Re: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed

2010-02-18 Thread Debbie Bates

Frosty was meant to be with you, Laura...and you were there for himnever 
doubt it.  Godspeed, little oneyou are now healthy and whole.

Debbie 
“Sometimes you have to look reality in the eye and deny it” (Garrison Keillor)



 
 Date: Wed, 17 Feb 2010 17:42:15 -0800
 From: hingebacktorto...@yahoo.com
 To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
 Subject: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed
 
 I had Frosty Paws PTS this afternoon. I sat with him all day and several 
 times thought he was nearly dead, but he stayed alive long enough to make it 
 to the vet. My vet agreed that euthanasia was the best option. I had thought 
 I felt a lump, and my vet said it was lymphosarcomaso I'm at peace with 
 our decision.
 I'm just so angry at the person who gave him to me - apparently he had 
 several episodes of sickness during the time she had him, yet I was never 
 informed of this. He was presented to us as an asymptomatic cat who had just 
 happened to test positive for the virus. If I had known this, I don't think 
 I'd have taken on the heartbreak of another sick cat, especially so soon 
 after Chutney's death. I'd only had Frosty for a little over a month, and he 
 appeared to be healthy until a couple of days ago. My vet said he didn't 
 blame me for being ticked off - what if he had had some other disease that 
 could have been passed to my cats? I have 3 with FeLV and 2 with FIV, all 
 healthy...she knew her cat would have been living with mine and yet she 
 failed to fill me in completely on his condition. She'd wanted to be with him 
 when he passed, and I was so angry, I called her this morning and told her 
 Frosty hadn't made it through the night. Then I hung up on her.
 On a happier note - Bridget had her 4th LTCI injection today, and guess what? 
 She has been steadily gaining weight and visibly growing since beginning 
 treatment.
  
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Re: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed

2010-02-18 Thread Sharyl
Laura, I will light a candle for Frosty Paws to light his way on his journey to 
the Rainbow Bridge.  He passing is tragic but he had you love for his last 
month.  That counts for something.
Sharyl

--- On Wed, 2/17/10, LauraM hingebacktorto...@yahoo.com wrote:

 From: LauraM hingebacktorto...@yahoo.com
 Subject: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed
 To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
 Date: Wednesday, February 17, 2010, 8:42 PM
 I had Frosty Paws PTS this afternoon.
 I sat with him all day and several times thought he was
 nearly dead, but he stayed alive long enough to make it to
 the vet. My vet agreed that euthanasia was the best option.
 I had thought I felt a lump, and my vet said it was
 lymphosarcomaso I'm at peace with our decision.
 I'm just so angry at the person who gave him to me -
 apparently he had several episodes of sickness during the
 time she had him, yet I was never informed of this. He was
 presented to us as an asymptomatic cat who had just happened
 to test positive for the virus. If I had known this, I don't
 think I'd have taken on the heartbreak of another sick cat,
 especially so soon after Chutney's death. I'd only had
 Frosty for a little over a month, and he appeared to be
 healthy until a couple of days ago. My vet said he didn't
 blame me for being ticked off - what if he had had some
 other disease that could have been passed to my cats? I have
 3 with FeLV and 2 with FIV, all healthy...she knew her cat
 would have been living with mine and yet she failed to fill
 me in completely on his condition. She'd wanted to be with
 him when he passed, and I was so angry, I called her this
 morning and told her Frosty hadn't made it through the
 night. Then I hung up on her.
 On a happier note - Bridget had her 4th LTCI injection
 today, and guess what? She has been steadily gaining weight
 and visibly growing since beginning treatment.
  
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Re: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed

2010-02-18 Thread Beth
Laura, I understand your frustration with people, but at least you had him for 
a little while  he was loved  cared for. So many don't even get that.

Beth
Dont Litter, Fix Your Critter! www.Furkids.org   

--- On Wed, 2/17/10, LauraM hingebacktorto...@yahoo.com wrote:

From: LauraM hingebacktorto...@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Date: Wednesday, February 17, 2010, 9:33 PM

I just wish I had known his history...it probably would have been too late 
anyway, but maybe we could have started him on something, anything, that would 
have given him a little more time.
He was probably suffering for months - he was never taken to a vet until late 
last year, when he was neutered. Poor guy, he was the sweetest soul, so mellow, 
and he fit in so well with my others. I will miss him.

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[Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed

2010-02-17 Thread LauraM
I had Frosty Paws PTS this afternoon. I sat with him all day and several times 
thought he was nearly dead, but he stayed alive long enough to make it to the 
vet. My vet agreed that euthanasia was the best option. I had thought I felt a 
lump, and my vet said it was lymphosarcomaso I'm at peace with our decision.
I'm just so angry at the person who gave him to me - apparently he had several 
episodes of sickness during the time she had him, yet I was never informed of 
this. He was presented to us as an asymptomatic cat who had just happened to 
test positive for the virus. If I had known this, I don't think I'd have taken 
on the heartbreak of another sick cat, especially so soon after Chutney's 
death. I'd only had Frosty for a little over a month, and he appeared to be 
healthy until a couple of days ago. My vet said he didn't blame me for being 
ticked off - what if he had had some other disease that could have been passed 
to my cats? I have 3 with FeLV and 2 with FIV, all healthy...she knew her cat 
would have been living with mine and yet she failed to fill me in completely on 
his condition. She'd wanted to be with him when he passed, and I was so angry, 
I called her this morning and told her Frosty hadn't made it through the night. 
Then I hung up on her.
On a happier note - Bridget had her 4th LTCI injection today, and guess what? 
She has been steadily gaining weight and visibly growing since beginning 
treatment.
 
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Re: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed

2010-02-17 Thread Sally Davis
Hi Laura

I just want to tell you how sorry I am. I have been through the heartbreak 4
times. I can certainly feel your pain. Thanks for looking out for Frosty
Paws. There is a special place for you.

Sally(VA)

 ilver, and  Spike
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Re: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed

2010-02-17 Thread Sherry DeHaan
At least Frosty Paws is a peace and not sick any longer.Thank you for taking 
care of him.
Sherry  Hugs to you

We who choose to surround ourselves with lives more temporary
than our own,
Live within a fragile circle,easily and often breached.
Unable to accept its awful gaps.
We still would have it no other way

--- On Wed, 2/17/10, LauraM hingebacktorto...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: LauraM hingebacktorto...@yahoo.com
Subject: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Date: Wednesday, February 17, 2010, 8:42 PM


I had Frosty Paws PTS this afternoon. I sat with him all day and several times 
thought he was nearly dead, but he stayed alive long enough to make it to the 
vet. My vet agreed that euthanasia was the best option. I had thought I felt a 
lump, and my vet said it was lymphosarcomaso I'm at peace with our decision.
I'm just so angry at the person who gave him to me - apparently he had several 
episodes of sickness during the time she had him, yet I was never informed of 
this. He was presented to us as an asymptomatic cat who had just happened to 
test positive for the virus. If I had known this, I don't think I'd have taken 
on the heartbreak of another sick cat, especially so soon after Chutney's 
death. I'd only had Frosty for a little over a month, and he appeared to be 
healthy until a couple of days ago. My vet said he didn't blame me for being 
ticked off - what if he had had some other disease that could have been passed 
to my cats? I have 3 with FeLV and 2 with FIV, all healthy...she knew her cat 
would have been living with mine and yet she failed to fill me in completely on 
his condition. She'd wanted to be with him when he passed, and I was so angry, 
I called her this morning and told her Frosty hadn't made it through the night. 
Then I hung up on her.
On a happier note - Bridget had her 4th LTCI injection today, and guess what? 
She has been steadily gaining weight and visibly growing since beginning 
treatment.
 
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Re: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed

2010-02-17 Thread LauraM
I just wish I had known his history...it probably would have been too late 
anyway, but maybe we could have started him on something, anything, that would 
have given him a little more time.
He was probably suffering for months - he was never taken to a vet until late 
last year, when he was neutered. Poor guy, he was the sweetest soul, so mellow, 
and he fit in so well with my others. I will miss him.

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Re: [Felvtalk] Frosty Paws has passed

2010-02-17 Thread Cougar Clan
You loved him and he knew that.  It is heart breaking for you and the  
helplessness and frustration of the situation must be awful but you  
can through for the little one.  There are so many what ifs with  
this terrible disease.   Bless you for caring for this little soul.   
Perhaps one day you will know why he came into your life like this and  
why you came into his life.

On Feb 17, 2010, at 8:33 PM, LauraM wrote:

I just wish I had known his history...it probably would have been  
too late anyway, but maybe we could have started him on something,  
anything, that would have given him a little more time.
He was probably suffering for months - he was never taken to a vet  
until late last year, when he was neutered. Poor guy, he was the  
sweetest soul, so mellow, and he fit in so well with my others. I  
will miss him.


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