in India. If the so called “Hindu Fanatics” (which is an oxymoron because a Hindu ceases to remain a Hindu when he becomes a fanatic) want to create a hue and cry against Deepa Mehta, they may also do something to stop the suffering of the 30 million widows. They maytry to stop the practice of dowry which "kills  maims" 25,000 brides every year in India. They mayhelp"change of mind-set" to stop female-feticide which has caused a shortage of 70 million females in India.
   Umesh is asking the question: How much doing is good enough.I request everybody to discuss that question with a positive attitude. Whatever one
 can do is good enough --- but that should be done with love and care. With love to everybody,Himendra - Original Message -   From: Alpana B. Sarangapani   To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED]   Cc: assam@assamnet.org   Sent: Thursday, May 04, 2006 4:14 PM  Subject: Re: [Assam] Suffering of the Widows  I agree withUmesh-Jion the storyline(?) in Fire. As far as I remember, it was a boring andmeaningless picture - caring and affection between two human beings do not have to be anything like that, it canvery wellbe platonic and the audience can
 still get the message - I mean, the husbands taking overwomen's lives. Two issues were put together without good enough reasons - physical attraction is a different issue altogether, rejection by the husband does not necessarily change a person toturn intoa gay person. Anyway!  In order to portray a particular problem, like male dominance etc., in a particular society, it does not need to be connected needlessly with a "current  controversial topic" (or it should totally be on that 'hot' topic itself - not with a silly connection between the two). And if that useless connection is made, then it is viewed by many, as a futile attempt to draw attention -from the movie-maker's side. ___assam mailing listassam@assamnet.orghttp://assamnet.org/mailman/listinfo/assam_assamnet.orgUmesh Sharma5121 Lackawanna STCollege
 Park, MD 20740 1-202-215-4328 [Cell Phone]Ed.M. - International Education PolicyHarvard Graduate School of Education,Harvard University,Class of 2005
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