Re: Hi

2013-01-11 Thread Kristin Nielsen
If you do not give data for troubleshooting, there is no good way to help. See 
step 3:

3. If you are not unsubscribed, please add in
your requests for further help (as simply saying it doesn't work does not
help people troubleshoot, as we all know too well):
   a. the email - including headers - that you sent to
beginners-unsubscr...@perl.org
   b. any replies you may have rec'd from the list server, especially
if they contain denials or errors.

I am, c.
Kristin

Sent while galavanting.

On Jan 11, 2013, at 3:23 AM, Lou Pereira louis.pere...@ptalc.com wrote:

 For the past year I have exhausted all options of e-mail format to opt out,
 including your recommendations to no avail.   I must say that over 10 years
 I have been involved with different e-mail lists and tech groups, but never
 had such as poor service as this group.  Any other ideas would be
 appreciated?
 
 
 Regards;
 
 Lou Pereira
 C: (973) 670-6821
 mailto:louis.pere...@ptalc.com
 
 
 -Original Message-
 From: Kristin Nielsen [mailto:kris...@justkristin.com] 
 Sent: Thursday, January 10, 2013 6:50 PM
 To: Lou Pereira
 Cc: beginners@perl.org
 Subject: Re: Hi
 
 Lou -
 
 Klamerus' frustration is not completely unwarranted. I answered that
 question in my reply to the list - did you read it? If not, there are three
 steps to take - fewer if you are successful.
 
 1. Start an email from the account with which you subscribed to the list.
 You MUST send your unsubscribe request from the email address by which list
 mail is being rec'd.
 2. Send a simple blank email from the account mentioned in step #1 to
 beginners-unsubscr...@perl.org 3. If you are not unsubscribed, please add in
 your requests for further help (as simply saying it doesn't work does not
 help people troubleshoot, as we all know too well):
a. the email - including headers - that you sent to
 beginners-unsubscr...@perl.org
b. any replies you may have rec'd from the list server, especially
 if they contain denials or errors.
 
 There you go.
 
 I am, c.,
 
 Kristin
 
 P. S. I take quite to heart the belittling attitude found on so many tech
 lists. Bad attitude doesn't work from either direction, and yes, delivery
 matters. This is supposed to be a cooperative educational community, is it
 not? Sure, we should all RTFM, but some of us who have been forced to
 learn-or-get-laid-off simply lack the formal training to know which term to
 use in our search, or even to know which PERLDOC to read, have been shamed
 into silence by cruel responses.  I am far beyond that now, but I remember
 it well. Furthermore, this list contains quite a few for whom English is not
 a first language. I am grateful to everyone here for being on the list and
 helping those who come to it for assistance. We all get frustrated with
 simplistic or repetitive questions, and people who don't even try should be
 told to try first, but very little besides a bully's ego is helped by mean
 replies. No?
 
 Thanks again, all of you, really.
 
 On Jan 10, 2013, at 3:36 PM, Lou Pereira louis.pere...@ptalc.com wrote:
 
 I beg to differ regarding your comment.  I have been trying to be 
 removed from this list for over a year to no avail.  So, all knowledge 
 one, how do we remove ourselves from this mail list?
 
 
 
 -Original Message-
 From: klamerus [mailto:klame...@earthlink.net]
 Sent: Thursday, January 10, 2013 4:10 PM
 To: 'bhanu chaitanya abbaraju'; beginners@perl.org
 Subject: RE: Hi
 
 Since you clearly don't know how mailing lists work I'm afraid that's 
 not possible.
 
 -Original Message-
 From: bhanu chaitanya abbaraju [mailto:bhanu.cha...@gmail.com]
 Sent: Thursday, January 10, 2013 2:04 PM
 To: beginners@perl.org
 Subject: Hi
 
 Please help me how can I stop perl emails
 
 --
 A.Bhanuchaitanya
 
 
 
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Re: Hi

2013-01-10 Thread Kristin Nielsen
Lou -

Klamerus' frustration is not completely unwarranted. I answered that question 
in my reply to the list - did you read it? If not, there are three steps to 
take - fewer if you are successful.

1. Start an email from the account with which you subscribed to the list. You 
MUST send your unsubscribe request from the email address by which list mail is 
being rec'd.
2. Send a simple blank email from the account mentioned in step #1 to 
beginners-unsubscr...@perl.org
3. If you are not unsubscribed, please add in your requests for further help 
(as simply saying it doesn't work does not help people troubleshoot, as we 
all know too well):
a. the email - including headers - that you sent to 
beginners-unsubscr...@perl.org
b. any replies you may have rec'd from the list server, especially if 
they contain denials or errors.

There you go.

I am, c.,

Kristin

P. S. I take quite to heart the belittling attitude found on so many tech 
lists. Bad attitude doesn't work from either direction, and yes, delivery 
matters. This is supposed to be a cooperative educational community, is it not? 
Sure, we should all RTFM, but some of us who have been forced to 
learn-or-get-laid-off simply lack the formal training to know which term to use 
in our search, or even to know which PERLDOC to read, have been shamed into 
silence by cruel responses.  I am far beyond that now, but I remember it well. 
Furthermore, this list contains quite a few for whom English is not a first 
language. I am grateful to everyone here for being on the list and helping 
those who come to it for assistance. We all get frustrated with simplistic or 
repetitive questions, and people who don't even try should be told to try 
first, but very little besides a bully's ego is helped by mean replies. No?

Thanks again, all of you, really.

On Jan 10, 2013, at 3:36 PM, Lou Pereira louis.pere...@ptalc.com wrote:

 I beg to differ regarding your comment.  I have been trying to be removed
 from this list for over a year to no avail.  So, all knowledge one, how do
 we remove ourselves from this mail list?
 
 
 
 -Original Message-
 From: klamerus [mailto:klame...@earthlink.net] 
 Sent: Thursday, January 10, 2013 4:10 PM
 To: 'bhanu chaitanya abbaraju'; beginners@perl.org
 Subject: RE: Hi
 
 Since you clearly don't know how mailing lists work I'm afraid that's not
 possible.
 
 -Original Message-
 From: bhanu chaitanya abbaraju [mailto:bhanu.cha...@gmail.com]
 Sent: Thursday, January 10, 2013 2:04 PM
 To: beginners@perl.org
 Subject: Hi
 
 Please help me how can I stop perl emails
 
 --
 A.Bhanuchaitanya
 
 
 
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Re: Nature of this list

2011-04-19 Thread Kristin Nielsen
Speaking as someone who uses Perl for work, but is also an academic 
specializing in Chaucerian studies, and who divorced a man for his 
belief that his flaws were his flaws and that's just who he is and the 
whole world should just get over themselves:


There is a lot to be said for delivery. You don't have to tell me that 
anything I have produced is a good attempt or in any other way 
mollycoddle me, as I am an adult. Nothing will be learned if we all 
require pussy-footed feedback.


On the other hand, simply calling something bad, stupid or useless is 
also not going to contribute to anyone's betterment. Say that something 
is too verbose, and we will know that there is too much of it; say that 
something is convoluted and we will know that it is poorly organized; 
Say that something is lacking in checks and balances, and we will know 
that we need to add more logic to both our process and our program; say 
that something is insecure, and we will know to taint the bajeezus out 
of it. Give the brick you lob initially some real meaning and it can 
then guide our subsequent questions.


If you must, and you don't mind being pigeon-holed with a bunch of other 
programmers into the
how-sad-he-must-have-asspergers-I-wonder-if-he-has-friends category, go 
ahead and lace any meaningful criticism you might be kind enough to 
offer with mean(ingless) modifiers like bad or stupid. We will turn 
the other cheek, but also perhaps look the other way when we are having 
a day bad enough (or have internal issues delicate enough) that putting 
up with someone else's lack of people skills isn't worth the edification.


Saying, however, that other people should cheerfully accept general, 
non-edifying asshattery, or rudeness that most adults - regardless of 
people-skill-level - can identify as such, simply because that is Who 
You(pl.) Are is as pointless as the rest of us not seeking help with our 
code. People and code are, at their best, both works in progress, no? 
The very fact that people volunteer their time on this list is 
honorable. Certainly, no volunteer would tell us not to attempt to 
better our code if there were call for it. I consider the occasional 
visit from the manners patrol as a worthy attempt by the group to get 
people to do the same with their own selves.


I thank everyone on this list who has taught me something, but I must 
say that on this list I often wait for the stream to bring me answers I 
can use, rather than asking questions myself unless the situation or 
time constraints are dire.


Bless.

Kristin Nielsen
Web Developer
San Diego Zoo


On 4/19/11 3:33 PM, Shawn H Corey wrote:

On 11-04-19 06:25 PM, Randal L. Schwartz wrote:

If they don't have a thick skin already, they'd better get one soon, or
they'll be useless as an advanced programmer.


That's the stupidest thing I ever heard.

PS: If you don't like my comment, grow a thick skin!




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