FW: Thought For The Day - Performing A Spiritual Audit Ourselves At The End Of The Day

2013-01-18 Thread YP GIRISH
Performing A Spiritual Audit Ourselves At The End Of The Day


Our normal day at the office or/and at home is filled with lots of actions
and interactions. On a normal day, without realizing consciously, we create
almost 30,000-40,000 thoughts. So, not only are we active physically but
extremely active on a subtle or non-physical level also.  Imagine sleeping
with all this burden of thoughts, words and actions which have been created
throughout the day, many of which have been waste and negative in nature.
What would be the resulting quality of my sleep? So it is extremely
important to perform a spiritual/emotional audit or evaluation at the end of
each day. 

In a lot of professional sectors of life today, people recognize the need
for reflection and audit, not only of financial records but also a general
evaluation of the respective sector, to maintain and improve both the
service to customers and the job satisfaction of people working in the
sector. Checking my own behavior, as a daily exercise; not just checking,
but also bringing about respective changes for the next day, enables me to
continue to develop and grow, as a human being and in the quality of my work
and personal and professional relationships. Have gone through the
self-evaluation, it is also advised to become completely light by submitting
the mistakes made and heaviness accumulated in the day to the Supreme Being.
Doing this helps me put a full-stop to the same and settle all my spiritual
accounts at the end of the day. I need to put an end to all commas (when
looking at scenes that caused me to slow down and reduced the speed of my
progress), question marks (when looking at scenes which caused a why, what,
how, when, etc in my consciousness) and exclamation marks (when looking
at negative or waste scenes, which were unexpected and surprising) which
were created in the day's activities. Along with remembering what all good
happened during the day, what did I achieve and what good actions did I
perform, there is lots to forget at the end of the day, which should not be
carried into my sleep at any cost. Disturbed, thought-filled, unsound sleep,
will result in a not so fresh body and mind the next morning, which will
cause my mood to be disturbed, adversely affecting the following day. 

 

A useful exercise in this regard is keeping a daily chart for about 3
personality traits or points and filling it up every night (lesser than 3 is
also fine, but not more , because then you might feel lazy in keeping the
chart after a few days and also you might lose focus and the personality
traits may not transform as much as you want). You could either evaluate
yourself with a yes or no or perform a percentage wise evaluation like 50%
or 90% for e.g. We have mentioned below, some of the common traits from
which you could select the traits to keep a daily chart for. You could
incorporate some other specific traits (not mentioned in this list), which
you want to change or develop, depending on your personality:

In the entire day, please try to find answers ourselves to following - not
only in my words and actions, but also in my thoughts:


* Did I see everyone's specialties and keep good wishes for each one, in
spite of obvious weaknesses being visible?
* Did I remain free from all forms of anger, like irritation, frustration,
grudge, revenge, etc.? 
* Did I ensure that I neither give nor take sorrow, hurt, pain from anyone? 
* Did I remain free from waste and negative?
* Did I remain ego less?
* Did I remain untouched by name, fame, praise, insult?
* Did I remain stable?
* Did I remain free from judgments, criticism, jealousy, comparison, hatred,
etc.?
* Did I keep a conscious of serving each one whom I met?
* Did I bring the 8 main powers into practice and experience being powerful?
* Did I remain in self-respect and give respect to everyone?
* Did I practice being soul-conscious in actions and interactions?
* Did I take a one minute break every hour to reflect, meditate and control
the traffic of thoughts in the mind?

 

 


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FW: [Fwd: FW: READ CALMLY : 50+ & going strong (For those 50+)]

2013-01-18 Thread YP GIRISH
 

From: jayapal [mailto: 
Sent: Saturday, January 19, 2013 8:46 AM
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Subject: Fwd: [Fwd: FW: READ CALMLY : 50+ & going strong (For those 50+)]

 

REALLY A GOOD ONE.. PL READ..Hv a beautiful day.. Jayapal Nair



  FOR THOSE 50+ NOW 
Because none of us have many years to live, and we can't take along anything
when we go, so we don't have to be too thrifty...

Spend the money that should be spent, enjoy what should be enjoyed, donate
what you are able to donate, but don't leave all to your children or
grandchildren, for you don't want them to become parasites who are waiting
for the day you will die!!

Don't worry about what will happen after we are gone, because when we return
to dust, we will feel nothing about praises or criticisms. The time to enjoy
the worldly life and your hard earned wealth will be over!

Don't worry too much about your children, for children will have their own
destiny and should find their own way. Don't be your children's slave. Care
for them, love them, give them gifts but also enjoy your money while you
can. Life should have more to it than working from the cradle to the grave!!

Don't expect too much from your children. Caring children, though caring,
would be too busy with their jobs and commitments to render much help.

Uncaring children may fight over your assets even when you are still alive,
and wish for your early demise so they can inherit your properties and
wealth.

Your children take for granted that they are rightful heirs to your wealth;
but that you have no claims to their money.

50-year old like you, don't trade in your health for wealth by working
yourself to an early grave anymore... Because your money may not be able to
buy your health...

When to stop making money, and how much is enough (hundred thousands,
million, ten million)?

Out of thousand hectares of good farm land, you can consume only three
quarts (of rice) daily; out of a thousand mansions, you only need eight
square meters of space to rest at night.

So, as long as you have enough food and enough money to spend, that is good
enough. You should live happily. Every family has its own problems. Just do
not compare with others for fame and social status and see whose
children are doing better, etc., but challenge others for happiness, health,
enjoyment, quality of life and longevity...

Don't worry about things that you can't change because it doesn't help and
it may spoil your health.

You have to create your own well-being and find your own place of
happiness.As long as you are in good mood and good health, think about happy
things,do happy things daily and have fun in doing, then you will pass your
time happily every day.

One day passes without happiness, you will lose one day.
One day passes with happiness, and then you gain one day.

In good spirit, sickness will cure; in a happy spirit, sickness will cure
faster; in high and happy spirits; sickness will never come.

With good mood, suitable amount of exercise, always in the sun, variety of
foods, reasonable amount of vitamin and mineral intake, hopefully you will
live another 20 or 30 years of healthy life of pleasure.

Above all, learn to cherish the goodness around... and FRIENDS... They all
make you feel young and "wanted"... without them you are surely to feel
lost!!

Wishing you all the best.

Please share this with all your friends who are 50 plus
and those who will be 50 plus after some time.

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Life has no limitations, except the ones you make. ~ Les Brown

 

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

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