g_b India Enlists Barbers In Fight Against HIV/AIDS

2005-12-27 Thread Ketan_
India Enlists Barbers In Fight Against HIV/AIDS
by The Associated Press 

Posted: December 27, 2005  3:00 pm ET 
 

(New Delhi) Along with the usual hair lotions and creams, Ganga Ram, 
a barber who does business in the shade of banyan tree, also has the 
latest tools of his trade - a small pile of condoms and booklets on 
AIDS prevention.

When men settle into Ram's barber chair in New Delhi's Lajpat Nagar 
market they become captive to what Ram calls his "real mission" - to 
help them avoid the deadly virus that has infected 5.13 million 
people in this country of a billion people.

India may be the birthplace of Kama Sutra, the 6th century sex 
manual, but it is also a deeply conservative society. Gay sex is 
punishable by prison terms and discussing any sexual matters is 
usually taboo.  That makes India's chatty, itinerant barbers a 
valuable means of spreading the AIDS message.

A unique prevention program has trained Ram and more than 10,000 
barbers in sterilizing their razors and scissors, and has also 
tutored them to promote condom use, recognize the symptoms of AIDS 
and answer commonly asked questions about the illness.

"Sometimes men find it awkward to discuss their sexual habits. Then 
I wait till their faces are covered with shaving foam, or I've 
started cutting their hair, before broaching the topic," says Ram 
with a wry laugh. "They can't run away then."

Indian barbers have a history of offering more than just cutting 
hair. Traditionally they would travel from village to far-flung 
village, giving haircuts to regular customers. As they became 
familiar figures, they often would serve as matchmakers for their 
customers' families, and spread news of births, deaths or gossip.

Today, all over India, the barbershop - often little more than a 
chair, a mirror and a pair of scissors - is where men gather each 
day, reading the newspaper and chatting as they await their turn.

It is where Swiss-based Association Francois-Xavier Bagnoud, a 
health-centered aid agency, saw an opportunity to get the men's 
attention.

Take the case of Sumeru Mahto. An itinerant construction worker, he 
moves around New Delhi a lot but always returns to the same barber 
for his twice-weekly shave, and stays to chat.

"This city is crowded with strangers who come in search of work. 
They have no families, few friends," said Mahto. "You could say the 
barber is the closest I have to family in this city."

The intervention program has put this traditional barber's role to 
use.

"Often it's not easy. Men are still shy about discussing their 
sexual encounters, but I find they tell me things they wouldn't even 
tell their wives," said Ram.

Experts say education is vital in India, where sexually transmitted 
diseases are attributed to bad hygiene awareness, widespread 
migration of labor, low literacy levels and gender disparities.

Manisha Pal, a coordinator of the barber program, said another 
reason for targeting men is that most women in male-dominated India 
often have no power to make sex-related decisions.

If a barber suspects a problem, he refers the customer to an AIDS 
clinic, she said.

The agency works closely with India's state-run National AIDS 
Control Organization which supplies it with the free condoms and 
information booklets.

Barbers are also able to reach out to the gay community in India 
even though homosexuality remains a crime under an archaic law that 
dates to British colonial rule.

But Pal notes: "Even homosexual men need haircuts, and have 
responded well to the program."

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2005-12-27 Thread gaybombaygroup
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g_b Re: ~Dear friend Asfan~

2005-12-27 Thread ~Sahil~



Dear Asfan,  Dont say so! after all every individual in this Universe holds his own Place & charmisma so, please get back to your old job & do entertain us.  Sumtimes too many Cooks make up a surprisingly "Tempting & Never-ending Tasty dish", So please don't let the flavor of your delicious dishes Die off our Mind-budss (or taste buds)  I again say that I always appreciate all your time & effort devoted towards this.  God bless.  Sahil.asfan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:  Thank you, dear Sahil, for the sentiments expressed.  I find that many new subscribers are posting jokes,
 news items etc.   There is a plethora of such things now.  Ergo, I have decided to desist from adding  any more - there is a lot of truth in   the old adage, "Too many cooks spoil the broth."  I thank you once again and offer my good wishes for a very happy and prosperous new year to one and all.  Asfan.  ~Sahil~ <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:  This one is for our Old GB friend Asfan:     Asfan I really miss all your postings & jokes (I know many others also do miss them) that you use to send us thru' GB group.  Why silent?? 
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g_b how clever r u?

2005-12-27 Thread r r



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g_b hanuman pic

2005-12-27 Thread Lov dude
I strongly recommend moderator to keep religion out of this group .
  this is not place to send Shri Hanuman picture .Its simply disgrace to 
feelings of Hindus .
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hun?

someone posted a nice pic of lord hanuman, so allowed it 


what's wrong?

i thought it was a goood pic

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g_b (PERSONAL EMAIL) a request from Manan - "Tomorrow Never Comes"

2005-12-27 Thread manan singh KATOHORA
...special request/message at the bottom of this email...
   
   
   
  Tomorrow Never Comes
- By Norma Marek 


  If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly, and pray the Lord your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss, and call you back for just one more.

If I knew it would be the last time I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would tape each word and action, and play them back throughout my days
If I knew it would be the last time, I would spare an extra minute or two,
To stop and say "I love you," instead of assuming you know I do. 

So, just in case tomorrow never comes, and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you, and I hope we never will forget.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight.

So, if you're waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes, you'll surely regret the day
That you didn't take that extra time for a smile, a hug, or a kiss,
And you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their one last 
wish.

So hold your loved ones close today, and whisper in their ear,
That you love them very much, and you'll always hold them dear.
Take time to say "I'm sorry," "Please forgive me," "thank you" or "it's okay".
And if tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today.

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g_b Plz help me

2005-12-27 Thread vijay jadhav


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Re: g_b Man!! he is soooo Hott!!

2005-12-27 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay



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Re: g_b Annie Proulx Brokeback Mountain - Transgendered Voices - Wyoming

2005-12-27 Thread fk





The original story Brokeback mountain does have its 
own 'original' murder/torture sequence
 
'married sex addicts' huh??? h'm my dear liz, ya 
couldna' ha' put it better!!!
 
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  Annie Proulx -
   
  I had the great pleasure of seeing Brokeback Mountain at the 10 AM 
  showing at the Mayan in Denver on Christmas..
   
  I feel that your story has been very respectfully filmed in light of the 
  current needs to produce a box office worthy movie..
   
  It is with the possible exception of Philadelphia Story the most 
  accessible serious film with gay characters for the day-to-day non-gay public 
  that I have seen...here or in India..
   
  As you can imagine of great importance to me are the story's setting in 
  Wyoming...which has been unfairly bashed in the world media...since the 
  senseless killing of Matthew Shepard by simple thieving criminals from 
  families as familiar to you on your side of Laramie as they were on mine...in 
  Iron Mountain...
   
  The culture and people of Wyoming are interpreted by the actors in 
  an  honest manner from the two cowboys to Ennis's daughter and to Jack's 
  parents..
   
  I felt a little embarrassed by  the awkward representations of 
  murder of gay men in Wyoming in Texas and sadly felt that they had been 
  undeftly edited and placed in the movie to get the greatest buzz from certain 
  members of the public who require gore to validate their own personal 
  preconceptions...but these two murders were not major in the time elapsed and 
  were good foils to help focus attention on the brutal response that can 
  erupt from people unable to understand the objects of their own personal 
  fears...
   
  i.e. 
   
  the rural cowboy population of Jack Twists youth...in whichboth you 
  and I know from our friends and acquaintances in Wyoming... homosexual 
  behaviour has always been a private, but common entity that was 
  generally not flashed around as a public ideal in the conservative and family 
  oriented society...just as extramarital sex and prostitution though very 
  common are not given any kudos either..
   
  and
   
  the frustration of Jack's wife at being excluded from an unknown endeavor 
  that obviously gave her husband Jack a great deal of pleasure..
   
  almost certainly she found out about the details of Jacks extracurriclar 
  activities the same accidental way that Ennis's wife and the line boss of the 
  sheep ranch did before her...and had Jack killed and then moved on with 
  her new life with a ranch manager who treated  her better..
   
  Jack and Ennis are very much like many of the gay working cowboys that I 
  know today...both in their incredible strengths and fatal flaws...I am happy 
  that the story was told in pre-HIV. 1960s Wyoming...so that the veiwers could 
  focus on the incredible web of interpersonal relationships that even simple 
  people weave around themselves...and to then allow us to objectively analyze 
  both the good and poor choices anyone can make in life...and the frequently 
  disastrous outcomes that can come from a self-centered individual's 
  frequently confused thought process... instead of being diverted by the 
  present war on AIDS that has engulfed much of the gay media and 
thought..
   
  I currently have an order into Amazon.com for three copies of Brokeback 
  Mountain to use in our Bangalore and Calcutta, India programs to show married 
  sex addicts who feel that their compulsive daliences with female prostitutes, 
  gay men and hijara/eunuchs can do to destroy not just the lives of their 
  innocent wives and children...but ultimately themselves as well..
   
  India is a patriarchal culture where the women rarely dare to act as 
  Jack's wife did and generally are not given the outlet of honourable and 
  equitable divorce that Ennis' wife chose...the movie thus could be used in 
  assisting the disenfranchised married women of India 
  too.. 
   
  Have a great Winter...I feel much like Tom Horn exiled to burial in the 
  cemetery in Boulder, Colorado these days...as I am sure you might have heard 
  that I have sold my beloved Iron Mountain Ranch to facilitate my work 
  assisting the hijara/eunuch population in India...at least unlike Tom I can 
  walk away into a new and intriguing life instead of being dropped into the 
  black hole of eternity at the end of a rope..
   
  I will forward copies of this email to Sampoorna an Indian TG group, 
  Sappho a Calcutta lesbian group, Gaybombay a Mumbai gay group and Ashok Row 
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g_b achchu pizhai

2005-12-27 Thread idont likeit
Hi,

Found on the 'The Hindu' morning. Could be considered
first such movie in tamil or more aptly a video film.
Vignesh is making a movie on transgenders. of a guy
who gets into medical college and what happens as he
starts realizing about his sexuality. The title is
"achchu pizhai" meaning "errata". atleast the title
touched me. anyone knows more about this. and u know
what. vignesh is cute. :)

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g_b How Friends Break.�.!!!

2005-12-27 Thread jimmy khan



  How Friends Break.….!!!        Both Friends will think the other is busy  And will not contact thinking it may B disturbing.     As time passes both will think let the other contact.  After that each will think why should I contact first.     Here UR love will be converted to HATE.  Finally without
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It was a warm, sunny Sunday, so a man and his wife decided to take in the zoo. They spent the day and at closing time they walked past the gorilla cage and the man noticed the gorilla looking at his wife."That gorilla is getting excited just looking at your boobs," he said. "Why don't you take your blouse off and we'll see what he does?"At first she declined but finally persuaded by her husband, she took off her blouse and bra. The gorilla went nuts. He started grunting and jumping up and down."Hey," the husband said, "let's really blow his mind. Take off all your clothes and we'll see what he does." Again she said no and again he persuaded her.This time the ape really went bananas! He climbed up and down the bars,did flips, ran around in circles and tossed his food all over the cage.The husband went over to the cage, opened the door and pushed his wife
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g_b The GayBombay New Year's Eve Party at Karma!

2005-12-27 Thread DM



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g_b Mathematics in Heaven

2005-12-27 Thread naughty confessions



  Once all the scientists die and go to  heaven They decide  to play hide-n-seek.Unfortunately Einstein is the one who has the den...He is supposed to count up to 100...and then start searching.      Everyone starts hiding except Newton.  Newton just draws a square of 1 meter and stands in it right in front of Einstein...      Einstein's counting  1,2,3..97,98,99.100 He opens his eyes and finds Newton standing in front      Einstein says "newton's out..newton'sout."  Newton denies and says i am not out   He claims that he is not Newton..     All the scientists come out to see how he proves that he is not Newton..     Newton says "I am standing in a square of area 1m squared. That makes me Newton per meter squared.. since one Newton per meter squared is one Pascal, I'm Pascal, Therefore Pascal is OUT...!        
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Re: g_b tops n bots

2005-12-27 Thread RAJEEV
Hi Deepak.
This is so very true, and in return they
like to do nothing.

Rajeev.
--- Philo Sophy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

i think those so-called self-proclaimed "tops" are really hetero creeps who 
couldn't screw any gals and NOT GAYS at all !! Also, some r of the sort who 
wanna derive pleasure from whatever way! 

regards deepak 

farhad mizrahi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: From the bottom of my bottom i do 
swear I am Versatile Bottom ( and a part time Top 
) 

how does that sound? 

well i guess the term queer was created for a purpose. right? 'Cause the world 
is full of people who dont fit in simple categories. 

i like to fool around a lot so i end up frequenting chatrooms and have met some 
really interesting blokes and a lot of duds as well. Duds who claim to be 
"total tops" They tell me not to expect a blowjob (i guess its not a very 
masucline thing to perform fellatio) but to give them one after which they 
would like to take me from behind. 

unhh...Boring. 

Ofcourse a lotta people would like that but somehow i think its more about 
power relations. in case of heterosexuals the man is always the fucker and the 
woman is always fucked (even in the cowgirl position) 'Cause she is the one who 
is being penetrated 

man:woman active:passive powerful:powerless 

Its really sad when these power dynamics are translated into gay relations. 
Ofcourse its none of my business to comment on people's tastes in bed but what 
I cant tolerate is the attitude that the 'tops' wear. are you guys really 
insecure about your masculinity that you have to assert it by being so cocky 
about it? you may refuse to suck dick but its most sickening when somebody 
insists on being 'serviced' worse goes around bragging about his manliness 
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g_b The Times of India

2005-12-27 Thread Manoj



This is for all Salman fans covering some parts of his life from todays TOI .
(Sadly majority of pics have him with his shirt on :(  )
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Re: g_b Annie Proulx Brokeback Mountain - Transgendered Voices - Wyoming

2005-12-27 Thread AJ



HI EJ, how can you be so sure that JAcks wife got hime killed. its just your interepretation right (?).. I saw  the film a few days ago and thoroghly enjoyed it...But i wondered if i would enjoy the film as much if the two leads were not as good looking..  On the whole i guess the film is pretty good and  i was rather surprised that 90% of the viewers in my show were straight couples...  cheers  aj[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  Annie Proulx -     I had the great pleasure of seeing Brokeback Mountain at the 10 AM showing at the Mayan in Denver on Christmas..     I feel that your story has been very respectfully filmed in
 light of the current needs to produce a box office worthy movie..     It is with the possible exception of Philadelphia Story the most accessible serious film with gay characters for the day-to-day non-gay public that I have seen...here or in India..     As you can imagine of great importance to me are the story's setting in Wyoming...which has been unfairly bashed in the world media...since the senseless killing of Matthew Shepard by simple thieving criminals from families as familiar to you on your side of Laramie as they were on mine...in Iron Mountain...     The culture and people of Wyoming are interpreted by the actors in an  honest manner from the two cowboys to Ennis's daughter and to Jack's parents..     I felt a little embarrassed by  the awkward representations of murder of gay men in Wyoming in Texas and sadly felt that they had been undeftly edited and
 placed in the movie to get the greatest buzz from certain members of the public who require gore to validate their own personal preconceptions...but these two murders were not major in the time elapsed and were good foils to help focus attention on the brutal response that can erupt from people unable to understand the objects of their own personal fears...     i.e.      the rural cowboy population of Jack Twists youth...in whichboth you and I know from our friends and acquaintances in Wyoming... homosexual behaviour has always been a private, but common entity that was generally not flashed around as a public ideal in the conservative and family oriented society...just as extramarital sex and prostitution though very common are not given any kudos either..     and     the frustration of Jack's wife at being excluded from an unknown endeavor
 that obviously gave her husband Jack a great deal of pleasure..     almost certainly she found out about the details of Jacks extracurriclar activities the same accidental way that Ennis's wife and the line boss of the sheep ranch did before her...and had Jack killed and then moved on with her new life with a ranch manager who treated  her better..     Jack and Ennis are very much like many of the gay working cowboys that I know today...both in their incredible strengths and fatal flaws...I am happy that the story was told in pre-HIV. 1960s Wyoming...so that the veiwers could focus on the incredible web of interpersonal relationships that even simple people weave around themselves...and to then allow us to objectively analyze both the good and poor choices anyone can make in life...and the frequently disastrous outcomes that can come from a self-centered individual's frequently confused thought process...
 instead of being diverted by the present war on AIDS that has engulfed much of the gay media and thought..     I currently have an order into Amazon.com for three copies of Brokeback Mountain to use in our Bangalore and Calcutta, India programs to show married sex addicts who feel that their compulsive daliences with female prostitutes, gay men and hijara/eunuchs can do to destroy not just the lives of their innocent wives and children...but ultimately themselves as well..     India is a patriarchal culture where the women rarely dare to act as Jack's wife did and generally are not given the outlet of honourable and equitable divorce that Ennis' wife chose...the movie thus could be used in assisting the disenfranchised married women of India too..      Have a great Winter...I feel much like Tom Horn exiled to burial in the cemetery in Boulder, Colorado these days...as I am sure you might
 have heard that I have sold my beloved Iron Mountain Ranch to facilitate my work assisting the hijara/eunuch population in India...at least unlike Tom I can walk away into a new and intriguing life instead of being dropped into the black hole of eternity at the end of a rope..     I will forward copies of this email to Sampoorna an Indian TG group, Sappho a Calcutta lesbian group, Gaybombay a Mumbai gay group and Ashok Row Kavi my icon of Indian social work through his Humsafar Trust..     Best..     Elizabeth Jeffords  Transgendered Voices     
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