Re: [Coworking] Political Groups in coworking environments

2017-03-28 Thread Tony Bacigalupo 
Alex is smart. Listen to Alex. :-)

Gah, I love this group!

On Tue, Mar 28, 2017 at 5:57 PM, Alex Hillman 
wrote:

> I'm gonna flip this around for a second and describe a different scenario:
> multiple of times a month we have someone show up with clear "business"
> intentions...and that's really that they just wants to pitch everyone on
> their startup. They're here with *business* intention (at least in their
> mind), but they're going to be a disruption. We rarely have to tell them
> flat out "no" but instead we tell them what our expectations are, and
> invite them step up to those expectations. Some people head elsewhere, to
> be another coworking space's problems. Others step up to that high bar, and
> become great community members.
>
> See what I'm getting at? That kind of behavior maps across all kinds of
> sectors. There's bad actors everywhere. Some are worse than others, but it
> really depends a lot on the person/people, their cultural expectations, and
> what *they *understand is acceptable.
>
> Now, politics *is* interesting in a different way, and the last 18 months
> (and even more recent 6 months) have given me a strong taste of that in a
> new way. In the wake of our last election, I was met with BOTH sides of the
> conversation.
>
> I had people telling me (mostly in private) how thankful they were to have
> a community of likeminded people to turn to during a confusing, difficult
> political situation. We had members organize amongst themselves to protest.
> We had members collaborate on forming PACs. Organize fundraising (I think
> we collectively raised over $10k during the holidays across a few different
> efforts).
>
> In a lot of ways, it was super inspiring to watch people become active
> citizens in the context of our community.
>
> I *also* had people telling me (mostly in private) that they felt like
> politics had become the dominant narrative, and they were frustrated by it.
> They missed the other conversations, or found it harder to find signal
> through the noise. It wasn't even *"that person has views that I disagree
> with"* (that did happen a few times, but that's called being an adult) it
> was more *"can we talk about something other than politics?"*
>
> I talked with those folks about ways to boost the signal on non-political
> topics. In most cases, they were pretty quick to recognize that the best
> way to boost signal is *always* to *create more signal. *Do more of the
> stuff you want to see more of, talk about more of that stuff, and *that* 
> becomes
> the dominant narrative.
>
> Another way I'd look at this is that if a single group with ANY interest
> (politics, startups, whatever it might be) is able to come in and
> permanently disrupt your community, then maybe you have work to do on
> making your community more resilient. Or give your community more credit
> for being resilient. Or both.
>
> -Alex
>
>
>
>
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>
> On Tue, Mar 28, 2017 at 2:58 PM, Eric Datanagan 
> wrote:
>
>> Hello Folks,
>> Anyone have experience with allowing political groups to become members.
>> Politics can be a very touchy subject which I could forsee potentially
>> disturbing or upsetting community members.   The focus of our coworking
>> community is growing, sharing, and networking with business, not politics.
>> I'm curious how others may have or would handled this.
>>
>> Cheers!
>>
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Re: [Coworking] Political Groups in coworking environments

2017-03-28 Thread Alex Hillman 
I'm gonna flip this around for a second and describe a different scenario:
multiple of times a month we have someone show up with clear "business"
intentions...and that's really that they just wants to pitch everyone on
their startup. They're here with *business* intention (at least in their
mind), but they're going to be a disruption. We rarely have to tell them
flat out "no" but instead we tell them what our expectations are, and
invite them step up to those expectations. Some people head elsewhere, to
be another coworking space's problems. Others step up to that high bar, and
become great community members.

See what I'm getting at? That kind of behavior maps across all kinds of
sectors. There's bad actors everywhere. Some are worse than others, but it
really depends a lot on the person/people, their cultural expectations, and
what *they *understand is acceptable.

Now, politics *is* interesting in a different way, and the last 18 months
(and even more recent 6 months) have given me a strong taste of that in a
new way. In the wake of our last election, I was met with BOTH sides of the
conversation.

I had people telling me (mostly in private) how thankful they were to have
a community of likeminded people to turn to during a confusing, difficult
political situation. We had members organize amongst themselves to protest.
We had members collaborate on forming PACs. Organize fundraising (I think
we collectively raised over $10k during the holidays across a few different
efforts).

In a lot of ways, it was super inspiring to watch people become active
citizens in the context of our community.

I *also* had people telling me (mostly in private) that they felt like
politics had become the dominant narrative, and they were frustrated by it.
They missed the other conversations, or found it harder to find signal
through the noise. It wasn't even *"that person has views that I disagree
with"* (that did happen a few times, but that's called being an adult) it
was more *"can we talk about something other than politics?"*

I talked with those folks about ways to boost the signal on non-political
topics. In most cases, they were pretty quick to recognize that the best
way to boost signal is *always* to *create more signal. *Do more of the
stuff you want to see more of, talk about more of that stuff, and
*that* becomes
the dominant narrative.

Another way I'd look at this is that if a single group with ANY interest
(politics, startups, whatever it might be) is able to come in and
permanently disrupt your community, then maybe you have work to do on
making your community more resilient. Or give your community more credit
for being resilient. Or both.

-Alex




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On Tue, Mar 28, 2017 at 2:58 PM, Eric Datanagan 
wrote:

> Hello Folks,
> Anyone have experience with allowing political groups to become members.
> Politics can be a very touchy subject which I could forsee potentially
> disturbing or upsetting community members.   The focus of our coworking
> community is growing, sharing, and networking with business, not politics.
> I'm curious how others may have or would handled this.
>
> Cheers!
>
> --
> Visit this forum on the web at http://discuss.coworking.com
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