Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-12 Thread Nina
My sister's name is Carmella!  I think that's an excellent sign that the 
kitty Carmella would be a good sister too!

Nina

Amy Wilkins wrote:


Tad,

I am so happy to hear from you.  I was thinking of
writing you off the list but I didn't want to ask you
to take this kitty.  CJ was from this vet, Catherine
Stiner and her receptionist Judy.  They are so much
more than my veterinary team, they are great friends
and have helped me more than I can ever put into
words.

As far as getting along, I can pass on some e-mails
from my vet so that you know everything I know.  If
you were planning to take her, we'd get her and do a
fecal to make sure she is parasite free.  She is fully
vaccinated and has been on interferon for months.  She
has appeared completely healthy but is positive for
both leukemia and FIV.  As far as getting along, I
know she is a barn cat and kind of shy.  She isn't a
fighter but has been picked on as far as I know.  I
have her brother and sister I think and they are very
even tempered and love all my cats.  Her name is
Carmella and I have a picture I'll send you.  


Sorry for the late reply, just got home.  I'll forward
the e-mails to you and you can let me know what you
think.

Thanks for responding.
Amy






Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread catatonya
Amy,I have no help to offer. I'm sorry for all you're going through though. And don't ever feel like you have to justify yourself as to not taking in another cat. Most of the people on this list are in rescue and we know how it is. You have to try very hard to not feel guilty about this. You have a lot on your plate.I just want to add that I notice you have a yahoo email addy. Yahoo has been sending a TON of emails from the felv list to my bulk mail and I have been unknowingly deleted them. I went into bulk yesterday and marked felv list messages as NOT SPAM, but today your message was in bulk along with some I had sent to the list myself!So make sure your post shows up on the list and hopefully someone can help this cat.Take care,  tonyaAmy Wilkins
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  I'm writing as a follow up to an e-mail I sent theother day about a cat in Rochester, NY that needs anew home. As I mentioned, I have a dog with bonecancer and we went to see the vet today. She againasked what the chances are that I'll be able to find ahome for this cat in the next week or so. She hasbought a new house and will be moving in with a friendthat has healthy cats and is not ok with a positivekitty coming into the home. This cat has been livingat her parent's farm but she knows she can get her ifI find a home. As a vet, she can't just leave thiscat at the farm to fend for itself (nor would I wanther to) so the only option is for me to find a homefor the cat or for her to euthanize it. She is heartbroken and I'm still hopeful that I can find a homefor
 this cat. Does anybody have an opening or knowanybody that could take this cat? She will take careof all the vet care prior to sending the cat to makesure she is as healthy as can be. We will also takecare of arranging transportation. If it was any other time in my life I would take her,but my dog is very ill and I'm expecting a baby in 8weeks. I'm out of work because I'm violently sick andhave been for 32 weeks. My cats just cost me $700last week and I have another appointment for the otherones in August which will run me another $500-$600. My dog has cost me over $2000 this month and will costme between $2000 and $10,000 depending if we decide toamputate his leg. I just can't swing adding anotherpet with a baby on the way and the loss of one of ourincomes not to mention that we are just trying tominimize change and keep our Great Dane calm so hedoesn't injure the leg with the bone cancer. I
 knoweverybody is full but I promised my vet I would makeanother plea for help. I have tried everywhere Icould think of locally. Does anybody have anysuggestions??ThanksAmy __Do You Yahoo!?Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com 

Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread Nina

Hi Honey,
Gosh girl, you sure do have a lot on your plate.  Thank you so much for 
doing your best to help this kitty.  I remember you posting about her 
before, and I can hear how desperate you are to save her.  First of all, 
if you aren't able to find her a placement, do your best to not burden 
yourself with guilt over her fate.  I know how sad it is, I know what a 
helpless feeling it is when we do our best and still can't help, but you 
are not responsible for the sad state of affairs in this world.  You are 
one of the good guys with an open heart and I hate to think of you 
suffering over things that you can't change.  Where is this cat located 
again?  Kerry was talking about a new sanctuary opening up in Chicago 
that will be taking in felv kitties.  I don't know if they are up and 
running yet, but if they are just starting out, they may have some 
room.  Someone on the list might be able to tell you about other 
sanctuaries that might take her.  Have you talked to Tad yet?   (Sorry 
Tad, I just couldn't help myself). 

Prayers for being able to save your Great Dane's leg and a quick 
recovery.  Love and blessings to your fur family and that lucky child 
you're carrying,

Nina

Amy Wilkins wrote:


I'm writing as a follow up to an e-mail I sent the
other day about a cat in Rochester, NY that needs a
new home.  As I mentioned, I have a dog with bone
cancer and we went to see the vet today.  She again
asked what the chances are that I'll be able to find a
home for this cat in the next week or so.  She has
bought a new house and will be moving in with a friend
that has healthy cats and is not ok with a positive
kitty coming into the home.  This cat has been living
at her parent's farm but she knows she can get her if
I find a home.  As a vet, she can't just leave this
cat at the farm to fend for itself (nor would I want
her to) so the only option is for me to find a home
for the cat or for her to euthanize it.  She is heart
broken and I'm still hopeful that I can find a home
for this cat.  Does anybody have an opening or know
anybody that could take this cat?  She will take care
of all the vet care prior to sending the cat to make
sure she is as healthy as can be.  We will also take
care of arranging transportation. 


If it was any other time in my life I would take her,
but my dog is very ill and I'm expecting a baby in 8
weeks.  I'm out of work because I'm violently sick and
have been for 32 weeks.  My cats just cost me $700
last week and I have another appointment for the other
ones in August which will run me another $500-$600. 
My dog has cost me over $2000 this month and will cost

me between $2000 and $10,000 depending if we decide to
amputate his leg.  I just can't swing adding another
pet with a baby on the way and the loss of one of our
incomes not to mention that we are just trying to
minimize change and keep our Great Dane calm so he
doesn't injure the leg with the bone cancer.  I know
everybody is full but I promised my vet I would make
another plea for help.  I have tried everywhere I
could think of locally.  Does anybody have any
suggestions??

Thanks
Amy


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Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread Amy Wilkins
Nina,  

Thanks for writing.  As you can imagine, I'm feeling
horribly guilty about this cat.  My vet has asked me
to help a few cats in the past (mostly from clients
who didn't want to deal with a positive kitty) but
this one is her cat and she has done so much for my
babies that I feel I owe her one.  I feel like I'll be
letting her down if I can't find a home for this one
after placing all the others.  I can't help but hope
that there is a home for this one, especially since I
think I have her sister and brother as part of my
crew.  As far as justifying me not taking this one, I
feel awful asking others to make room when I'm sure
most of us are in the same spot, different situations
perhaps, but overall just as full.  I have never
turned down taking one but I feel my Dane deserves to
live out his remaining weeks or months in peace
without introducing another cat and stirring up the
mix.  He's in rough shape and I'd never forgive myself
if he broke his leg trying to play with a new house
guest.  God knows he loves his kitty companions.  

I have been trying to research sanctuaries as well but
with not a lot of luck.  I'm hoping somebody will have
some places I might try.

Thanks again
Amy



--- Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Hi Honey,
 Gosh girl, you sure do have a lot on your plate. 
 Thank you so much for 
 doing your best to help this kitty.  I remember you
 posting about her 
 before, and I can hear how desperate you are to save
 her.  First of all, 
 if you aren't able to find her a placement, do your
 best to not burden 
 yourself with guilt over her fate.  I know how sad
 it is, I know what a 
 helpless feeling it is when we do our best and still
 can't help, but you 
 are not responsible for the sad state of affairs in
 this world.  You are 
 one of the good guys with an open heart and I hate
 to think of you 
 suffering over things that you can't change.  Where
 is this cat located 
 again?  Kerry was talking about a new sanctuary
 opening up in Chicago 
 that will be taking in felv kitties.  I don't know
 if they are up and 
 running yet, but if they are just starting out, they
 may have some 
 room.  Someone on the list might be able to tell you
 about other 
 sanctuaries that might take her.  Have you talked to
 Tad yet?   (Sorry 
 Tad, I just couldn't help myself). 
 
 Prayers for being able to save your Great Dane's leg
 and a quick 
 recovery.  Love and blessings to your fur family and
 that lucky child 
 you're carrying,
 Nina
 
 Amy Wilkins wrote:
 
 I'm writing as a follow up to an e-mail I sent the
 other day about a cat in Rochester, NY that needs a
 new home.  As I mentioned, I have a dog with bone
 cancer and we went to see the vet today.  She again
 asked what the chances are that I'll be able to
 find a
 home for this cat in the next week or so.  She has
 bought a new house and will be moving in with a
 friend
 that has healthy cats and is not ok with a positive
 kitty coming into the home.  This cat has been
 living
 at her parent's farm but she knows she can get her
 if
 I find a home.  As a vet, she can't just leave this
 cat at the farm to fend for itself (nor would I
 want
 her to) so the only option is for me to find a home
 for the cat or for her to euthanize it.  She is
 heart
 broken and I'm still hopeful that I can find a home
 for this cat.  Does anybody have an opening or know
 anybody that could take this cat?  She will take
 care
 of all the vet care prior to sending the cat to
 make
 sure she is as healthy as can be.  We will also
 take
 care of arranging transportation. 
 
 If it was any other time in my life I would take
 her,
 but my dog is very ill and I'm expecting a baby in
 8
 weeks.  I'm out of work because I'm violently sick
 and
 have been for 32 weeks.  My cats just cost me $700
 last week and I have another appointment for the
 other
 ones in August which will run me another $500-$600.
 
 My dog has cost me over $2000 this month and will
 cost
 me between $2000 and $10,000 depending if we decide
 to
 amputate his leg.  I just can't swing adding
 another
 pet with a baby on the way and the loss of one of
 our
 incomes not to mention that we are just trying to
 minimize change and keep our Great Dane calm so he
 doesn't injure the leg with the bone cancer.  I
 know
 everybody is full but I promised my vet I would
 make
 another plea for help.  I have tried everywhere I
 could think of locally.  Does anybody have any
 suggestions??
 
 Thanks
 Amy
 
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Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread Amy Wilkins
Tonya,

Thanks for the advice.  I've been having to read all
my 
e-mail out of my bulk folder as well so I know what
you mean about people missing the posts.  

Amy

--- catatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Amy,

   I have no help to offer.  I'm sorry for all you're
 going through though.  And don't ever feel like you
 have to justify yourself as to not taking in another
 cat.  Most of the people on this list are in rescue
 and we know how it is.  You have to try very hard to
 not feel guilty about this. You have a lot on your
 plate.

   I just want to add that I notice you have a yahoo
 email addy.  Yahoo has been sending a TON of emails
 from the felv list to my bulk mail and I have been
 unknowingly deleted them.   I went into bulk
 yesterday and marked felv list messages as NOT SPAM,
 but today your message was in bulk along with some I
 had sent to the list myself!

   So make sure your post shows up on the list and
 hopefully someone can help this cat.

   Take care,
   tonya
 
 Amy Wilkins [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   I'm writing as a follow up to an e-mail I sent the
 other day about a cat in Rochester, NY that needs a
 new home. As I mentioned, I have a dog with bone
 cancer and we went to see the vet today. She again
 asked what the chances are that I'll be able to find
 a
 home for this cat in the next week or so. She has
 bought a new house and will be moving in with a
 friend
 that has healthy cats and is not ok with a positive
 kitty coming into the home. This cat has been living
 at her parent's farm but she knows she can get her
 if
 I find a home. As a vet, she can't just leave this
 cat at the farm to fend for itself (nor would I want
 her to) so the only option is for me to find a home
 for the cat or for her to euthanize it. She is heart
 broken and I'm still hopeful that I can find a home
 for this cat. Does anybody have an opening or know
 anybody that could take this cat? She will take care
 of all the vet care prior to sending the cat to make
 sure she is as healthy as can be. We will also take
 care of arranging transportation. 
 
 If it was any other time in my life I would take
 her,
 but my dog is very ill and I'm expecting a baby in 8
 weeks. I'm out of work because I'm violently sick
 and
 have been for 32 weeks. My cats just cost me $700
 last week and I have another appointment for the
 other
 ones in August which will run me another $500-$600. 
 My dog has cost me over $2000 this month and will
 cost
 me between $2000 and $10,000 depending if we decide
 to
 amputate his leg. I just can't swing adding another
 pet with a baby on the way and the loss of one of
 our
 incomes not to mention that we are just trying to
 minimize change and keep our Great Dane calm so he
 doesn't injure the leg with the bone cancer. I know
 everybody is full but I promised my vet I would make
 another plea for help. I have tried everywhere I
 could think of locally. Does anybody have any
 suggestions??
 
 Thanks
 Amy 
 
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Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread Nina
Does this kitty have a name?  I know you will do everything you can to 
save her.  I can't seem to come up with any suggestions that I'm sure 
you haven't thought about already.  Your subject line says she's felv 
and fiv pos, is that right?  I'll meditate on it and let you know if I 
come up with anything.  You and she are in my prayers,

Nina

Amy Wilkins wrote:

Nina,  


Thanks for writing.  As you can imagine, I'm feeling
horribly guilty about this cat.  






Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread Tad Burnett

Hi Amy and Nina
  I have been reading all this...
Would this vet be one of the ones CJ is named after ???

I guess I broke my mold and adopted a double pos. a short while ago
and she seems as healthy as a horse and doing fine with my indoor
colony of now 11...  She had a little trouble with others getting too close
especially at feeding time but now is pretty well adjusted...
She looks like she could be Switters twin...

If I were to take this cat do you think she would adjust easily to the crowd
here??? And I guess you have had her long enough so we can be fairly
sure she wouldn't bring anything else here that could be disastrous to my
cats here
Let me know what you think..
Tad

Nina wrote:

Does this kitty have a name?  I know you will do everything you can to 
save her.  I can't seem to come up with any suggestions that I'm sure 
you haven't thought about already.  Your subject line says she's felv 
and fiv pos, is that right?  I'll meditate on it and let you know if I 
come up with anything.  You and she are in my prayers,

Nina

Amy Wilkins wrote:

Nina, 
Thanks for writing.  As you can imagine, I'm feeling
horribly guilty about this cat. 











Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread catatonya
I love you too Tad!tNina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  Tad,Have I told you lately that I love you??NinaTad Burnett wrote: Hi Amy and Nina I have been reading all this... Would this vet be one of the ones CJ is named after ??? I guess I broke my mold and adopted a double pos. a short while ago and she seems as healthy as a horse and doing fine with my indoor colony of now 11... She had a little trouble with others getting too  close especially at feeding time but now is pretty well adjusted... She looks like she could be Switters twin... If I were to take this cat do you think she would adjust easily to the  crowd here??? And I guess you have had her long enough so we can be
 fairly sure she wouldn't bring anything else here that could be disastrous to my cats here Let me know what you think.. Tad

RE: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








Oh my gosh.. Tadyou are making me
cry --- I thought of so hard that I should offer to take herbut I know
that you will be able to offer a better home for her..

I dont if there is anything I can
do to help transport.. or anything..



Tad.. you are my hero..

Thank you so very much..

Hideyo











From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of catatonya
Sent: Tuesday, July 11, 2006 12:46
PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: FeLV/FIV Positive
Kitty Needs Home - Urgent







I love you too Tad!











t

Nina
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:





Tad,
Have I told you lately that I love you??
Nina

Tad Burnett wrote:

 Hi Amy and Nina
 I have been reading all this...
 Would this vet be one of the ones CJ is named after ???

 I guess I broke my mold and adopted a double pos. a short while ago
 and she seems as healthy as a horse and doing fine with my indoor
 colony of now 11... She had a little trouble with others getting too 
 close
 especially at feeding time but now is pretty well adjusted...
 She looks like she could be Switters twin...

 If I were to take this cat do you think she would adjust easily to the 
 crowd
 here??? And I guess you have had her long enough so we can be fairly
 sure she wouldn't bring anything else here that could be disastrous to my
 cats here
 Let me know what you think..
 Tad















Re: FeLV/FIV Positive Kitty Needs Home - Urgent

2006-07-11 Thread Amy Wilkins
Tad,

I am so happy to hear from you.  I was thinking of
writing you off the list but I didn't want to ask you
to take this kitty.  CJ was from this vet, Catherine
Stiner and her receptionist Judy.  They are so much
more than my veterinary team, they are great friends
and have helped me more than I can ever put into
words.

As far as getting along, I can pass on some e-mails
from my vet so that you know everything I know.  If
you were planning to take her, we'd get her and do a
fecal to make sure she is parasite free.  She is fully
vaccinated and has been on interferon for months.  She
has appeared completely healthy but is positive for
both leukemia and FIV.  As far as getting along, I
know she is a barn cat and kind of shy.  She isn't a
fighter but has been picked on as far as I know.  I
have her brother and sister I think and they are very
even tempered and love all my cats.  Her name is
Carmella and I have a picture I'll send you.  

Sorry for the late reply, just got home.  I'll forward
the e-mails to you and you can let me know what you
think.

Thanks for responding.
Amy
  


--- Tad Burnett [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Hi Amy and Nina
I have been reading all this...
 Would this vet be one of the ones CJ is named after
 ???
  
 I guess I broke my mold and adopted a double pos. a
 short while ago
 and she seems as healthy as a horse and doing fine
 with my indoor
 colony of now 11...  She had a little trouble with
 others getting too close
 especially at feeding time but now is pretty well
 adjusted...
 She looks like she could be Switters twin...
 
 If I were to take this cat do you think she would
 adjust easily to the crowd
 here??? And I guess you have had her long enough so
 we can be fairly
 sure she wouldn't bring anything else here that
 could be disastrous to my
 cats here
 Let me know what you think..
 Tad
 
 Nina wrote:
 
  Does this kitty have a name?  I know you will do
 everything you can to 
  save her.  I can't seem to come up with any
 suggestions that I'm sure 
  you haven't thought about already.  Your subject
 line says she's felv 
  and fiv pos, is that right?  I'll meditate on it
 and let you know if I 
  come up with anything.  You and she are in my
 prayers,
  Nina
 
  Amy Wilkins wrote:
 
  Nina, 
  Thanks for writing.  As you can imagine, I'm
 feeling
  horribly guilty about this cat. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


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