Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread MJ Ray
Manoj Srivastava sriva...@debian.org wrote:
 On Fri, Jul 24 2009, MJ Ray wrote:
  [...] the project should remain polite even in the
  face of really daft ideas (like the 3017th report that our website CSS
  is invalid just because the W3C validator is incomplete).

 Calling a daft idea silly is being rude now?

Not necessarily (it depends how one phrases it), but being rude is one
way of being not overly genteel (as the earlier message advocated).
I feel one shouldn't discourage politeness here.

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Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread Ben Finney
MJ Ray m...@phonecoop.coop writes:

 Manoj Srivastava sriva...@debian.org wrote:
  Calling a daft idea silly is being rude now?
 
 Not necessarily (it depends how one phrases it), but being rude is one
 way of being not overly genteel (as the earlier message advocated).
 I feel one shouldn't discourage politeness here.

Agreed, politeness toward people is IMO too infrequent on our lists and
is to be actively encouraged. However, I don't think it's necessarily
impolite to attack an idea; even to attack it harshly or ridicule it.

Care must be taken, by all parties in these conversations, including
those who receive the messages, not to inject personal attacks where
unwarranted. Strive to craft messages without personal attacks, and to
interpret them that way.

If what remains is an attack upon an *idea*, so be it; ideas don't have
feelings and are not automatically deserving of respect or politeness.
“This is a silly idea” attacks no-one and is impolite to no-one. Let
those who support the idea come to its defense as they choose; if an
idea has no able defenders, let it fall under the attack to clear the
way for better ideas.

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Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread Lars Wirzenius
la, 2009-07-25 kello 23:12 +1000, Ben Finney kirjoitti:
 If what remains is an attack upon an *idea*, so be it; ideas don't have
 feelings and are not automatically deserving of respect or politeness.
 “This is a silly idea” attacks no-one and is impolite to no-one. Let
 those who support the idea come to its defense as they choose; if an
 idea has no able defenders, let it fall under the attack to clear the
 way for better ideas.

While that is true in principle, it is also true that people often have
an emotional attachment to ideas they propose, and may be unable to
fully prevent the feeling that an attack on their idea is also partially
an attack on themselves. (It doesn't help that sometimes that is true.)

It is thus often more constructive to express criticism in a gentle and
genteel fashion. This does not require approval of a bad idea.

For example, in the specific case under discussion, the criticism might
have been expressed something like this instead:

I think this is a bad idea. It creates extra work for developers
just to retain their membership in the project. The proposal so
far has been based on activities that developers do anyway, and
that is good. Inventing new things DDs must do to keep their
membership is a bad idea.

I also think unsolicited pings to active developers are a bad
idea and should be avoided.

Now, if there is active work going on that does not reflect
itself in uploads, then I can see using a signed/encrypted email
to a role address every couple of years or so could be a
workaround to the automatic MIA process. That should be the
exception, though. Almost everyone should be covered by the
usual process.

I believe that if such wording could have avoided the current
sub-thread, so we could have concentrated on the actual issues.

(My apologies to Manoj if I have misinterpreted his feelings and
thoughts. My apologies to everyone for continuing the meta-discussion.)



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Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Sat, Jul 25 2009, Lars Wirzenius wrote:


 For example, in the specific case under discussion, the criticism might
 have been expressed something like this instead:

 I think this is a bad idea. It creates extra work for
 developers

You are making the assumption that the authors reaction to Bad
 is less negative than the reaction to Silly. While this is
 subjective, I do not think it is without contention:

   Bad possibly has the connotation of malice, or active harm, Silly has
   association with harmlessness. (c.f.  The Collaborative International
   Dictionary of English v.0.48 [gcide])


I personally would regard either adjective as equally negative,
 though I would be driven to either defend my idea or concede it's
 silliness, instead of attacking the critic.

I have also seen ideas characterized as stunningly bad (hi,
 diziet), which seems to be in line with silly. Negatively
 characterizing ideas, and acceptable negative adjetives, with all the
 subjectivity involved, seems ... strange. Mind you, my his a silly
 idea phrase was a single clause in a long email detailing why the idea
 was, err, suboptimal, so the whole reaction seems somehow overwrought.

Sorry for jumping in again (I had promised to stay off the
 thread), but I respect Lars, and I thought he deserved a public
 response. 

manoj


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Re: US embargo restrictions for Debian?

2009-07-25 Thread Steve Langasek
Hello,

On Fri, Jul 03, 2009 at 01:00:52PM +0200, Ola Sandbu wrote:
 I see that Debian is a US registered organization, and then have to obey the
 laws for that country.
 The reason for  my question is because I could not find any information
 related to United States embargo regulations at the Debian Web pages.

 The question is simple: Are you violating the US embargo regulations by
 allowing me (or anybody else) to install the whole or part of a Debian
 distribution in a country included in the the lists described by
 http://www.bis.doc.gov/complianceandenforcement/ListsToCheck.htm  ?

 My only way of understanding that the Debian distribution is legal is if it
 is classified as information, that is an exception from the law.

Please see http://www.debian.org/legal/cryptoinmain for a summary of
Debian's current understanding of our obligations under US export law.

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Re: Re-thinking Debian membership - take #1: inactivity

2009-07-25 Thread Steve Langasek
On Fri, Jul 24, 2009 at 05:34:19PM +0200, Bernd Zeimetz wrote:
 Steve Langasek wrote:
  On Thu, Jul 23, 2009 at 11:52:11PM +0200, Bernd Zeimetz wrote:
  But I know that there are/will be DDs which do infrastructure stuff only, 
  and
  rarely upload packages. Such DDs should never be regarded as MIA, of 
  course.

  I am not convinced of this.  Infrastructure contributions are necessary and
  valuable, but we don't admit people as Debian Developers on the basis of
  infrastructure contributions, nor to work on infrastructure; they become
  developers to work on the distribution. 

 The infrastructure is essential for our distribution, same for
 documentations an translations. I can't see a reason why such people
 should not be able to become DDs.

Because it implies a professional priest caste separate from the
developers who will inevitably drift away and lose the perspective needed to
understand the concerns of people actually working on the distro?

Because people who are trusted with this critical infrastructure earn that
trust by being developers first, not by coming in as unknown outsiders and
volunteering to be given control over infrastructure tasks?

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Re: [OT] aggressiveness on our mailing lists.

2009-07-25 Thread Lars Wirzenius
la, 2009-07-25 kello 09:16 -0500, Manoj Srivastava kirjoitti:
 You are making the assumption that the authors reaction to Bad
  is less negative than the reaction to Silly. While this is
  subjective, I do not think it is without contention:

My hasty re-wording has now given the wrong impression, sorry. My main
point is that it is often possible to express misgivings about things
other people propose without exiting the realm of the polite. I hope I
can claim that is true even though I failed to completely do so myself.



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Re: Re-thinking Debian membership - take #1: inactivity

2009-07-25 Thread Bernd Zeimetz
Steve Langasek wrote:
 The infrastructure is essential for our distribution, same for
 documentations an translations. I can't see a reason why such people
 should not be able to become DDs.
 
 Because it implies a professional priest caste separate from the
 developers who will inevitably drift away and lose the perspective needed to
 understand the concerns of people actually working on the distro?

No, because a lot of infrastructure stuff takes so much time that it is almost
not possible to maintain packages probably anymore. Remember, people have a real
life, too.

 Because people who are trusted with this critical infrastructure earn that
 trust by being developers first, not by coming in as unknown outsiders and
 volunteering to be given control over infrastructure tasks?

See above. Also: There're a lot of teams where outsiders can help and earn trust
witout being able to break things.

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Re: Re-thinking Debian membership - take #1: inactivity

2009-07-25 Thread Cyril Brulebois
Bernd Zeimetz be...@bzed.de (26/07/2009):
 See above. Also: There're a lot of teams where outsiders can help and
 earn trust without being able to break things.

Do you mean people like Simon Paillard? With contributions in l10n,
i18n, www, and mirror domains?

If you didn't, I (at the very least) do.

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Re: Re-thinking Debian membership - take #1: inactivity

2009-07-25 Thread Bernd Zeimetz
Cyril Brulebois wrote:
 Bernd Zeimetz be...@bzed.de (26/07/2009):
 See above. Also: There're a lot of teams where outsiders can help and
 earn trust without being able to break things.
 
 Do you mean people like Simon Paillard? With contributions in l10n,
 i18n, www, and mirror domains?

Yes.

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