[Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

2009-03-02 Thread Heather
I haven't posted much lately, sadly have had quite a few rescue losses in
the last months as well as rescue emergencies which has me so behind on
all fronts

However, one of our dear, fairly elderly university campus ferals, Bashful,
will be crossing this afternoon and I wanted to share her story so that many
thoughts will be with her.

Bashful's caregiver has been taking care of her for at least 10 years, she
disappeared a couple of weeks ago which was attributed to roofers at the
Library where she has lived for so many years.   When she showed back up she
was clearly in dire need of help.   Elaine her caregiver called me for help
trapping, 2 friends and I set out without much success the first two
days--it was heartbreaking, she was half under the drop trap the first night
but just a bit of food made her choke  cough so horribly, we had tears in
our eyes just hearing  watching.  Her neck was very, very swollen impairing
her ability to eat and walk.

We got her 2 nights later, began b/w, examcytology via needle aspirate
confirmed a high grade, aggressive lymphoma.

We discussed the possibility of chemo but Bashful is very feral and already
unhappy even being at the vet, it was clear this was not going to be a way
to give her quality time and that she was already in a very bad state.

One of my good campus friends who came to the call to help drop trap is
leaving now to be with Bashful for her final moments.   Bashful was not
FELV+ (likely was FIV+), but I know many here can sympathize with the
dreadful diagnosis of lymphoma.

We treat feral cats for illnesses as much as we possibly can, I've actually
got 14 campus feral kitty Bobbye on my porch now for that reason (CRF, FIV+,
along with Toxoplasmosis  possible eye tumor which has not
progressed--she's done well other than not liking the fluids of
course)but it just didn't seem there were any way we could put Bashful
through chemo, weekly vet visits, and possibly never feeling good enough for
the time to have been of quality for her.   She is very stressed at my vet
and we hope things go as peacefully as possible this afternoon.

Go with love, sweet Bashful, and know how badly we wanted to help you--you
will not be forgotten.

Heather
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Re: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

2009-03-02 Thread Rosenfeldt, Diane
I'm so sorry, Heather.  It sounds like you are doing the exact right
thing for Bashful now.  Gentlest of Bridge vibes to her, and hopes for a
passing free from fear and full of the knowledge that she was loved.

Diane R. 

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Cc: Duke, Melanie
Subject: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

I haven't posted much lately, sadly have had quite a few rescue losses
in
the last months as well as rescue emergencies which has me so behind
on
all fronts

However, one of our dear, fairly elderly university campus ferals,
Bashful,
will be crossing this afternoon and I wanted to share her story so that
many
thoughts will be with her.

Bashful's caregiver has been taking care of her for at least 10 years,
she
disappeared a couple of weeks ago which was attributed to roofers at the
Library where she has lived for so many years.   When she showed back up
she
was clearly in dire need of help.   Elaine her caregiver called me for
help
trapping, 2 friends and I set out without much success the first two
days--it was heartbreaking, she was half under the drop trap the first
night
but just a bit of food made her choke  cough so horribly, we had tears
in
our eyes just hearing  watching.  Her neck was very, very swollen
impairing
her ability to eat and walk.

We got her 2 nights later, began b/w, examcytology via needle
aspirate
confirmed a high grade, aggressive lymphoma.

We discussed the possibility of chemo but Bashful is very feral and
already
unhappy even being at the vet, it was clear this was not going to be a
way
to give her quality time and that she was already in a very bad state.

One of my good campus friends who came to the call to help drop trap is
leaving now to be with Bashful for her final moments.   Bashful was not
FELV+ (likely was FIV+), but I know many here can sympathize with the
dreadful diagnosis of lymphoma.

We treat feral cats for illnesses as much as we possibly can, I've
actually
got 14 campus feral kitty Bobbye on my porch now for that reason (CRF,
FIV+,
along with Toxoplasmosis  possible eye tumor which has not
progressed--she's done well other than not liking the fluids of
course)but it just didn't seem there were any way we could put
Bashful
through chemo, weekly vet visits, and possibly never feeling good enough
for
the time to have been of quality for her.   She is very stressed at my
vet
and we hope things go as peacefully as possible this afternoon.

Go with love, sweet Bashful, and know how badly we wanted to help
you--you
will not be forgotten.

Heather
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Re: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

2009-03-02 Thread Heather
Thank you Diane  M.C., your thoughts are so much appreciatedI hate not
trying which is why we did all the diagnostics, but all involved felt that
she would not have peace enduring chemo, especially given all aspects of
her  condition, temprament, and of course that not only was there the known
stresses of chemo  frequent appts, injections, but that unexpected things
might come up as well depending on how she tolerated it.

Thank you for helping us ensure that Bashful is not forgotten...these
geriatric feral cats are very special to us, their strength  perseverance
is honorable...not to mention the light and love they add to our daily work.

On Mon, Mar 2, 2009 at 2:03 PM, Rosenfeldt, Diane d...@quarles.com wrote:

 I'm so sorry, Heather.  It sounds like you are doing the exact right
 thing for Bashful now.  Gentlest of Bridge vibes to her, and hopes for a
 passing free from fear and full of the knowledge that she was loved.

 Diane R.

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 Subject: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

 I haven't posted much lately, sadly have had quite a few rescue losses
 in
 the last months as well as rescue emergencies which has me so behind
 on
 all fronts

 However, one of our dear, fairly elderly university campus ferals,
 Bashful,
 will be crossing this afternoon and I wanted to share her story so that
 many
 thoughts will be with her.

 Bashful's caregiver has been taking care of her for at least 10 years,
 she
 disappeared a couple of weeks ago which was attributed to roofers at the
 Library where she has lived for so many years.   When she showed back up
 she
 was clearly in dire need of help.   Elaine her caregiver called me for
 help
 trapping, 2 friends and I set out without much success the first two
 days--it was heartbreaking, she was half under the drop trap the first
 night
 but just a bit of food made her choke  cough so horribly, we had tears
 in
 our eyes just hearing  watching.  Her neck was very, very swollen
 impairing
 her ability to eat and walk.

 We got her 2 nights later, began b/w, examcytology via needle
 aspirate
 confirmed a high grade, aggressive lymphoma.

 We discussed the possibility of chemo but Bashful is very feral and
 already
 unhappy even being at the vet, it was clear this was not going to be a
 way
 to give her quality time and that she was already in a very bad state.

 One of my good campus friends who came to the call to help drop trap is
 leaving now to be with Bashful for her final moments.   Bashful was not
 FELV+ (likely was FIV+), but I know many here can sympathize with the
 dreadful diagnosis of lymphoma.

 We treat feral cats for illnesses as much as we possibly can, I've
 actually
 got 14 campus feral kitty Bobbye on my porch now for that reason (CRF,
 FIV+,
 along with Toxoplasmosis  possible eye tumor which has not
 progressed--she's done well other than not liking the fluids of
 course)but it just didn't seem there were any way we could put
 Bashful
 through chemo, weekly vet visits, and possibly never feeling good enough
 for
 the time to have been of quality for her.   She is very stressed at my
 vet
 and we hope things go as peacefully as possible this afternoon.

 Go with love, sweet Bashful, and know how badly we wanted to help
 you--you
 will not be forgotten.

 Heather
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Re: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

2009-03-02 Thread Sally Davis
Heather,

I am so sorry to hear about Bashful. You are so kind to help her on ther
Journey. I will keep Pepper in my prayers.

hugs,

Sally

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Re: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

2009-03-02 Thread Gloria B. Lane
Bashful is of course so fortunate to have you all - what a great  
group.  May she float to the bridge on gossamer wings, with all our  
sweet ones.


Gloria



On Mar 2, 2009, at 12:50 PM, Heather wrote:

I haven't posted much lately, sadly have had quite a few rescue  
losses in
the last months as well as rescue emergencies which has me so  
behind on

all fronts

However, one of our dear, fairly elderly university campus ferals,  
Bashful,
will be crossing this afternoon and I wanted to share her story so  
that many

thoughts will be with her.

Bashful's caregiver has been taking care of her for at least 10  
years, she
disappeared a couple of weeks ago which was attributed to roofers at  
the
Library where she has lived for so many years.   When she showed  
back up she
was clearly in dire need of help.   Elaine her caregiver called me  
for help

trapping, 2 friends and I set out without much success the first two
days--it was heartbreaking, she was half under the drop trap the  
first night
but just a bit of food made her choke  cough so horribly, we had  
tears in
our eyes just hearing  watching.  Her neck was very, very swollen  
impairing

her ability to eat and walk.

We got her 2 nights later, began b/w, examcytology via needle  
aspirate

confirmed a high grade, aggressive lymphoma.

We discussed the possibility of chemo but Bashful is very feral and  
already
unhappy even being at the vet, it was clear this was not going to be  
a way

to give her quality time and that she was already in a very bad state.

One of my good campus friends who came to the call to help drop trap  
is
leaving now to be with Bashful for her final moments.   Bashful was  
not

FELV+ (likely was FIV+), but I know many here can sympathize with the
dreadful diagnosis of lymphoma.

We treat feral cats for illnesses as much as we possibly can, I've  
actually
got 14 campus feral kitty Bobbye on my porch now for that reason  
(CRF, FIV+,

along with Toxoplasmosis  possible eye tumor which has not
progressed--she's done well other than not liking the fluids of
course)but it just didn't seem there were any way we could put  
Bashful
through chemo, weekly vet visits, and possibly never feeling good  
enough for
the time to have been of quality for her.   She is very stressed at  
my vet

and we hope things go as peacefully as possible this afternoon.

Go with love, sweet Bashful, and know how badly we wanted to help  
you--you

will not be forgotten.

Heather
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Re: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

2009-03-02 Thread Chris
How wonderful of all of you to be there with Bashful all this time and right
up to the end.  That alone will mean so much to her--a familiar face helping
her to be at peace and pain free. Having lost my Romeo to Lymphoma earlier
this year, I know how quick and devastating it is.  Bravo to all of you for
loving this little one that much!

Christiane Biagi

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Subject: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

I haven't posted much lately, sadly have had quite a few rescue losses in
the last months as well as rescue emergencies which has me so behind on
all fronts

However, one of our dear, fairly elderly university campus ferals, Bashful,
will be crossing this afternoon and I wanted to share her story so that many
thoughts will be with her.

Bashful's caregiver has been taking care of her for at least 10 years, she
disappeared a couple of weeks ago which was attributed to roofers at the
Library where she has lived for so many years.   When she showed back up she
was clearly in dire need of help.   Elaine her caregiver called me for help
trapping, 2 friends and I set out without much success the first two
days--it was heartbreaking, she was half under the drop trap the first night
but just a bit of food made her choke  cough so horribly, we had tears in
our eyes just hearing  watching.  Her neck was very, very swollen impairing
her ability to eat and walk.

We got her 2 nights later, began b/w, examcytology via needle aspirate
confirmed a high grade, aggressive lymphoma.

We discussed the possibility of chemo but Bashful is very feral and already
unhappy even being at the vet, it was clear this was not going to be a way
to give her quality time and that she was already in a very bad state.

One of my good campus friends who came to the call to help drop trap is
leaving now to be with Bashful for her final moments.   Bashful was not
FELV+ (likely was FIV+), but I know many here can sympathize with the
dreadful diagnosis of lymphoma.

We treat feral cats for illnesses as much as we possibly can, I've actually
got 14 campus feral kitty Bobbye on my porch now for that reason (CRF, FIV+,
along with Toxoplasmosis  possible eye tumor which has not
progressed--she's done well other than not liking the fluids of
course)but it just didn't seem there were any way we could put Bashful
through chemo, weekly vet visits, and possibly never feeling good enough for
the time to have been of quality for her.   She is very stressed at my vet
and we hope things go as peacefully as possible this afternoon.

Go with love, sweet Bashful, and know how badly we wanted to help you--you
will not be forgotten.

Heather
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[Felvtalk] Hello- new to the list.

2009-03-02 Thread Amy Ackerman

Just wanted to say a quick hello to all the list members- i've just joined upon 
learning this afternoon that my much adored 10 year old cat is positive.  We're 
unsure as to how he contracted feluk as he was tested before we adopted him, 
and the two cats we have adopted since then were both tested... sigh.  We take 
the other two in tomorrow morning to be tested  hopefully vaccinated, and then 
we'll bring my big boy home.  Hopefully he will be with us for at least a few 
more months.  I've been scouring the archives and can't express enough 
gratitude- there is so much wonderful information  support here.  I look 
forward to being a part of this community.  Amy
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Re: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL

2009-03-02 Thread Sherry DeHaan
Thank you Heather for your story of Bashful.She no longer has to suffer and has 
many wonderful fur babies to play with now.
Sherry


We who choose to surround ourselves with lives more temporary
than our own,
Live within a fragile circle,easily and often breached.
Unable to accept its awful gaps.
We still would have it no other way

--- On Mon, 3/2/09, Heather furrygi...@gmail.com wrote:

From: Heather furrygi...@gmail.com
Subject: [Felvtalk] Bashful to cross at 2:15 today (EST) Tampa, FL
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Cc: Duke, Melanie md...@admin.usf.edu
Date: Monday, March 2, 2009, 1:50 PM

I haven't posted much lately, sadly have had quite a few rescue losses in
the last months as well as rescue emergencies which has me so
behind on
all fronts

However, one of our dear, fairly elderly university campus ferals, Bashful,
will be crossing this afternoon and I wanted to share her story so that many
thoughts will be with her.

Bashful's caregiver has been taking care of her for at least 10 years, she
disappeared a couple of weeks ago which was attributed to roofers at the
Library where she has lived for so many years.   When she showed back up she
was clearly in dire need of help.   Elaine her caregiver called me for help
trapping, 2 friends and I set out without much success the first two
days--it was heartbreaking, she was half under the drop trap the first night
but just a bit of food made her choke  cough so horribly, we had tears in
our eyes just hearing  watching.  Her neck was very, very swollen
impairing
her ability to eat and walk.

We got her 2 nights later, began b/w, examcytology via needle aspirate
confirmed a high grade, aggressive lymphoma.

We discussed the possibility of chemo but Bashful is very feral and already
unhappy even being at the vet, it was clear this was not going to be a way
to give her quality time and that she was already in a very bad state.

One of my good campus friends who came to the call to help drop trap is
leaving now to be with Bashful for her final moments.   Bashful was not
FELV+ (likely was FIV+), but I know many here can sympathize with the
dreadful diagnosis of lymphoma.

We treat feral cats for illnesses as much as we possibly can, I've actually
got 14 campus feral kitty Bobbye on my porch now for that reason (CRF, FIV+,
along with Toxoplasmosis  possible eye tumor which has not
progressed--she's done well other than not liking the fluids of
course)but it just didn't seem there were any way we could put Bashful
through chemo, weekly vet visits, and possibly never feeling good enough for
the time to have been of quality for her.   She is very stressed at my vet
and we hope things go as peacefully as possible this afternoon.

Go with love, sweet Bashful, and know how badly we wanted to help you--you
will not be forgotten.

Heather
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Re: [Felvtalk] Hello- new to the list.

2009-03-02 Thread gary
Hi Amy,

Welcome to the list.

You say you hope you will have at least a few more months with him.  Besides
being FeLV positive, what is wrong with him?

Gary

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Just wanted to say a quick hello to all the list members- i've just joined
upon learning this afternoon that my much adored 10 year old cat is
positive.  We're unsure as to how he contracted feluk as he was tested
before we adopted him, and the two cats we have adopted since then were both
tested... sigh.  We take the other two in tomorrow morning to be tested 
hopefully vaccinated, and then we'll bring my big boy home.  Hopefully he
will be with us for at least a few more months.  I've been scouring the
archives and can't express enough gratitude- there is so much wonderful
information  support here.  I look forward to being a part of this
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Re: [Felvtalk] Hello- new to the list.

2009-03-02 Thread Laurieskatz
Hi Amy. I didn't find out my boys were positive until they were in their
teens. The vet said they were likely carriers and since Squeaky was never
sick, the vet said his was likely in his bone marrow. Stripes was
symptomatic on and off. Stripes lived several more years (to age 16) and
Squeaky lived to age 22. 

Isabella tested positive almost 2 years ago and is the picture of health. 

Your boy could live a long life.

Keep your other kitties separate for at least 24 hours after they are
vaccinated (I can't recall if they should be separate until the booster in
30 daysdoes anyone know?).

Laurie

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Subject: [Felvtalk] Hello- new to the list.


Just wanted to say a quick hello to all the list members- i've just joined
upon learning this afternoon that my much adored 10 year old cat is
positive.  We're unsure as to how he contracted feluk as he was tested
before we adopted him, and the two cats we have adopted since then were both
tested... sigh.  We take the other two in tomorrow morning to be tested 
hopefully vaccinated, and then we'll bring my big boy home.  Hopefully he
will be with us for at least a few more months.  I've been scouring the
archives and can't express enough gratitude- there is so much wonderful
information  support here.  I look forward to being a part of this
community.  Amy
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Re: [Felvtalk] hello- new to the list.

2009-03-02 Thread Amy Ackerman

 Thanks for the welcome  kind words, Gary  Laurie.   My vet believes 
Grrr has lymphosarcoma, but for the time being the diagnostic tools recommended 
to locate the suspected spinal tumor are simply out of reach financially.  
Times are lean for everyone, I know; this was a very difficult day, deciding 
courses of treatment for this very cool, loved cat based on our credit lines.  
He's having a rough time getting around.  Grrr is also, as you may be able to 
gather from his name, not a terribly good patient.  That may be the 
understatement of the month.  He is slightly anemic as well, but his... 
attitude doesn't make him a terribly good candidate for, say, daily pills, etc. 
 He's getting a cortisol shot to see if it improves his mobility/comfort  an 
injectable, long term antibiotic (I need to get the drug name) to counter the 
immune suppressive effects of the cortisol.  He eats like a horse, so we're 
going to try some of the suggested dietary modifications as well.  Any one with 
suggestions for minimally invasive treatments (minimally invasive by this cat's 
standards is, say, tossing a tasty tidbit gently from across the room, careful 
not to let it land too close), please share as I continue to dredge through the 
archives.  My other two are keenly looking around for Grrr tonight- should be a 
fun car ride home tomorrow with all three, plus the mastiff going along to get 
her rabies vax.  I'll check back in tomorrow- good night, all, and thanks again 
for the support! 
 
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Re: [Felvtalk] Hello- new to the list.

2009-03-02 Thread Cougar Clan
Oh my.don't look at a few more months my friend.  Dixie lived  
three wonderful years.  She was full grown and with a totally unknown  
and not good history.  She had been a cared for cat at least to the  
point that she had been spayed, liked to be petted etc.  Some how she  
found herself homeless and wound up with the ferals my Mom puts food  
out for.  She was such a darling I decided to make her a farm cat and  
took her to my wonderful vets to be spayed (I didn't know she had  
been).  She tested positive, won my heart and has kept it firmly in  
her paws even though she left this world June 12, 2008.  She had  
holistic and regular vet care, the best food I could give her  
including Primal Raw which many advise against but on which she  
thrived, lots of chopped veggies high in vitamin C and iron,  
colostrum, and other supplements.  She was in wonderful health until  
just before she left this world.  The suddenness of the end  
was well, it was totally unexpected.  For a long time I  
thought she had beaten it.  The fine people on this list helped so much.


Please do not put limits on the time he will be with you.  If you do,  
you will live, if you can call it that, in dread, pain and grief.  He  
would not have that for you any more than Dixie would have wanted it  
for me.  We all leave this world.  We all leave from something.  None  
of us are guaranteed a second.  Do not exit like that.  You will  
deprive yourself of the wonderful love he gives you and the lessons he  
has to teach and you will deprive him of your unconditional love  
because, every time you look at him it will be with a dread you will  
both know.  The stress will make you both miserable and will harm your  
other cats' hearts too.  Do everything you can for all your cats and  
be very gentle with yourself.  None of this is your fault.  As much as  
you and I and all who love try to protect those we are devoted to, we  
can not protect them from everything.  We just can't. By the way,  
Dixie totally enjoyed her life but there are many on this list and  
many I know of who have lived much, much longer.  Throw away the  
calendar.  It has no place in the heart.



On Mar 2, 2009, at 8:18 PM, Amy Ackerman wrote:



Just wanted to say a quick hello to all the list members- i've just  
joined upon learning this afternoon that my much adored 10 year old  
cat is positive.  We're unsure as to how he contracted feluk as he  
was tested before we adopted him, and the two cats we have adopted  
since then were both tested... sigh.  We take the other two in  
tomorrow morning to be tested  hopefully vaccinated, and then we'll  
bring my big boy home.  Hopefully he will be with us for at least a  
few more months.  I've been scouring the archives and can't express  
enough gratitude- there is so much wonderful information  support  
here.  I look forward to being a part of this community.  Amy

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Re: [Felvtalk] hello- new to the list.

2009-03-02 Thread Chris
Amy
My Romeo was a stray who I fed a couple of years before bringing him inside.
I could do anything at all to him except pick him up or restrain him or give
him a pill.  He became ill very suddenly--had large mass in his chest cavity
and fluids in his lungs.  Treating him would have been more for me than for
him--it likely wouldn't have worked long term and though it might have given
him a bit more time, he would have been totally traumatized by it all.  I
made the choice to let him go and it was very tough.  But I knew from his
eyes that he wanted it to end before it got worse than it already had
gotten.  Best advice is from CougarClan--just throw away the calendar and
enjoy every day with what sounds like a spunky, wonderful kitty!

Christiane Biagi


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 Thanks for the welcome  kind words, Gary  Laurie.   My vet
believes Grrr has lymphosarcoma, but for the time being the diagnostic tools
recommended to locate the suspected spinal tumor are simply out of reach
financially.  Times are lean for everyone, I know; this was a very difficult
day, deciding courses of treatment for this very cool, loved cat based on
our credit lines.  He's having a rough time getting around.  Grrr is also,
as you may be able to gather from his name, not a terribly good patient.
That may be the understatement of the month.  He is slightly anemic as well,
but his... attitude doesn't make him a terribly good candidate for, say,
daily pills, etc.  He's getting a cortisol shot to see if it improves his
mobility/comfort  an injectable, long term antibiotic (I need to get the
drug name) to counter the immune suppressive effects of the cortisol.  He
eats like a horse, so we're going to try some of the suggested dietary
modifications as well.  Any one with suggestions for minimally invasive
treatments (minimally invasive by this cat's standards is, say, tossing a
tasty tidbit gently from across the room, careful not to let it land too
close), please share as I continue to dredge through the archives.  My other
two are keenly looking around for Grrr tonight- should be a fun car ride
home tomorrow with all three, plus the mastiff going along to get her rabies
vax.  I'll check back in tomorrow- good night, all, and thanks again for the
support! 
 
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