RE: do not increase counter is returns 0 Apology to List

2008-06-04 Thread Bobby Hartsfield
Erik originated the lotto scam post? That's funny... and just when I thought
I couldn't think any better of him. ;-)

I've seen all of the posts in question Brian... I think I may have even
started the original barrage of 'read a book' comments geared toward erik...
but after the 10th time or so, I just decided that he has no intention of
learning where he needs to but instead would rather have the quick fix so he
can move on so my latest Outlook filter entitled 'Erik Tom' was born.

Katrina is right (to a very small degree) ... it is time to watch him shrink
into the distance... you tried to help.

..:.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.
Bobby Hartsfield
http://acoderslife.com
http://cf4em.com


-Original Message-
From: Brian Kotek [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
Sent: Wednesday, June 04, 2008 12:11 AM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: Re: do not increase counter is returns 0 Apology to List

Seeing as how *I* was not the person who initially responded to Erik, and
how my message also advocated *exactly* what you are proposing (ignoring
him), I don't understand at all what you're trying to say or why I am
somehow the target of your indignation.

Regardless, I'll let this thread die now since you seem content to reject
the olive branch I was trying to extend. Sorry you disagree with me, but
given the long chain of events related to this (which you seem to be
ignoring or are still not aware of), I can tell you with certainty that I
would say the same thing again without hesitation.


On Tue, Jun 3, 2008 at 11:28 PM, Katrina Chapman [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 I apologize for having posted this to the list.  It was intended to be a
 private post directly to Brian.  I was a little upset at the time that I
 wrote the post.  This is not an excuse but an explanation for my not
 changing the recipient.

 I however stand by my original message.  While you didn't actually use the
 word idiot the underlying message, at least how I read it, was that you
were
 condemning Erik for either being too stupid or too lazy to read even the
 most basic book on SQL.  To me that's the same thing.  It also implies
that
 YOU HAVE read the most basic book on SQL and therefore know more than
the
 next guy.

 I have found, on the MANY different lists that I have belonged to, that if
 you ignore the kind of people you all have described they eventually go
 away.  They might post the same questions over and over and over again for
a
 little while but they eventually leave.  They might even throw a fit about
 not getting any help.  So what?  Who cares?  Instead of posting about how
we
 shouldn't help this person because we have already tried and tried to help
 them and they just don't get it, ignore them.

 I'm sure there is going to be more flaming for this response.  However I
 felt that I needed to explain my reaction earlier and again apologize to
the
 rest of the list for this public discussion that should have been
 private.Thank you,
 Katrina






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Re: do not increase counter is returns 0 Apology to List

2008-06-03 Thread Katrina Chapman
I apologize for having posted this to the list.  It was intended to be a 
private post directly to Brian.  I was a little upset at the time that I wrote 
the post.  This is not an excuse but an explanation for my not changing the 
recipient.
 
I however stand by my original message.  While you didn't actually use the word 
idiot the underlying message, at least how I read it, was that you were 
condemning Erik for either being too stupid or too lazy to read even the most 
basic book on SQL.  To me that's the same thing.  It also implies that YOU 
HAVE read the most basic book on SQL and therefore know more than the next 
guy.
 
I have found, on the MANY different lists that I have belonged to, that if you 
ignore the kind of people you all have described they eventually go away.  They 
might post the same questions over and over and over again for a little while 
but they eventually leave.  They might even throw a fit about not getting any 
help.  So what?  Who cares?  Instead of posting about how we shouldn't help 
this person because we have already tried and tried to help them and they just 
don't get it, ignore them.
 
I'm sure there is going to be more flaming for this response.  However I felt 
that I needed to explain my reaction earlier and again apologize to the rest of 
the list for this public discussion that should have been private.Thank you,
Katrina 

If people knew how hard I worked to gain my mastery,
it wouldn't seem so wonderful after all.
--Michelangelo 



- Original Message 
From: Brian Kotek [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: CF-Talk cf-talk@houseoffusion.com
Sent: Tuesday, June 3, 2008 5:35:40 PM
Subject: Re: do not increase counter is returns 0

Katrina, I held off responding to you to wait for the other replies that I
knew would be coming. Hopefully by this point you realize that your comments
to me were rather far off the mark, and that folks with knowledge of this
ongoing situation actually agree with me.

I assume you must not have known what has gone on with Erik and hopefully
these additional postings have supplied the context that my initial reply
did not. But even still, I neither called him an idiot nor attempted to show
how much more I know than the next guy. I would humbly ask that in the
future, before you condemn me or put words in my mouth that you please make
sure you aren't missing essential background information. I promise to do
the same. ;-)

Thanks,

Brian


On Tue, Jun 3, 2008 at 2:17 PM, Katrina Chapman [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 I haven't been a member of this list for a few years now, but I remember it
 being a place where even the most beginning person could come for advice.
 This is a community and not a place for you to show how much more you
 know than the next guy.
 I really don't think this response is appropriate and I'm sure that most of
 the community feels the same way.  How about next time instead of saying
 You're an idiot, you either give some good advice or don't respond?  That
 way there's no waste of everyone else's time reading posts that aren't
 helpful.  You might also find that you'll get better responses to any
 questions you have if you're nice.
 *Down off my soap box now*
  Thank you,
 Katrina

 If people knew how hard I worked to gain my mastery,
 it wouldn't seem so wonderful after all.
 --Michelangelo



 - Original Message 
 From: Brian Kotek [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: CF-Talk cf-talk@houseoffusion.com
 Sent: Tuesday, June 3, 2008 9:37:46 AM
 Subject: Re: do not increase counter is returns 0

 If Erik would bother to read even the most basic book on SQL he could
 answer
 this himself since this could all be done in a couple of lines of SQL with
 no loops and no CFML at all. But he'd rather waste everyone else's time
 instead of spending 10 dollars. So please don't encourage him, Tom. ;-)


 On Tue, Jun 3, 2008 at 11:26 AM, Tom Chiverton 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 wrote:

  On Friday 30 May 2008, erik tom wrote:
   not return returns a record then do not increase the counter (this part
  is
   working) Also if the query.hours eq 0 and query.minutes eq 0 also
 should
   not increase the counter
                        cfif getTimeAvg1.recordcount gt 0
 
  cfif getTimeAvg1.recordcount gt 0 and query.hours neq 0 and
 query.mineutes
  neq 0 ?
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Re: do not increase counter is returns 0 Apology to List

2008-06-03 Thread Brian Kotek
Seeing as how *I* was not the person who initially responded to Erik, and
how my message also advocated *exactly* what you are proposing (ignoring
him), I don't understand at all what you're trying to say or why I am
somehow the target of your indignation.

Regardless, I'll let this thread die now since you seem content to reject
the olive branch I was trying to extend. Sorry you disagree with me, but
given the long chain of events related to this (which you seem to be
ignoring or are still not aware of), I can tell you with certainty that I
would say the same thing again without hesitation.


On Tue, Jun 3, 2008 at 11:28 PM, Katrina Chapman [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 I apologize for having posted this to the list.  It was intended to be a
 private post directly to Brian.  I was a little upset at the time that I
 wrote the post.  This is not an excuse but an explanation for my not
 changing the recipient.

 I however stand by my original message.  While you didn't actually use the
 word idiot the underlying message, at least how I read it, was that you were
 condemning Erik for either being too stupid or too lazy to read even the
 most basic book on SQL.  To me that's the same thing.  It also implies that
 YOU HAVE read the most basic book on SQL and therefore know more than the
 next guy.

 I have found, on the MANY different lists that I have belonged to, that if
 you ignore the kind of people you all have described they eventually go
 away.  They might post the same questions over and over and over again for a
 little while but they eventually leave.  They might even throw a fit about
 not getting any help.  So what?  Who cares?  Instead of posting about how we
 shouldn't help this person because we have already tried and tried to help
 them and they just don't get it, ignore them.

 I'm sure there is going to be more flaming for this response.  However I
 felt that I needed to explain my reaction earlier and again apologize to the
 rest of the list for this public discussion that should have been
 private.Thank you,
 Katrina




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