Re: [Callers] Politically Correct?

2018-03-28 Thread Ryan Smith via Callers
While it's true that language is often not the problem, it's less relevant
to the discussion of what words to use as a caller than you might think.

Scenario A:
If we have to keep finding new ways to describe square dancing because it's
viewed as an activity only danced by weird old white people, then square
dancing is the problem and changing the name isn't going to help.

Scenario B:
If the problem is that an activity like square dancing has borrowed
terminology that has become dated over time, then it can avoid becoming
scenario A by updating its terminology to match the moving target of
society or in some cases it can discard that terminology in favor of
something that is less likely to attract baggage.

As regards the original question for this post, how we refer to people is
going to be a moving target.  If you want to avoid offending people, you
should probably find a term that is considered respectful in the current
era in which you are living.  If you don't care about offending people,
then the question is moot.

As regards other terminology concerns, if you find that you have a dance
term that refers to specific people or groups (gypsies, contras, etc.)  you
can, in fact, avoid the problem (possibly forever) by moving the term to
something less likely to get wrapped up in the identities of groups or
cultures.

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-35349619

On Wed, Mar 28, 2018 at 10:58 AM, Donald Perley via Callers <
callers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:

> When history shows a number of new terms introduced over the years,
> and each, after a while, picks up the taint of being derogatory, you
> eventually figure out that
> the word itself isn't the real problem.
>
> Using the tainted water analogy, if the person serving your water has
> typhoid, asking for a new glass from the same waiter won't help much.
>
>
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Re: [Callers] More substitute terms for the g-word

2018-03-14 Thread Ryan Smith via Callers
" Could someone please explain to me why the word gyp*** is considered a
racial slur. I note that the body that represents gyp***s in the USA calls
itself the Gypsy Council USA and in the UK it is the Gypsy Council. This is
the term they have chosen to represent their ethnicity and they seem to be
proud of it. Who are we to disagree?"

Much like our community (and governments, and other groups composed of more
than one person) there is neither clear support for nor clear derision for
the term.
If you ask people who might be described as Gypsies, and actually listen to
the responses, you'll hear a range of answers.  Some people like the term
and are offended that anyone would want to change it.  Some are ok calling
themselves that, but want ownership of the term.  Some people think it's
fine as a dance term but are offended by people who call themselves Dance
Gypsies.  Some are totally fine with the term as relates to Dance Gypsies,
but don't like it as a dance term.  Some would have the term be abolished
completely and not be used by anyone to refer to anything.

Considering it's a debate that is unlikely to be answered in my lifetime,
I've decided to stop using the term and to let them sort out what it means
in other contexts.  Other people are free to answer the question as they
see fit.

The term I've been using is Face-to-Face.  It has a lot of the advantages
that Right-Shoulder-Round does, but is slightly more economical as regards
syllables and maintains an emphasis on looking at the other person.
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Re: [Callers] Dance logs and record-keeping

2018-03-07 Thread Ryan Smith via Callers
I keep a personal log on notecards.  I put the date of the event and the
venue and any other information that might be helpful for me when going
back.  Then I write out my intended program (in case I drop my ordered
cards).  If I make a change to the program, I'll update the card with any
additions, rearrangements or deletions.  I'll also put short notes about
how 'good' that program is:  "Too many ladies chain into RH Star" or "This
dance is confusing early in the evening" or "Too few neighbor swings" or
whatever will help me when planning for the future.  On the back of the
card I put the band name, names of members, their instruments and other
notes for announcement time so I can make sure the band gets introduced and
the sound person gets introduced and I make sure that whoever's in charge
of getting the hall taken care of has recognition and help.

Someone suggested it would be a lot of work and little benefit and hard to
share.  In our modern, connected world.  A shared platform like google docs
or google sheets or any blogging platform would allow the callers and
organizers of the dance to document it in a shared space, publicly
accessible or not.  Because it's a thing I already track, the extra work
for me is almost none.  If it's not a thing you already care about, it adds
some work, but really not that much.

--Ryan
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Re: [Callers] Beneficial Tradition

2018-01-04 Thread Ryan Smith via Callers
The rule for the end-effects on this one is surprisingly simple:
"If nobody gives you their hand, don't go anywhere."

The messiness usually comes from people feeling like they should be going
somewhere, similar to what happens with a diagonal chain or right & left
through.  This is just different enough that people don't think to stay put
if there's nobody there.

The end result is that as you're going off the end and back in that:
pull-by-left:  everyone moves
pull-by-right:  gent stays put
pull-by-left:  pull by with partner
pull-by-right: lady stays put

If you have an odd number of couples, there will be a couple out at the end
which gives you a slightly different sequence, but in principle it's the
same.

On Thu, Jan 4, 2018 at 3:49 PM, Kalia Kliban via Callers <
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> Hi all,
>
> I recently called Beneficial Tradition for the first time and noticed a
> consistent hitch in the dance at the top of the set.  It was probably
> happening at the bottom too.
>
> I was doing the variant with no wave balance in the A1, just Women
> allemande L 1x and P swing.  Though the transition from the pull-bys in the
> B2 to that L allemande worked well inside the line, it was always funky at
> the ends.  I'm speculating that that's because folks coming out of the
> pull-by pattern into empty space at the end were tending to head in a
> consistent incorrect direction.
>
> Those of you who have called this dance a lot, have you noticed the same
> issue?  How do you teach the B2-A1 transition to minimize the confusion and
> end effects?
>
> Kalia
>
> ps Happy New Year, everyone!
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Re: [Callers] Becket Formation

2015-12-10 Thread Ryan Smith via Callers
As Mac pointed out, becket dances can be more complex/confusing.  Removing
a need to separate you from your partner at the end of the dance, allows
for some choreographic flexibility.  All the same, most beckets are not
notably more complex/confusing than most improper contras.

My guesses are:
1 - this couple had a bad experience that they associate with 'becket
formation' rather than whatever confounding factors go into making a dance
experience pleasant or unpleasant
2 - was this a contra event (all duple-minors all the time) or a more
varied program?  Maybe the couple doesn't like contras much?
3 - Maybe they are confusing it with some other formation (sicilian, 4 face
4, squares, triplets, etc.)

--Ryan Smith


Re: [Callers] Dance length/dances per evening

2015-04-27 Thread Ryan Smith via Callers
There's a band I work with on a pretty regular basis that usually follows
my lead, but will occasionally ask "For this set, can we choose when to go
out?"  I trust them not to run it too long, and letting them choose when
they go out gives them a lot of control over the musical experience, which
ultimately seems to work well for the dancing experience.  I'll sometimes
signal a band when they're not ready to go out yet, and I'm usually willing
to be negotiated up from 3 more times to 5.  More than that, and we're
starting to wear out the dancers.

I think it's worth mentioning that if you know from the outset that you are
going to want to run a dance longer or shorter than your average, for
whatever reason, that if you communicate that to the band in advance it
will help make sure that you're not cutting them off just as they wind up
or leaving them sitting on a tune that they really didn't mean to play that
long.  I know some bands that like to be signaled when you get to the
middle of the dance, and will even ask to be signaled a little early for
certain sets of tunes.

Part of the reason for using a stopwatch (vs. a timer) is that it doesn't
tell you how much longer to run the dance.  It just tells you how long you
have run the dance, making it easy to be responsive to the music and the
dance and the dancers and the weather and all the other environmental
factors that come into play.

On Mon, Apr 27, 2015 at 4:58 PM, Donald Perley via Callers <
callers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:

> Just a guess.. they have arrangements for each set and feel miffed if
> they get cut short without getting through each variation.
>
> On Mon, Apr 27, 2015 at 4:52 PM, Amy Wimmer via Callers
>  wrote:
>
> >
> > I have an oddity coming up: a band for which I am calling has asked to
> > take the lead on when to end the dances. I figure one evening of that
> > can't hurt, if it keeps the band happy. I will take notes. The leader
> > of this band has control issues and knows what's best for everyone.
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Re: [Callers] Dance length/dances per evening

2015-04-27 Thread Ryan Smith via Callers
"If you decide on a number of times through and actually count, you can
stick to that pretty well, but if you decide a running time, it is much
more difficult to stay on track of the time and warn the band three times
before you want to end, etc."

I couldn't disagree more.  I have always used a stopwatch to keep track of
how long I'm running the dance, and since one time through the dance is
close enough to 30 seconds as to make it not matter, I signal the band 3
more times at whichever B2 is closest to one and a half minutes (usually
6.5 minutes since we started) from my target time (usually 8 minutes).  I
don't count times through or use marker couples or anything like that
because I don't need the distractions.  If I were counting, I would
definitely have a moment where some couple needed my help and I'd be
figuring out what calls would best put them back on the right track and
forget whether I was on 5 or 7, and then I'd probably end up running the
dance too long thinking I was on 16 times through, when it was really 20.

If counting works for you, that's great.  For people like me, having a
target length is much simpler.