Yes, there IS a method to my "madness". I always have two objectives when I go after a phony. The first is to let them know they aren't fooling anyone. The second is to build enough reflection into topics they know little about, so that they avoid them.
Since being phony is all about ego - projecting the story of oneself - my first objective is more of a pipe dream - aka, leading a horse to water.... The second objective seems to work quite well, though. But,the one thing that creeps me out, is that B and C, while licking their wounds, sometimes engage in open dialogue on FFL, which is NOTHING like what they send each other privately. Anyway, the charade, nauseating as it is, is preferable, imo, to them running roughshod. B and C, please share your cooking and cinema experiences, but, please, please stay away from the phony shit you concoct around other topics. At least for a couple more days. Clears the air for the rest of us, and good discipline for you two, also! A win-win. Whaddya say??
